#venus pluto synastry

[divineawakeningoracle]

Fire & Desire aspects in Synastry🔥

Ever wonder why the passion in some connections never fizzle, there are couples who have been together forever and still cannot get enough of one another. That's because physical compatibility makes up a large portion of a romantic connection. Mental and emotional compatibility are high up there on the list, but if there isn't a high physical or xxxual compatibility, intimacy can become routine and monotonous overtime and may eventually fizzle out altogether. In the Synastry and the Composite you want to see planets making aspects to Pluto (desire), Venus and Mars (fire). Pluto (Scorpio) 8th House aspects are what is going to keep a connection going and help to regenerate and reinvigorate a connection, as Pluto (desire) the planet of transformation, rebirth and xxx activates our obsessive tendencies and untapped unsatiable desires, while Mars (Aries) 1st House reignites the passion to help smooth over rough edges. Mars (fire) is connected to our xxx drive, how we go after who and what we want, and how we fight. As well as Venus (Libra) 7th House, which is connected to how we show love and what we value for mild to moderate attraction. (Note: Mars or Venus in a fire sign amplifies the energy) If you have an opposition or a conjunction that is even better as the energy is shared or can go back and forth, and is not always one sided. If you have one or more of these aspects, congratulations, however these aspects do not maintain or sustain a connection, but they can have one or both individuals spinning the block and unable to release the physical connection. Even when you move on or try to, this person will always be able to light a 🔥 in your loins by just thinking about them.

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Mars opposite/conjunct/square Jupiter 🔥

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Mars conjunct/opposite/square Ascendant* 🔥🔥🔥

Mars conjunct/opposite/square Lilith* 🔥🔥🔥

Mars conjunct/opposite/square Neptune/Eros/Lust 🔥🔥🔥

Mars in 1st, 5th, 8th house synastry/composite 🔥🔥🔥

Jupiter in 1st, 5th, 8th House synastry/composite 🔥🔥

Venus in 1st, 5th, 8th House synastry/composite 🔥

Have you had any of these aspects before? What was your experience?

Stay Lifted,

Madison 🔥

Let's see if you have any of these aspects...

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12th House Synastry Observations 🌊

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[typologyastro]

3 biggest themes in me and my boyfriends synastry

🔥 1. 8th House + pluto

❤️ 2. Moon–Node

🜂 3. Sun–Mars & venus-pluto

Can you elaborate? Is this good or bad?

There's a strong Scorpio theme if you're into that kind of energy. Usually, if you have a strong Scorpio in your natal chart, you will like it. I prefer good aspects (conjunction, trine, sextile) because they're easier to handle.

Pluto 8th house overlay if that what you meant will bring power, transformation, control, secrets, etc. in intimacy. You research & know each other secrets & weaknesses. Pluto wants to dominate the house person.

Moon-Node aspects are fated placements as you guys will feel familiar with each other from the start. There can be lots of forgiveness & understanding.

Sun-Mars aspects make you find each other physically sexy. Sun finds Mars hot & active while Mars loves Sun's confidence & pride. You can do lots of activities together but also more arguments with bad aspects.

Venus-Pluto is obsessed with each other. Pluto will be obsessed & want to own Venus. Pluto will always want to be the more powerful, but the other planet loves that about Pluto with good aspects. There may be frictions and more toxic, unhealthy dynamics with bad aspects.

Thanks for asking!

[calmwaterstarot]

What placements would you say in synastry show that a woman is a man’s dream girl?

I'd check his Venus first. Venus = love and beauty. If his Venus conjuncts her Ascendant, even better. That's a "love at first sight" aspect, although it can be a bit superficial.

I also think these aspects (mostly conjunctions, but trines, sextiles, squares, and oppositions can be good, too) work well with each other:

Sun/Moon Sun/Venus Venus/Mars Venus/Jupiter Venus/Pluto (careful with this! the sexual chemistry will be hard to resist) Moon/Mars Moon/Jupiter Moon/Pluto

Conjunctions are strongest, while trines and sextiles make for smooth sailing. Squares and oppositions can cause tension, but, depending on the placement, this isn't always a bad thing. I mean, imagine the sexual tension with a Venus/Mars or Venus/Pluto square. Whew! 🥵

Planets in the 1st, 4th, 5th, 7th, or 8th houses are the most common in dream person synastry.

