Would you consider putting a ban on children/pregnancy for some time? Theres too much on the dash and it is not what I came here for.
I completely understand this (seeing as pregnancy/baby talk is a trigger for me personally and I am not the only one) and we do have a strict two-pregnancies-at-a-time rule, but I'm afraid it would be unfair to completely ban children.
It's come to my attention that there are a couple of characters that are attempting to rush those whose characters are pregnant at the time - please understand that this rule is very important to us, and that there are no loopholes. I've been in multiple rps that had baby booms resulting into only talk of children and photos of them on the dash constantly, and I personally don't find that fun or what needs to be found in a bandom rpg. I understand that children do happen in the real world, it's alright if they have a child in real life or if it is a part of a character's secret, and I know that we should not completely ban pregnancy from the rp, especially since we're one of the first I've ever been in that almost has a 1:1 ratio of men and women.
But it would be wonderful if people could stop rushing the people whose characters are pregnant, ask for pregnancy to randomly be added to part of their secret, or plan to announce that they've already been pregnant while the ban was in place. There is a reason for the limit, and if you plan to have your entire character based off of a pregnancy plot/multiple pregnancy plots and desire to do it now and disrespect the rule, we understand that this is not the game for you. It is not fair to us that you go against the rules that we have set for people to feel comfortable or to completely overlook our desire to keep baby booms from happening.
I'm not asking everyone to tag every post having to do with it, I'm not saying you're not allowed to post about it, and children can be cute and all. Please just remember that this is a bandom rpg and not a baby-based rpg. If there are any concerns, please message me here - I'll try to get on aim at mod.f , but it hasn't been working too well for me lately. I'm sorry I have to make this post, as well, but please remember that we have characters in the rp and we do hear about what's going on.