hot take time there's this ongoing dialogue of how damon wouldn't let so-and-so sacrifice themselves/not put themselves first and same with klaus and like. sure. maybe. but we are ignoring the issue of how that would happen. damon and klaus are not the kings of communication. damon's "wouldn't let" type shit is him going behind peoples back and fucking shit up and then shrugging off the consequences, which often lead to more problems. klaus' "wouldn't let" means he's going to damn near kidnap you. let's not pretend that they'd magically be more communicative / less themselves based on another love interest (TO START OUT WITH!). their canon love interests and friends and family have fought them on these things before. constantly. introducing a new girl into the dynamic does not automatically fix these issues. you could WORK at it, but there's no.... "damon/klaus wouldn't let her do this" and then you don't put in the work to examine how, exactly, that would irk the girl in question and how she would react to it.
