I'm going to add 2nd house synastry because while it can cause possessiveness, it's not necessarily toxic possessiveness. It's like, "This is my person. I don't want anyone else to have them." It's great because you can feel secure and safe with this person, like they're your rock.

I'm also going to add 12th house synastry here, too, even though people argue about whether it's good or not. If you have Pisces or water placements, the 12th house could be a really deep, psychic connection. It's also considered to be the house of karma and soulmates. But some people hate the feeling of the 12th house, so the experience is entirely subjective.

I also like looking at asteroids, such as Valentine, Eros, Psyche, Cupido, and Union, especially Sun and Venus conjunct Valentine, Eros conjunct Psyche, Cupido conjunct Cupido, and Union conjunct Union.

If you have your Ascendant or Descendant conjunct your person's Ascendant or Descendant, this can feel like you two have known each other all your lives and have so much in common. This can be a very intense, magnetic pull when these axes line up. ASC/MC and DSC/IC are also good.

Lastly, at the beginning of this post, I talked about the Venus/ASC aspect, but Venus conjunct Descendant is just as potent. Specifically, if another person's Venus conjuncts your Descendant, they're exactly your type. Venus/ASC is more of a physical attraction, while Venus/DSC can feel much deeper and that person is exactly your type. It's a bonus if you or your person's Venus is in the 7th house conjunct the Descendant.

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[saylessastrology]

🌕 Full Moon in Cancer — January 2026

MERRY XMAS BESTIES! Okay baddies… here’s what this Moon is stirring up for you in January

So listen. The January 2026 Full Moon in Cancer isn’t subtle. At all.! This is the kind of Moon that pulls emotions straight out of storage memories, feelings, truths you didn’t even realize you were still holding. Cancer is the Moon’s home, so this energy goes deep. It’s about comfort, safety, belonging, and being honest with yourself about what you actually need right now.

This Moon gently (and sometimes not-so-gently) shines a light on what you’ve been protecting, avoiding, holding onto, or slowly outgrowing. And depending on your rising sign, it hits a very specific part of your life.

Read this like I’m talking to you, okay? 🌊

♈ Aries Rising

Okay, so this Moon is pulling you home—emotionally and literally. You might suddenly want to rest, nest, or reconnect with family or your roots. Something around your living situation or family dynamics could reach a turning point. And honestly? You’re learning that being strong doesn’t mean doing everything alone. It’s okay to let yourself feel supported.

♉ Taurus Rising

This Moon is all about your voice. Conversations hit differently right now. You might finally say the thing you’ve been holding in—or realize how badly you want to be truly heard. Writing, journaling, or heart-to-heart talks could feel incredibly healing. Say what’s real. Your feelings deserve space.

♊ Gemini Rising

This one’s making you think about money, security, and self-worth—and how emotional all of that really is. You might notice where you’ve been undervaluing yourself or letting comfort dictate your choices. This Moon is asking you gently but clearly: What actually makes you feel safe—and is it aligned with your worth?

♋ Cancer Rising

Okay… this one is for you. This is your Full Moon, and yeah, it’s personal. Emotions are close to the surface, and you may feel extra seen, sensitive, or exposed—but also strangely empowered. This is a release point. You’re shedding an old emotional version of yourself and stepping into something more honest and real. Be gentle with yourself. You’re evolving.

♌ Leo Rising

This Moon is lighting up your inner world. You might feel more quiet, reflective, or tired than usual—and that’s okay. Old feelings, dreams, or memories could surface, asking for closure. Let yourself rest. Let yourself release. What comes up now is clearing space for something new.

♍ Virgo Rising

Your friendships and sense of belonging are under the spotlight. You might feel closer to certain people—or realize some connections have run their course. This Moon helps you see who really feels like home. You’re learning that community isn’t just about showing up—it’s about emotional safety.

