#variorientation

[crazyalien87]

Infographic about how many multisexual/mspec ppl are technically bi and can consider themselves as bi also if they want or just use other terms if they want.

Based on the original from this post, which is about how gnc women can still be women and don't have to id as nonbinary just bc they are gnc. I posted this in a reblog to that post, but felt it deserves its own post as well.

To be clear, I get why you may not want to call yourself bisexual even if it technically fits. I'm bisexual, too, but I've felt like that plenty of times in the past several years. Using only other terms for your sexuality is fine as well, or you can call yourself bi and other terms (e.g. bi and pansexual).

[sielunroskaa]

Wonky biromantic heterosexual flag I made in Ibis Paint X, go!

[arcticcirclesystem]

What’s a straight lesbian/gays

Typically used by some multigender people who are attracted to women or men respectively and consider themselves both straight and lesbian/gay due to their multigender status, i.e. someone who is a man and a woman at various times or at the same time and is attracted to women may use this sort of label to describe themselves and I think that's pretty cool. Also theoretically it could be used to mean homoromantic heterosexual or heteroromantic homosexual (or similar terms), though we haven't seen that yet. ~Red

[tapet-wallpapers]

Varioriented wallpapers/backgrounds

[sandutita]

i made a few respect-drawings

hope you like them

[crazyalien87]

Call it speculation if you want but I think these 2 famous male singers are actually homoromantic bisexual and not gay. (George Michael and Ricky Martin)

Yes I know these dudes came out as gay but if you read the "personal life" section of their wikipedia pages, it is implied they are homoromantic bisexual...no shade to them coming out as gay tho, I wouldn't expect them to explain all that.

George Michael (RIP)

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Michael

George Michael - Wikipedia

Ricky Martin

Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ricky_Martin

Ricky Martin - Wikipedia

Homoromantic bisexual flag

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/QueerVexillology/comments/hzorcf/homoromantic_bisexual_flags/

[sielunroskaa]

Wonky flag I made on Ibis Paint X, go!

I honestly am not sure what to call this. Homoromantic heterosexual? Queerromantic heterosexual? I feel like nowadays lesbians and gays on the internet mostly use the sunset lesbian flag and the blue gay men flag and the rainbow is a symbol, not reserved only to gay (men).

Anyways, I did this in Summer when I shortly questioned if I even liked men romantically. This is a modified version of a biromantic heteroflag I did like a year ago.

I think I am able to have romantic feelings for a man but just have not had the experience yet. However I've been feeling pretty frustrated at bisexuality lately (because of jealosy, I think), so not sure I want to use any bi labels (??? idk. Brains work in mysterious ways)

[sielunroskaa]

What I've learned this year (about myself, mostly):

-unlabeled queer people can face the similar problems that labeled queer people face.

-Even though i dont actually recognise myself in the word 'queer' since I am "mostly straight", i still? Kind of am? Queer? And surprisingly I've used the word in my diary cause there's not many ways to describe why I feel so bad.

-I can relate to a lot more queer people than I would've guessed. Much more many people are varioriented/part of the SAM than I would have thought.

-the word 'varioriented'♡♡♡♡♡ it's so pretty♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

-I don't have to FEEL queer to BE queer. I still feel mostly hetero, my heterosexuality is a bigger part of my identity than my biromanticism.

-aesthetic attraction does not really mean you have romantic feelings towards the person.

-it is now sure that the feelings I have for my friend are in fact romantic, since them calling me a friend made me feel a bit weird. Like, I dont see them that way? As a friend?

-maybe my feelings towards them are not much of a crush anymore, just more like an obsession.

-I don't like men cause I feel sexual attraction towards them and I don't like it when I feel like I'm not in control of my feelings and body.

-I'm very hypocritical cause im overly critical of queer couples and people and get angry for no reason when I view their posts. While still crushing on girls myself.

-Overall the way I've viewed couples and the idea of a relationship, doesn't make sense.