Feb 13
I'll be real I think the main reason I've been avoiding this blog is that I'm still deep in the internal debate trenches of "you don't need to be comfortable with this, you just need to coexist with it" that's crucial for existing in the kink space. There are only like. Two v common kinks that make me so disturbed that it makes me wary of the people who have them, which is NOT mindset that I can have in this corner of the internet. I know I don't have to interact, and I can block all I want, I just need to accept that those kinks have just as much space as the others. It's something that's going to take some time, but I know I'll get there.
#the second reason:#I work in childcare#sometimes kids and parents alike piss me off/stress me out SO MUCH that I want to forget they exist outside work#so being that my kink is adjacent to parenthood in terms of plot development#I get annoyed by my own ocs being parents that I want nothing to do with them for a hot sec#been wanting to explore ovi a bit more for that reason