♎ Libra Rising

This Moon hits your career and public life, and yeah… feelings are involved. You may realize how emotionally invested you are in your work or how others see you. Recognition, completion, or a shift could happen now. Just remember: success doesn’t mean sacrificing your emotional well-being. You’re allowed to want balance.

♏ Scorpio Rising

This Moon is expanding your perspective. Something clicks emotionally—about your beliefs, your path, or your purpose. Learning, spiritual insights, or even travel could open your heart in a new way. Trust your intuition here. It’s guiding you toward deeper truth.

♐ Sagittarius Rising

Okay, deep stuff. This Moon touches your emotional bonds, intimacy, and shared resources. Vulnerability is unavoidable—but so is healing. You might have an emotional or financial turning point with someone. This is about honesty, trust, and letting go of old fears around closeness. You’re stronger than you think.

♑ Capricorn Rising

Relationships take center stage now. A partnership could reach an emotional peak—whether that’s clarity, commitment, or release. You’re learning how to let people in without losing yourself. This Moon gently asks you to soften your guard and let connection feel safe again.

♒ Aquarius Rising

Your body and daily life are speaking to you now. Emotional stress might show up physically, reminding you to slow down or change your routine. This Moon is a loving nudge: self-care isn’t optional, bestie. The small adjustments you make now will help you feel more emotionally steady long-term.

♓ Pisces Rising

This Moon is pure heart energy for you. Creativity, romance, joy, and emotional expression are all activated. You might feel inspired, fall a little deeper in love, or finish something creative that’s close to your soul. Let yourself enjoy this. Joy isn’t a distraction—it’s nourishment.

[safiredreams-astrology]

Venus-Pluto Aspects in Synastry

(In this post Venus may sometimes be referred to as she and Pluto as he, this is nothing to do with actual gender it’s simply the masculine and feminine energies that the Planets represent and constantly saying Pluto-Venus got quite redundant.)

Venus Conjunct Pluto 

The Pluto persons hidden desires and fears are awakened by the Venus person. The Pluto’s obsession for the Venus person is intense and often hidden. The Venus senses something deep and powerful lurking within the Pluto person, they are both fascinated and scared of the intensity of the Pluto. Often Venus doesn’t realize that Pluto has set his eyes on her, his desires are primal and passionate, he might watch her like he wants to tear her apart. She is light and carefree, able to chanel the energy of the Sign the conjunction is occupied by in an easy going and charming way, he wants to possess her perhaps even destroy her. A lot of the time these two don’t even come together. Pluto doesn’t want to lose his power, and power games between these two are popular, so he never makes the move. I noticed that Pluto is the one who usually has the upper hand in the relationship. If Venus is fascinated with the depth and passion of the Pluto person and makes her interest known, Pluto will often feel like he already did all that he had to do, he got her. Making the move would mean giving her the upper hand, now one might be rejected and lose the power. The relationship is often extremely passionate, the two cannot get enough of one another, they seem to always be together, obsession is very common in this configuration and Pluto is often very jealous of who Venus is giving their attentions to. Sometimes I find that Pluto can be quite mean to Venus, this is something they do to protect themselves they want to seem like Venus means nothing to them and therefore has no power to hurt them. Pluto is terrified of being hurt or rejected by the Venus person. Sex here can be healing to both parties, Pluto is a great lover that brings a lot of passion and heat into the bedroom, their touch is something Venus can become addicted to. These two love being in close proximity to one another, they seem to always be touching. Pluto loves to touch Venus and Venus melts to that touch. In general sex is quite amazing for the two of them, they are very compatible in this area and once that boundary is crossed sex becomes very important and quite constant. Sometimes Venus may sense something dark beneath the Pluto person and might just choose to stay away, they feel a destruction coming on and if they aren’t the type to like having their world shaken up then they best stay away. This relationship is very transformative, Venus shows Pluto the lighter aspects of life, and Pluto is able to bring Venus below the shallows and into the depths of love. These two tend to always remember one another, even if it was a short relationship, or maybe it never even became anything solid, these two will remember one another forty years down the line because something deep within them was transformed or brough to consciousness during the union. There is often an end to something in both peoples lives that leads to a rebirth. This might denote a secret love affair, a lot of the time other people around the couple have no idea that the two are involved romantically. 

