#tbb.rambles

[yourbigendergremlet]

Genderfluid not in the sense of "im a girl today" "im nonbinary today" but in the sense that my gender is not really a tangible solid thing at any given time but instead a concept that is ever changing and flowing even though i can't put a specific word onto it at any given moment

[yourbigendergremlet-temp]

There is something about drag that appeals to me so much. The ability to cover yourself in makeup and exadgerated clothing to make a persona to be able to go all out and gain confidence is so amazing to me,

If i knew how to do makeup or could stand the feeling of makeup on my face, i would try drag

Man i wanna be a drag queen/king

[candy8448]

Okay so

I like the kind of blogs where its like "[gender label] safe space" and stuff like that but there are hardly any active Bigender ones, i only see @your-bigender-big-brother

And there are no genderfluid ones that i see other than @barbthebuilder

So im wondering if i make one

I dunno if i should make it bigender or bigenderfluid/flux

I dunno

Also what should i call it?

Okay so i made it!

Its called @yourbigendergremlet

[yourbigendergremlet]

Every tiktok pride month series that is like "[styling/makup/drawing this] based of pride flags" and then its lesbian, bi, trans, ace, gay flag in that order, a nonbinary randomly placed somewhere in that order maybe a pansexual flag, and then the series ends. Ah gotta love how litterally nobody else ever gets covered 👍👍👍

[yourbigendergremlet]

Was filling in a form and found this

The "please provide details" only appears when you click the "i prefer to self describe" so that you can write your identity in it

[yourbigendergremlet]

Being trans is like going through puberty and then getting the option to play as luigi

[yourbigendergremlet]

Ive noticed something:

(Ive noticed this a lot over time but finally decided to put it into words)

Nonbinary people or just anyone who is gender neutral or litterally any gender that does not explicitly include "boy" or "man" tend to be seen as so many people, even other lgbt+ people as women, or woman lite and are usually included in women spaces and allowed to be lesbian (if that's what you like, i dont mind im making a general statement)

However, presenting as gender neutral tends to be seen as looking more masculine. Its always the no boobs, short hair, not hight voice, baggy clothes etcetera. Little to none of the things ive seen about presenting or passing as nonbinary include anything that features on women and tend to lean towards presenting masc and having male features (again, if that is what you like, im not judging)

Being nonbinary, or genderqueer or gender neutral or anything along those lines are not a "middle ground" between man and woman, they are also not a third gender that makes it a trinary, it is its own thing but people, including other lgbt+ people tend to lump in nonbinary people with either being women (or womanlite), or looking masculine when that is just not the case.

[yourbigendergremlet]

Art idea:

Just like, hundreds of people laying on the ground forming the shapes of the letters for LGBT+ and each one wearing a different flag for a different sexuality or identity

Because i see a lot of art where it hardly includes any flags other than the ones in the letters and barely includes anything else

And im thinking, like we wont be able to include every single label yet, but at least it would include a load more and not just have the gay, lesbian, bi and trans flag flashed in your face while ignoring everything else