#umby chatter

[agender-umby]

I wish all Aromantics, Asexuals, and all Aspec folks a very happy Valentine's Day!

Remember! Romantic love isn't the only kind we share and experience.

Find friends or family or pets and let them know how much you care about them with kind words and actions.

Find something you love like eating or games or reading and enjoy the moment.

But most importantly, show yourself some love today.

💚You deserve as much love as you show others💚

Have fun today! :3

[reptile-with-scallions]

I haven't seen anyone really mention it yet but uh,,,,,

I hope Roman realizes that Thomas literally can not act or perform without Janus.

Really hoping this is brought up at some point soon in the series.

[agender-umby]

hi

Your blog says you are agender and i was wondering - and you absolutely don't have to answer this if you don't want to- how you figured that out. I've been really confused by my gender recently and thought maybe asking someone on her would help. thanks :)

Howdy! I'd be happy to answer your question! :3

I never really felt a connection to what I was labeled as when I was little. I felt uncomfortable in skirts and dresses and it helped to have parents that didn't force me to wear them. I didn't really know at the time that I could have different pronouns, so I just went with what everyone called me, even if it felt weird.

When I was around 13-14 years old, I had made a tumblr account, and someone I followed who was big on tumblr was agender. I knew vaguely what it was, but still didn't know what it really meant. I saw them answering questions about it and realized that I could try that too. I pushed it into roleplay I did with my friend, now partner, and found that it felt great to use they/them pronouns!

That's where my artistic side took hold and laid out the rest for me. I made characters of all different genders and sexualities and did more research than before! I found that being agender was always what really stuck with me and felt good to call myself as. I never really struggled with dysphoria relating to my gender, most of it just felt amazing and so bright to me.

Everyone's journey of self-discovery is different, and I would be happy to help you with yours if you want me to. I really hoped this helped, it was fun to look back on! ^^

[agender-umby]

[agender-umby]

15?

Something good that happened this summer.

I got a job!! Now I work with animals all the time and help them get adopted! Sometimes something other than a cat or dog comes in!

[agender-umby]

🌠

Only picking three is so haaarrrrrddddd,,,,,, uhhhh

Summer nights on a bench swing, the song Community Gardens by The Scary Jokes, and how much I love your voice and how you laugh and how you smile

[agender-umby]

Someone on a server stole my only diamond from my chest and I was so mad! So i just-

Made this. I put some stuff in it and showed two other people. One of them added the furnace!

[ ID : a minecraft hill with a fake torch built with oak planks and orange wool. There is a furnace and a chest in front of it and a sign on the middle of it. The second picture is a close up of the sign that reads "The Help Chest: Take what you need and donate what others need." end ID]

[agender-umby]

Something that really bothers me is how a lot of people I see saying "cringe culture is dead" are the same people who make posts or comments making fun of things that people do for fun.

Take TikTok for example. There are so many people on there just having fun and expressing themselves. People make cosplays and show them off using catchy songs and some people even show off their ocs aswell! And it's a fun, creative platform to do it on. But so many people just make fun of it and the people using it.

I've seen so many say that they're "so glad cringe culture is dead" and that "people are finally free to express themselves without worrying about what others think" and then just turn around and tear apart something that someone else genuinely enjoys.

It's just a problem that I've noticed and something that needs to be addressed and monitored by both yourself and others.

This has been bothering me for a while, but I felt I needed to say something when I saw a comment on YouTube saying "we need to protect this song from the TikTokers." Like... WHY? Why would you not want this song that you enjoy to become more widespread? I actually found out about the songwriter's music THROUGH the app. I just don't get how people could hate something that so many other people enjoy so much that they'd want to keep something that can bring more listeners and inspire creation away from it.