Mar 23
Any of yall feel like your orientations are fighting each other?
Bc it feels like (metaphorically, of course) my roamantic orientation is telling me to just date someone regardless of gender but then my sexual orientation is like "men & enben are not hot enough, bro, just get a gf".
it's crazy bc it leads to situations where I'm actually HAPPY to find I don't have a chance with a guy I have feelings for?! Like, if I overhear that my handsome coworker wants kids or is married (I don't want to have kids or be a cheater (also most people are monogamous)), it's actually good for once, bc I have an excuse to not even consider a relationship that would probably be doomed to fail (like I did in the past with my ex bf and it failed).