Venus Square Pluto

There is a lot of friction going on when two people who are romantically interested in each other feel. On the one hand both might be very sexually attracted to one another but, both might have fears when it comes to actually sharing these feeling because they don’t seem to be in line. The energies that are being activated can’t see or understand one another in this square. Venus person wants and gives something that is not in line with what Pluto wants. Also the Pluto person is a lot more careful and closed off when it comes to giving affection to the Venus person. She doesn’t understand it and it feels unfair to her to be in this type of connection even though she feels the tension and attraction that Pluto may have for her. Pluto may appear as selfish, always taking and never giving. The inherent problem with him is that he is fulfilling all those needs he felt he wasn’t provided with when he was young and helpless, he’s acting from a very primal and instinctive part of himself where he feels that if he’s needs are not fulfilled his whole life may come to an abrupt end. But the energy of the two people isn’t meshing easily, the Venus’s affections are not being properly understood and assimilated by the Pluto person. She gives and he asks ‘Why is she giving me this? This is not in line with what I need.’ and Venus in return feels rejected and left empty. There is often a lot of selfishness in both parties, both want to be fulfilled by one another and yet they have a hard time actually feeling fulfilled. I think this is an aspect that contributes to the enemies to lovers trope, because the attraction here is tremendous and yet both people feel like they shoudn’t give in to this. Pluto can be felt as quite dangerous by the Venus person and so I often see her not giving in, there can be some push and pull energy. They want each other so much yet they leave each other on ice because the thought of actually coming together is too intense. She is very much attracted to him, to her it might feel like she found the love of her life. Pluto always wants to wield the power in the relationship and often that means withholding true feelings from the Venus person because to let someone know that they have you completely is to put yourself at risk of being hurt, being emotionally hurt and betrayed is akin to death to the Pluto person who wants to be immersed into the Venus person completely. Sex is important but can feel selfish, one is trying to get all that one need to feel satisfied and fulfilled from the other person and the other is doing the same. If the Venus is Pisces or Virgo or they have a lot of Neptune around their Venus then they might give and be all that Pluto might want yet in the end it will get old and if Pluto is unable to give then tension will turn sour and a break between the two is bound to ensue. Finding balance between the give and take is what he two need yet struggle to do.

Venus Opposite Pluto

This relationship is always going to transform the two people involved. The meeting may feel fated, you are either completely repulsed or fascinated by one another. Pluto is deep and primal and Venus is light and attractive, he might see Venus as shallow, he might be jealous of how easy it is for her to charm people and have a good time. She might find him to be too intense, she might sense a really intense and uncontrollable anger and rage hidden inside him. Venus doesn’t want to fight, she wants to use her charm to get her way and have a good time, she doesn’t need Pluto lurking in her shadows watching her every move. There is no doubt that a strong attraction is present, often this is a love-hate relationship, the enemies turned lovers. One both wants and hates what the other possesses. If Pluto is in Sagittarius then one is obsessed with finding a deeper meaning to life, he watches the Gemini Venus prance about the room perking her ears up to the different philosophies and ideologies and nodding excitedly, she is not stuck in any dogma, she is free to find meaning in everyone. Pluto thinks that’s shallow, yet is jealous for he is not able to be so lighthearted when it comes to finding his truth. Often Venus will bring about a transformation that will shatter Pluto (where he is shattered depends on the house placement) and if other Planets are involved within the Pluto persons Pluto then those parts of him are also transformed. Venus is often dragged by Pluto to those subterranean realms she never set foot in before. Both people are curious about one another, they see in one another something they might possibly want or even need on a more unconscious level. Like any hard aspect between these two planets the two will leave the connection transformed. Pluto-Venus seems like a great and passionate love affair yet it’s a painful connection, one that shows the two people parts of themselves they would often rather not see. Ugly and evil parts of them, the ones they have hidden so well suddenly burst forth when the two meet and they have to be dealt with. If they aren’t conscious enough to deal with the darkness within them then this connection could be quite life destroying. Pluto can become extremely obsessed with Venus, they would even stalk Venus, and she might not want to become possessed by such a person even though unconsciously she is quite drawn to his deep and penetrating nature. If Pluto wants to merge completely then Venus might just want to be in it for a good time, naturally conflict will arise. Pluto says ‘Look how shallow and empty you are.’ and Venus in return answers ‘Look how obsessive and intense you are, where is all this rage even coming from?’

