Recently, I discovered a meme that quotes “seems like I'm the only person who doesn't have kids.” For me, that’s true. I’m twenty two as of right now and I don't necessarily would like to wait forever to have kids. However, what’s so wrong with wanting to experience more to life before creating one?
My whole life I’ve always lived in Florida. I’ve never been on a cruise, I’ve never been to a real concert and never have I ever been to Disney World. These are things and places people like to enjoy when they vacation here in Florida, you would think generally the people that live here permanently would have at least experience two out of these three things. Not me.
But why is it so bad to still want to do these things now? Most people my age already have a kid or already on their third child. I scroll and see these people lives that look so happy because they’re kids are a blessing. I truly believe that is a beautiful thing to have. I’m with somebody who has a kid already and sometimes it’s hard to absorb what I think I should be doing sometimes.
It’s not everyday we see his son, considering joint custody between parents. I know what I got myself into when we starting dating, but its been five years now. I just want to experience things people my age are able to do before I'm settled down like most people my age already are.