#tiny bit?

[inconclusionray]

me: (I... have found Chris Evans/Sebastian Whatever RPF? Um?)

hereeatthiskitten: that is not surprising at all

me: IT IS A LITTLE SURPRISING

me: YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE A LITTLE SURPRISED

me: I MYSELF AM SIGNIFICANTLY WTFING MYSELF

hereeatthiskitten: i am hardly ever surprised by rpf

hereeatthiskitten: definitely not surprised by sebastian stan rpf

me: I so want to quote you on that on tumblr.

hereeatthiskitten: "i am hardly ever surprised by rpf" -- hereeatthiskitten

me: NO CONTEXT

hereeatthiskitten: i am additionally not surprised by robert downey jr rpf and I don't even know if that exists. but if it does i'm not surprised by it

me: I'm sure it must?

me: I have not seen any, though.

hereeatthiskitten: exactly

hereeatthiskitten: I'm pretty sure there not only is, but that he writes it himself and posts it under fake names

hereeatthiskitten: ^that is meta rpf right there btw

me: That is ART.

me: That is BEAUTIFUL.

[pacifistrun]

I really hate complaining about stuff in fandom bc I don't like to make ppl worry about what they do unless they're being snide as hell so with that in mind don't take this too seriously

I feel like this fandom often treats camab'd nb inquisitors as just 'really feminine dudes'

like they're always androgynous but in this really specific way of being pretty w/ no secondary sexual characteristics (facial hair/breasts/obvious adam's apples etc) and maybe like, makeup or long hair

and inevitably they romance the gay dude, and obviously I know gay binary ppl can be attracted to certain nb ppl bc when I was bigender my gf knew and was still a lesbian, but I mean when it's every single time it sends the message that camab'd nb ppl are like Men Lite or something, or at the very least more essentially male than cafab'd people can be

idk I'm not a camab'd nb person so even if I liked going off about things I wouldn't about this, it just feels like an odd trend 99% pioneered by cafab'd people and it seems sometimes like lots of fandom superficially designate their inquisitors as belonging to groups (+ not just trans) for sj points w/out wanting to actually idk, explore that experience and make fandom nice for ppl who have it