Venus Trine/Sextile Pluto

Pluto feels like Venus sees all the buried, secret, dark, and passionate parts of them and accepts them completely. This is feeling accepted and loved for all the parts of you that you have repressed and hidden, a part of you that you thought was evil or selfish is seen by the Venus person and completely accepted and loved. Pluto in return takes Venus and shows her all the deeper aspects of her, it gives meaning to all her desires. Both are able to love each other and fulfill each others needs without hesitation. Sexual attraction is present but, it’s not overwhelming and dangerous feeling, both are fascinated by the other and want to spend long hours together getting to know one another completely. There is no volatile volcano threatening to erupt, the give and take is free flowing and both feel fulfilled in matters of sex. Emotional fulfilment is important to Pluto when it comes to the bedroom and Venus is able to give them all that they crave. Pluto makes the experience feel deep and meaningful something that Venus might have never experienced before. This feels like the meeting of two souls that are meant to be. I see these two meeting and not being able to stop thinking of another, Venus is fascinated by Pluto and he is in turn not withholding of his desires for he doesn’t see Venus as taking advantage of him. These two are always sharing secret glances and little knowing smiles, even if they are across the room from one another. The sexual tension here is usually felt by most people around them because they aren’t preoccupied with power games of withholding and dark seduction. This is a connection that often lasts and brings the two into a marriage for Venus understands what Pluto needs on an instinctive level and is able to fulfill those needs and Pluto is able to give Venus the meaningful connection that Venus could have only dreamed of having. The connection is unbroken by outside forces for there is inherent trust in one another, although jealousy may be present but not on a very destructive level and might just enhance the sex life of the two people. This is a lasting bond.

[cosmoss-express]

Hey bestie!! 😊How are you? Would like to spill all the tea about venus-pluto aspects.

Have a wonderful day❤️❤️❤️

Hiii!! I'm fine thank for asking. I hope you're doing well too 💗💗

Venus/Pluto in the natal chart

- Opposing energies meet since the volatile nature of Venus meets the towering, overwhelming intensity of Pluto

- Their beauty and magnetism pulls people in but also offends them lmao

- Becomes a different person when they're in love

- Love is: passion, possessive, lustful

- Loves exclusivity

- Loves the idea of being consumed mind, body and soul by their partner and vice versa. The issue is that they have a hard time trusting people in that way beacuse they fear betrayal, being cheated on, their secrets being spilled by their loved one, etc.

- Harsh aspects can make the native feel unloved and latch onto people who validate them very quickly. Doesn't realise when they're being love bombed.

- Opposition could make them very possessive over friends, family, lovers to the point where they could sabotage and control them

- Horder energy (likes to collect stuff either for aesthetics or to make money in the future)

- Extremely creative, the results of their craft impacts a lot of people (either inspires others or creates a scandal)

- Could attract Plutonian partners, those who ooze intensity and a "do not fuck with me" vibe, because they themselves give off that vibe although more sultry

- Loses sleep over the things/people they obsess with

- Fear could get in the way of their success until they integrate and make use of Pluto's energy, once that is done, money and success wil come to them (either gradually or immediately, depending on aspects)

- Authority figures either love them or straight up hate them lol

- Loves people very intensely which can be perceived as overbearing by others

- Very often prefers darker colours (styling, aesthetics, the night, etc)

Venus/Pluto in synastry

- Intense crushes oof

- Stalking one or each other physically

- The magnetism is off the charts 📈

- Very loyal and committed to each other. These two go through thick and thin together

