I literally 100% completely forget that people use “gay” as a pejorative/derogatory term because the people I surround myself with use it exclusively in a positive way. Because. All My Friends Are Queer (tm).
So I forget that when I call myself “Gay Santa Claus” because I’ve got a florescent pink bag of linens slung over my back, that the reason ppl get defensive is because they think “Gay Santa” = “Ew Santa” But when I say “Gay Santa” I mean “Best Santa”
Like why do straight ppl gotta ruin my fun all of the time. Why? Why can’t I just like. Not have to think about this stuff ever?


















