How does Guiying handle failure? What are some failures they've had that they've learned from?
with grace . she knows with successes , there is failures ; and vice versa is true . she believes that failure is the mother of successes and uses those failed attempts as a way to learn and grow . it's frustrating to fail , but it's always a learning opportunity and ways to troubleshoot problems . . . if they meet a failure , it's a way to troubleshoot any future problems that may come up and prevent it before it happens .
from failed auditions as a child to coming face to face with an obstacle , one failure that's stuck with her is certainly a project she had undertook . . . it was her proudest endeavors , she's met failure after failure with this project as her client had been rather DIFFICULT to handle and always found something to pick at . the initial launch had led to some bumps and ultimately flopped , sending her back to the drawing table . this happened numerous times to which she almost gave up on the project . . . with encouragement from her seniors , she takes each failure as a way to learn and improve and kind of as a way to understand her difficult client . it ended up to be a big success and a project that guiying holds dear to her heart .
Is your Guiying a good liar? Do they lie often? What are some situations that might cause them to lie?
she is a good liar . . . people tend to forget that guiying used to be an actress ; sure , she was a CHILD actress and hadn't been in the industry for very long , she's learned a great lot . she's good at masking her true emotions to make it hard to see if she's lying or not . . . but she tries to be as HONEST as possible with people , lying doesn't lead to good relationships and bonds built on lies makes it very difficult for meaningful relationships -- even if it's just between company and client .
she tries to not LIE if she can help it , she may fib or tell a small white lie . . . some half-truths if need be . . . but she would never lie to spare someone their feelings . especially when she believes the person deserves the truth ( say if she knows a friend is being cheated on and their partner asks guiying to lie for them , she wouldn't ) , she wouldn't lie to cover up a crime or something that goes against her morals . . . she tends to not lie FOR other people ; but she'd come up with lies to hide truths about herself . . . she'll mostly lie to buy herself some time to come up with a proper way to reveal the actual truth .
thinking about penelope's moments of insecurity . . . she may be talented and stunning and confident , but even people with confidence and self-esteem have moments of inadequacy and insecurity and i think for penelope , it hits especially hard . . . that she doesn't immediately bounce back from it but she also struggles with verbalizing and getting these negative thoughts out .
she's good at masking her emotions , wanting to be less of a burden to people , she rarely shares her inner thoughts , and prefers to deal with them alone or not at all ; which is contradictory to her philosophy bc she will always try to get people around her to verbalize and talk to her so she can help , but struggles letting people in .
it's sunday i don't have much spicy thoughts . . . just the strange thought that . . .
penelope isn't the hardcore no sex before marriage person . . . if she finds herself seriously connecting with someone , even if it doesn't end up long term , she'd be down for sex . flings and one night stands are something she tends to turn away from , not one for superficial connections like that .
as someone who works with computers often , penelope often suffers from dry eyes so she carries eye drops to help with that often . . . and while she doesn't wear them often , she does have reading glasses .
bold : always applies — italics : sometimes applies or partner specific — bold + italics : favorite — strike: never applies.
𝐈𝐍𝐂𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒 / 𝐇𝐀𝐁𝐈𝐓𝐒 :
submissive| dominant | prefers to top | prefers to bottom | likes to switch | heterosexual | gay | lesbian | bisexual| asexual | pansexual | demisexual | enjoys sex with men | enjoys sex with women | enjoys sex with genderfluid , agender , demigender , or nonbinary individuals| enjoys sex with all genders regardless of identity | enjoys sex with multiple people at a time | initiates | waits for partner to initiate | spits | swallows | morning sex | night sex | sex any time | no sex drive | low sex drive | average sex drive | high sex drive | fluctuating sex drive
𝐁𝐎𝐃𝐘 & 𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄 :
slender build | medium build | athletic build| muscular build | curvy build | voluptuous | chubby build | wears boxers | wears boxer briefs | wears lingerie | goes commando | shaves | trims | waxes | does not shave |cup size a - c | cup size d - f | 1 - 5 ” in length | between 5 - 6 " in length | 6 - 9 ” in length | 10 ” or over in length
𝐒𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐃𝐒 :
silent | quiet | loud | grows in volume over time | bites hand | bites partner | bites pillow to muffle self | calls out partners name | curses | fakes | exaggerates | prefers a quiet partner | prefers a loud partner | prefers a partner who grows in volume over time | no volume preference | turned on by dirty talk | turned off by dirty talk
𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐍 - 𝐎𝐍𝐒 / 𝐊𝐈𝐍𝐊𝐒 :
having their hands pinned | pinning partner’s hands | having own hair pulled | pulling partner’s hair | being watched ( by their partner ) | being watched ( by a third party ) | watching their partner | receiving oral | giving oral | giving praise | receiving praise | biting or marking | being bitten or marked | spanking | being spanked | teasing | being teased | having toys used on them | using toys on their partner | giving anal | receiving anal | choking | being choked | dirty talk | being tied up | tying partner up | being worshipped | worshipping partner | humiliating | being humiliated | degrading | being degraded | knife play | blood play | gun play | being pegged | pegging partner | partner wearing lingerie | wearing lingerie | whipping | being whipped | being edged | edging | overstimulation | anonymous sex | clothed / partially clothed | deep - throating | nipple play | public sex | sadism / masochism | size difference
𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐂𝐄𝐒 :
bedroom | shower | bath | pool | ocean | kitchen | home bathroom | public restroom | car | tent | alleyway | field | forest | empty or abandoned building | library | rooftop | terrace | dressing room | elevator | parking lot | museum | cemetery | beach | closet | hospital
i love thinking abt penelope's closet because . . . she's got that sexy and mature elegance that just makes her look so good . . . she knows what to wear to accentuate her curves . . .