- Quite redundant but their connection is very sexual and sensual in nature

- Feel the need to be in each other's presence all the time

- People around these two could feel their connection and might even make them uncomfortable with how intense it is

- The Venus partner can be subjected to Pluto's fears and inner struggles, especially if Pluto is open to being vulnerable with Venus and talk about it

- Can become a really toxic connection since Pluto will feel the need to control and watch Venus' moves all the time, and will get jealous of other people looking/being in the presence of Venus

- The Venus person will change (for better or worse) in Pluto's presence

- One or both of them think their connection is meant to be

- Venus can be a calming source for Pluto in the midst of their turmoil, and Venus could find the depth that was lacking in their life

- Pluto person evolves and transcends in their mindset and philosophy. If Venus doesn't follow them through, Pluto could feel stuck and stagnant

- Venus will meet their shadow through Pluto (aka the parts that they deem too dark in their personality)

- If the Venus person already has Venus/Pluto aspects in their chart, the connection will be full of potential and love and Pluto will seem the lover they were looking for, which could make their connection last longer

- Least likely of all planetary aspects to be in open relationships

- Both seek spiritual connections within their relationships

Here's the tea, bestie 🍵 💕

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[divineawakeningoracle]

Relationship Issues in Natal Chart

The natal aspects listed below from my personal observation may attract unsustainable or unhealthy relationships to the native or the native may tend to gravitate toward unhealthy or unsustainable connections (Venus opposite or square Mars) With all of these aspects there is a higher purpose of evolvement that is the reason for such aspects to be present, or lessons to be learned in relations to others or themselves. Some of these aspects may cause the native to shy away from romantic connections or sabotage them in some way due to wounding from childhood (Moon square Saturn) Inner healing may be needed and or change of outlook in relations to others may be needed. The native may be non committal and fear that a connection may jeopardize their freedom (Venus square Uranus, Sun square Uranus, Moon square Uranus) There may be a tendency to obsess and or over romanticize connections and not see their partners for who they really are (Venus opposite/square Neptune) Saturn in the 7th House can cause delays in commitment or marriage or may cause the native to be reluctant to commit to someone because of very high standards or requirements. Saturn may want the native to evolve in some way before they are rewarded with the connection they want to have. Moon opposite/square Uranus natives are emotionally independent and tend to be emotionally unstable, this causes wishy washy behavior and discord in their connections. Lilith in Scorpio or Lilith in the 8th House may attract volatile, intense dynamics or controlling partners. North Node 7th House (Venus)/South Node 1st House (Mars) could have been independent, self focused and unapologetic regarding their actions in connections in the past life. This lifetime is about balance and fairness in their connections with others, in this lifetime they are forced to take a beat and think about their actions and how they affect others, learning compromise and patience with others is key. This may be a challenge as South Node tendencies are already ingrained in them. 1st House which is the Ascendant may come off selfish, and self serving a harmonious Venus and Moon can soften this energy. Venus in the 8th House can bring obsessive, transformative connections in love. Venus in the 12th house can attract sneaky links, situation ships, affairs and relationships that are hidden from the public. They may like to keep their connections private or be connected to someone who does not want to claim them publicly. Or they may be attracted to partners who are unavailable to them either physically and or emotionally. Venus in the 10th House natives may prioritize connections based off of social status or to further or advance their image or careers. It is not about love but more about appearances and what the partner can do for them. Pluto in the 7th House natives will attract partners who will help them evolve and transform how they feel and view partnerships. Their relationships will be intense and change their life (good or bad) in some way.

Pluto in 7th/8th House

Saturn in 7th House

Moon in 7th/8th/12th House

Venus in 8th/10th/12th House

Venus opposite/square Uranus

Venus opposite/square Mars

Sun opposite/square Uranus

Moon opposite/square Uranus

Venus opposite/square Neptune

Moon opposite/square Saturn

Venus opposite/square Saturn

North Node 7th House / South Node 1st House

Lilith in Scorpio and or Lilith in 7th/8th House

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