So i got the good opportunity to come out to my boss today as a big gay and a big trans, and her immediate question - since I mentioned being bi at first - was â...but like... so... how were you able to... have sex with them? women, I mean -- like ...â and I didnât quite understand what she meant right away, and then I realized, and apparently the look of sheer pity on my face was so sad that she thought she had somehow upset me. Like, no. Sweetheart. Itâs... me being sad for YOUR sake at the realization that means that all of your experiences have been... just......... the ole in-n-out as they say...........Â