taurus rising is social houses in water signs.
they have a generous heart for their community. generally as no boundaries as a taurus gets. they love to hear everybody out. the weirdo, the antihero, the mean girl. they do not mind having people of all different paths in various social circles. but you might notice they are slippery. the slip in and out of all these circles easily adapting to each, collecting stories, collecting wisdom from all these people. effervescent ephemeral. that does not mean that anything goes in their little communities. they are open to all life paths as long as you don’t have your values all wrong. as long as they feel like you have a good heart they will let a lot slide. at the end of the day .. whats not their monkey, thats not their circus. they know what they think its the truth.
but make no mistake. just because they would invite you for dinner, introduce you to their acquaintance they feel like you would get along with great, invite you to their get together of all these lovable weirdos or wouldn’t let you sleep outside in the freezing cold … doesn’t mean they feel like you get to know them like that. you might even notice the closer you get to them the more enclosed they become. if they feel like you are a friend of a friend .. off they go blabbering on about their dreams and ideas, feelings and impressions. but if you’re going to be in their day to day .. oh boy, they put their big kid shell on and you might noticed them waiting to see if they can invest in you. they will gladly take care of you or help you. they will love it if you open up emotionally to them. just with them opening up to you might take some time and be indirect. because once you’re in you’re in and taken care of. they might actually be mad if you take their caregiver spotlight. in that vain they might be the one turning into a huge baby
you may have noticed this resistance to one on one hang outs. and maybe they are the one person who is really picky with people they date (really nitpicky and critical if you will). they might be scrambling to look for buffer people to have on these one on one hangouts. they might indeed fear that you won’t be talking enough and they might reveal more about themselves than they are comfortable with. it’s not this desire to be mysterious, it’s out of fear of getting vulnerable and you leaving them. they know that people are unstable points in their lives and they are trying to protect themselves from getting attached. because once you are theirs you are THEIRS and you no longer have a say in that matter . if a taurus rising likes spending time with you one on one, just know that you are special. with most people they probably feel a little on edge, a little paranoid, they are censoring themselves. or silently listening collecting all the information on that other person. if their avoidant ass doesnt run for the hills when they feel attached to you, they will make it a point to understand you, you will occupy their mind to the point of not having to say anything for them to know. possibly years of restricted vulnerability will be unleashed on you in a way that is deeply transformative to them, and you know they hate change more than anything. they will grow to someone who is fit for merging your two souls into one. just so you know they are terrified of abandonment and they might get very possessive and obsessive if they feel you slipping from them and tighten their grip on you even if they have to metaphorically strangle you. and if you do indeed make them feel abandoned, you will have created a stubborn enemy for life. for they do hold grudges like it is their life purpose.
and for you my taurus rising, people much like plants need space, water and air to grow, to live. i know you are afraid, my baby. you need to loosen your grip a little. i know you need to go at your own pace and other people do too, so do not rush them and if they are rushing you, let them go. let go. let go of grudges. let go of resentment. let go of entitlement. and stop giving people the damn silent treatment. love will never be perfect the way you want it. people won’t behave in the exact ways you want them to. especially if you shut down and go into your intricate schemes and paranoid ideations to make them. the only think you can control is yourself. so let go.. wont it be way more comfortable this way??