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I'm posting this as a rant to yell in the void/mainly a reminder to myself and to anyone that needs to hear it to. This is about art skill btw

Despite everything going on,despite what everyone else says, you matter, your art matters. Don't listen to the people who call it trash or shit. We're all human always learning, even if you do art for fun, you're improving by practicing.

Whatever motivation you may use, whether you do it for yourself or seeing people enjoy your art, it's all valid. Keep going because that kid in you that picked up that pencil is still there cheering you on.

Don't let others destroy your hope. Your art is good. ❤️

#no tags #star screams into the void #im tired of seeing people push down others because of their skills with art #we're all learning #we all deserve better #help people learn #improve #don't knock them down

for the people in the back : it really isn’t hard to have your brain cells hold hands and ask yourself some simple questions if you’re going to try and use something from someone elses culture : is this going to be portrayed respectfully ? do i know enough about it to portray it respectfully ? i’m not apart of this culture personally , should i do it ? OR BETTER YET : if you’re not personally apart of a culture that you’re trying to jack from , maybe reach out to some of those rph’s from the jump and see if they would find it disrespectful for you to use it .

#rpt #i honestly get that mistakes happen #we're all learning #and all that we are the world bullshit but #like #how do you not step back and take a second to question what you're doing sometimes #i get how some things may be complicated because american media is problematic and you may not know something is from someone elses culture #but this group knew and did it anyway and didn't ask any important questions first

ooc question: for the gathering thing, do we submit our oc or dm you about them? O:

Generally follow Ray’s example, they seem to know what they’re doing. This is kinda like an RP event? I think? I’m not really sure what’s going on but it’ll be fun once we get the hang of it.

For references for your OCs, you can either submit them or DM them, I don’t mind

#OOC #We're all learning #I hope this answers your question

just to be clear, holding men accountable for their bullshit is a good thing, trans men included

deciding that means its unnecessary to care about men's issues, in regards to cis and trans men, and not treat them with any compassion, is bullshit and we can and should do better for each other

#we're all learning #unlearning our bullshit and learning to be better #if someone doesn't want to learn then thats a problem but yelling at them and acting like its an all men are evil problem is unhelpful #some of us cough trans guys cough may be having a hard time reconciling our acceptance that we are men when we see so much animosity

the most draining part of tumblr: you absolutely cannot make an honest mistake. you have to watch everything you post. lack of education on a subject is not a reasonable excuse. you mess up your wording once, you’re problematic.

#i'm just so tired of this site #you can't possibly expect everyone to know every single thing about every social issue on this planet #it's just impossible #give people a break #we're all learning #don't send hate to those who made a mistake #send it to those who said the wrong thing on purpose #mine #my text post #hof #gold

Building off the post i just reblogged talking about celebrities being forced to work, interact with, and perform off the clock being a workers rights issue. I think there needs to be a serious move in the way that we talk about and make fan media about Celebrities too.

Listen, i'm not a very authoritive minded person so I'm not about to make a list of rules for everyone else to have to follow, but follow me on this.

As an Ace person I have never before in my life expirienced sexual attraction to a person. So there are a lot of social dos donts that you learn in the awkward puberty phase that i just didn't get. I didn't learn how to act because i didn't go through the same growing pains that others did. But i think I'm starting to, kinda.

There's one person I've suddenly developed something for that also happens to be a celebrity. And when it comes to people thirsting over celeberities online. They sure as fuck do not know how to act.

So this is how I am approaching the situation, affording respect and dignity to the person involved, while also exploring this thing I've never experienced before. My crush is an actor so this will be relevant to that.)

I just do not post or make any content about the actual actor as a person.

Because, as previously discussed, celebrities are artists who make up fake personas to perform for the public. that is their job. Their performance is what they make for us. It isn't real. However their face and name do and should belong to them. We've seen with many incidents on this site and in it's related fandoms that real people have a problem with being widely sexualized. It's exploitative. I think there needs to be a very purposeful level of separation made between the characters and the people. There have already been moves in this direction, I like when artist develope a certain look for characters that is different from the actor. Different hair, more freckles, different colored eyes, more weight, glasses, features closer to a comic version or another media.

I do not follow collection or accounts that group and label things with the actual celebrity's name.

this is more of a petty thing but i just like to keep the lines in my interactions clear. I am not here to specifically sexualize the person and i like to keep that clear.

I do not discuss my attraction to the person themselves in a fandom.

I reserve all thirsting and related media consumption to be of the characters themselves never of the individual person. Because, and i can't stress this enough, i don't know that person and I have no right to discuss them sexually and publicly. Fandom is great, being kinda a pervert in fandom is great. But not about an actual person. They sell us a list of character personas. A literal roster of fantasies for us to choose from. That's the deal they agreed to. That's their job. And if I want to fuck around about some blorbo that doesn't really exist then that's fine. But i won't harass a real person. I just don't feel good about it.

I don't follow the person's personal life or listen to gossip/drama or interact with traditional paparazzi tabloid bullshit.

This is just a policy I have for all celebrities. I don't like that kind of behavior. I don't participate. My level of curiosity does go up a lot for the person I'm interested in. But I am not gonna let something as dumb as sexual attraction lead me to behave poorly. I do not entertain celebrity stalking. I do not act disappointed, possessive of, or jealous about them.

Now the big caveat of this is, all of these rules apply to the public, both that of the outside of home kind and the on the internet kind. I have actual friends in person that I can act a fool with. Because it is a private space and they'll keep me in line.

#asexuality #celebrity #labor rights #listen #we're all learning #but that doesn't absolve us of the responsability to be respectuful of our fellow man

Sometimes I wonder how people who don't know how to spell common words have made it as far as they have in life.

Then I remember that for the first 23 years of my life, I thought deodorant was spelled D-E-O-D-E-R-A-N-T, and I sit my ass down with a well-deserved slice of humble pie.

#we all make mistakes #try not to judge others for theirs #we're all learning

close mindedness of any kind just urks me sm

just leave people alone leave them alone leav

#im trying to get better too #sometimes i jus say things n see what will happen bc im broken but also im learning #we're all learning #jus b open