#whiteboard anon

[robloxhcdraws]

Not a hc but what art apps do you guys use??? Curious :))

And here’s a hc:

Guest 1337 LOVES showing people his wedding photo a ridiculous amount, protects his wedding ring with his LIFE

Can I be Whiteboard anon??

Heres Guest

I'm sorry I hate drawing Guest with a burning passion -Mod Meatball

[gender-fluidproblems]

(Whiteboard anon) like I've had this conversation with them A LOT because when I came out and asked them to use other pronouns they were really bad with it so I talked to them and they were like "If you just write it down somewhere we'll follow it; you're being so difficult" and this is like the 5th time they've completely ignored my pronouns and I'm so tired of it; I've already asked them so many times but they say I'm making things so hard for them >< Am I?

You’re not at all, I mean you’re literally writing it down for them?? Maybe if you just explain that until they make that effort, you don’t think they belong in your life? If they complain at that, and say you’re being difficult, maybe inform them that it’s much more difficult to have people in your life that constantly ignore your identity and make no effort to accept you, and people that actively make it difficult for you to be happy.

[gender-fluidproblems]

I'm genderfluid and I have a system where I put down a letter on the whiteboard I have on my door and that means a certain set of pronouns and my "friends" said they'd follow whatever's on the board but they keep misgendering me so I've been avoiding them but now they're pestering me because they think I'm being petty - am I just making a big deal out of nothing?

No you’re not. Explain how you set up this system because your gender is important to you, and that by misgendering you, your friends are disregarding not only your wishes but also your identity. Ask them how they’d feel if you started calling them a boy if they’re a girl or vice versa, and how they’d feel if they asked you to stop but you didn’t. Explain that you know it’s hard to always use the right pronoun, but using the wrong one hurts, so could they please make an effort. If they still misgender you, I suggest that you avoid them, and if they start to pester you again, tell them that you already explained why you’re avoiding them. You are absolutely not being petty, being misgendered doesn’t bother some people, but for others, it really does. You shouldn’t have to stick around people that ignore your comfort and your identity.