⋆｡ ﾟ☁︎｡ ⋆｡ ﾟ☾ ﾟ｡ ⋆ A few of my PERSONAL correspondences when doing magic and weekly tasks according to the planetary associations with the days of the week ⋆｡ ﾟ☁︎｡ ⋆｡ ﾟ☾ ﾟ｡ ⋆
There is always DOs and DON'Ts with the fae, be cautious but be happy !
DON'T
🧚♀️ give your name, use a pseudonyme. They might use it against you.
🧚♀️ be disrespectful ( with human beings too, don't be mean guys ! )
🧚♀️ say thank you, they might think you owe them something and that ties a contract.
🧚♀️ step in a fairy circle, or folklore says you will dance to your death, or you will be tied to the fairy realm.
🧚♀️ accept gifts, again will tie you to the fairy realm.
🧚♀️ eat or drink what they provide, they will drag you in their world.
🧚♀️ portray them as good or bad, they might get offended, they have different points of view than us.
🧚♀️ put offerings for no reasons, they might get confused and frustrated, they may trick you after.
🧚♀️ blame them, if you think they did something ask politely or make a trade to have your thing or situation back.
DO
🧚♀️ leave consistant offerings if you work with one, it is always appreciated.
🧚♀️ meditate, use divination to communicate with them, but always protect.
🧚♀️ listen to the messages they want you to hear, it might be important if a fae comes to you.
🧚♀️ little altars for them if you are used to work with a specific one, but prefer not next to iton.
🧚♀️ honor them and nature with your daily actions, they will think you are a good human.
🧚♀️ research ! Research ! More and more.
🧚♀️ write your own discoveries, or make a faepedia, it is really handy.
☯️CONTROVERSIAL☯️
Fairy doors : many people demonize it but if the fae invites itself too easily in your home, making one with a filter sigil will prevent bad entities from coming in AND will force the fae to go through the little door instead of random parts of your home. That way you know who is inside.
Should I work with the fae ? : I would recommand baby witches not to work with the fae ( I am not a baby witch antmore but sometimes I still struggle ) they are trickster, as a baby witch you may not have all the cards in your hands if something bad happens to you. Be cautious they are not sugar creatures only ! That being said, do what you want, that is your craft.
Honey and alcool : they are said to make the fae drunk BUT, like people, every fae is different. so get to know your fae before giving some, it is more cautious, plus it is not an obligation.
Having this elaborate daily magic routine. Only ever getting some of it done, if any. Feeling unsatisfied. Swearing you'll eventually get the hang of it. Falling out of the routine when life gets too much. But clinging to so much of it. Rather than remove most things when trying to get back into your craft. It doesn't quite work...until you start removing certain things.
Then, eventually you realize what's most essential in your routine. What was truly lacking in your day to day. The things you find the most spiritually fulfilling and necessary to growing as a witch and keeping up your practice. It's so much simpler and more manageable. More realistic and do-able. There's so much less to the routine. But it's enough and feels just right. The rest happens on its own, in its own time. That routine is finally yours.
Don't rush your practice. Don't overwhelm yourself. Sometimes keeping things simple is the best way to go.
I'm a witch that typically likes to do rituals, spell work, meditations, etc. at night. I think it's just because I feel more connected to the magical realm during the dark hours, and am very connected to the moon and her cycles.
Every night before going to bed I like to have a routine to help me sleep well, have beautiful dreams (even if I don't remember them), and to just practice my craft at least once per day.
I hope you like my Night Witch Routine, and incorporate some of these into your nighttime routine. 🖤
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My Witchy Nighttime Routine
1. Drink a Relaxing Cup of Tea 🍵
As I'm winding down for the day I really like to relax my mind with a warm cup of tea. This is the one I'm currently drinking, and I love it so much. I don't even need to sweeten it because the chamomile, lavender, lemon grass, and blue mallow make it delicious by itself. While I'm drinking my tea, I'll usually read some of the book currently next to my side of the bed. Right now it's Fried Green Tomatoes by Fannie Flagg. If you’ve never read the book or seen the movie, I highly recommend it!
2. Light a Candle or Incense & Meditate 🧘
After I finish my tea, I like to give myself time to sit in silence. Depending on my mood, I’ll light a candle or incense. Typically the candle will be unscented or scented with essential oils, as I don't like using artificial scents. During the meditation, I'll just relax myself and meditate on whatever I am focusing on that night. It could be some type of journey work, shadow work, or even asking myself a question that I need to find out. My nightly meditation can range from 5 minutes to 1 hr, just depending on how much time I have or how tired I am.
3. Give myself a Reading for the Next Day 🔮
If you’ve been following me I’m sure you know that I love to give Intuitive and Oracle Card readings. Well, I like doing these for myself as well! At the end of the night, I love to ask the Universe what I need to know for tomorrow. Typically I use my cards for personal readings.
4. Write in My Grimoire ✍️
I like to use my current Grimoire, which is my first one, as a kind of magical journal. I like to write about what I’ve accomplished through spells, how I’m doing with enhancing my intuitive abilities and confidence in my readings. I even love writing down all the herbs and their magical correspondences, etc. I love doing this at night because it lets me get out a bit of witchyness, right before going to sleep.
Because this is my first Grimoire, and it’s not meant to be pretty, it’s just in a spiral notebook. But for my next one, I want to get this journal because I just think it’s so perfect!
5. Thank the Universe 🙏
An Attitude of Gratitude Attracts Your Desires! Every night I like to thank the Universe for everything in my life, even the things that seem bad. I thank the Universe for my good health, abundance, my friends, and family. I usually say some more specific things as well, but those are generally what I say. I learned about having gratitude from the movie The Secret. I’m sure a lot of you have seen it, but if you haven’t, oh, I definitely recommend watching! There’s a book as well.
6. Lavender 💜
Right before laying my head on my pillow I will rub a little lavender essential oil on the center of my forehead, and some on the back of my neck. This helps me relax even more, and have a restful night. Lavender can also help induce prophetic dreams and promotes good dreams. One thing that’s upsetting about essential oils sometimes is that they’re so expensive! That’s why I was so happy when I found the ones I use now on Amazon. I got 8 good size bottles of different essential oils, including Lavender & Frankincense! Plus they’re even organic. Such a good find, and now I love using the Lavender before bedtime.
Well, that’s my witchy nighttime routine. I guess I should say that I definitely don’t do everything on this list every single night, but I try to do as much of it as possible. I also don’t beat myself up when I don’t do it, and you shouldn’t either. If you’re not able to have a routine like this, don’t worry about it. I just wanted to give some inspiration to have a nighttime routine, and make it witchy if you want!
Much love,
Allyson
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If you want to bring warmth, joy and protection for the colder months, I suggest this charm that will diffuse in the air. Keep it close to the windows and doors.
What is the difference between a Seelie and Unseelie fae ?
A Seelie fae is a type of fae that is comfortable with humans and seen as the "light fae" for example honey fairies. They may appear to the eye as sparkles or shadows, even numbers or with their full form.
An Unseelie fae is a type of fae that is not safe and comfortable for humans, they are seen as a "dark part of the lore". They would not make themselves visible for humans or they will use glamours to look terrifying.
