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All 3 piles ended up having very non sexual messages since all 3 readings ended up having partners that are more attracted to WHO you are instead of only the attraction towards your vessel.
1.
Your future partner dreams about tenderness more than passion.
When they imagine you, they think about simple moments that somehow feel sacred. Waking up beside you, seeing you without makeup, they might prefer a “natural” face. They like getting to know you. They fantasize about knowing you inside and out and that you trust them completely. They wonder what you’re like when no one else is around
They are very curious about you inner, private world. More than how you look like when you’re bare, they want to know your inside intimately. They want access to the parts of you most people never get to see.
There is a strong nurturing energy here, the physical attraction absolutely exists, but emotional closeness is what truly captivates them.
A secret fantasy they may carry is being the person who helps you finally relax and put down burdens you've been carrying alone.
They want the entirety of you.
2.
Your future partner has a broad romantic imagination, they think about stolen glances, electricity between you two, your blushy face.
Their intimate thoughts are often mixed with mystery.
There is a strong mental attraction here as well, they dream about your voice, your expressions, your mannerisms, and the way you think.
Their fantasies involve emotional vulnerability and magnetic attraction happening simultaneously. They might love to dance, watch night skies together with you. They have a romantic heart.
This person likely falls in love with your mind before anything else.
3.
This future partner thinks about you with powerful desire and devotion. Once their feelings develop, they become all-consuming.
They imagine building a future together, but they also imagine intense chemistry, attraction, and emotional loyalty. They like to protect you, hold you close, and they will convey this the same way in bed.
There is a possessive undertone here, strong desire to claim the relationship openly and proudly.
They want to build with you, have a family with you, maybe even have a business together.
I’m seeing someone holding your head between their hands.
They want an all consuming love, in a healthy way.
🗽How’s Your Destined Person’s Love Gonna Change You for the Better? ♦︎ Timeless Pick A Card
At very special stages in our lives, every now and then, we encounter very special individuals who seem to possess this uncanny ability to change us forever. Sometimes for the worse. Sometimes for the better. But ultimately—hopefully—for the wiser🌾
Well, how would meeting your Destined Person change you for the better though?? After all, this is your The One😉 How would you bring out the best in each other?🎁
En garde!🤺
A higher romance leading to a sweet union is all yours for the experiencing! But before a wondrous, fated encounter could take place... Do you dare to evolve in order to match the love and wisdom your Destined Person has to offer?🐛
song: Ready to love by SEVENTEEN
film: Butterfly and Sword (1993)
major arcana: XII The Hanged Man, II The High Priestess Rx, VI The Lovers Rx
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Pile 1 - You On the Outside are What I Always am On the Inside
vibe: Way Of Life by Core Of Soul
‘To love someone else is easy, but to love what you are, the thing that is yourself, is just as if you were embracing a glowing red-hot iron: it burns into you, and that is very painful.’
Love - Gold Historian (Raphael Holinshed)
You are a person before you are a lover. Deep inside, there was always this child who wanted to love, to be loved, to be Love itself. But you weren’t always clear about how to be or do Love safely in this world that didn’t always know how to reflect or teach children what sane, mature Love was all about🎎 You roamed about for quite a while, looking for persons to love and ways to express Love, but you were often very messy. And you were often betrayed, too.
And so, at some point in Life, for some time you burrowed your face in the pillow and decided that you would never extend your arms anymore⚔️ That it was ultimately pointless trying to love another or even show that you’re capable of it, because the world gave you so much disappointment. And when you decided on this, the truth was, you lost a huge chunk of your real-self, because the True You was always a loving person💗 There was no other way around it: you ARE love itself.
Are you…by any chance significantly/strategically Libra or Pisces?😚 Perhaps Saturn/Jupiter/Stellium in 7H or 12H? In this incarnation, you’re supposed to meet your Destined Person who in many ways, in every way, in the essence of who they are as a person, reflects back to you every bit of goodness, kindness and loveliness that you’ve tried to suppress or hide from the world🥹
Compassion - Green Astrologer (Robert Fludd)
One way that you’ll recognise your Destined Person is that they reflect outwardly, exceedingly confidently freely, these strong qualities of yours that for some karmic reasons got you into a lot of troubles in the past. By their example, by them just existing and doing and being who they are, you are reminded of your own powers and potentials: those yet to be shared with the world, those yet to be proven that they were always your superpowers🔥
The suffering? The bullying and betrayal? Darling, all of that was just part of the plot—part of your understanding the full spectrum of your personal power through experiencing contrasts☯️ Of course, you could’ve felt super miserable when going through the motions, but even if right now you’re still going through it all, I’d like to promise you that it’ll all be worthwhile, and you’ll be sure of every bit of this promise when you finally get to know your Destined Person🐢
Oo la la… You know why?🤭 Because when you get to know your Destined Person, you’ll be amazed at just how brilliantly they express all of your inner qualities! You will fall hopelessly in love with this person who seems to embody all of your greatest qualities so LOUDLY, so VISIBLY. Who they are on the outside = who you secretly are on the inside. And you’ll find a sense of strength and courage to reclaim yourself again🎣 Your Destined Person will make you fall in love with yourself by just being themselves🤷🏻♀️
Kindness - Silver Magus (Merlin)
In them just being themselves they will heal you in all the ways a person can be healed😘 I just know you’ve been through a lot but especially in terms of how you’ve felt betrayed by the world. I think there is a part of you that’s sensitive and easily hurt by even just the concept of unkindness, let alone cruelty. Your Destined Person—with an unhinged sense of humour—possesses this cute optimism, as well as acute sense of humanitarianism what will nourish your spirit back to Life!🐞
For quite a while in your Life now, you’ve been itching to go back to what feels natural to you. Whatever this may be for you, the truth of the matter is that you’re right now being called to a higher—a more evolved Life Purpose of yours—that can only be navigated together with your Destined Person!👫 You see—you’ll know—that when you’re with the right person, every bit of the cells in your body will recognise the safety and the ‘naturalness’ of it all.
Being in the presence, in the embrace, of the right person sets your Soul free to pursue those higher ideals you might’ve forsaken in the past🗽 And for some of you, those ‘ideals’ might just be ‘being fully and unapologetically yourself’—no longer apologising for being you the way that you are or for having been born at all. This is one of the plethora of reasons your Destined Person has manifested in your 3D🥰
LEVEL UP🔻💚
because it’s all worth it if it’s for you - Priestess of Patience
reverberate into me and guide me back - Priestess of Ambition
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Pile 2 - Reborn, Over and Over, to Return to the Core of Myself and Love Me There
vibe: Itsumo no Tokoro de (at the usual place) by Sakamoto Maaya
‘Therefore, to love somebody else in the first place is always an escape which we all hope for, and we all enjoy it when we are capable of it. But in the long run, it comes back on us.’
Love - Gold Geographer (John Dee)
To me, you really are an adventurous spirit. Some people may call you ‘lover girl’ or ‘lover boy’. You’re always on the lookout for some kind of a romance—sometimes, a whirlwind romance🌪 I suppose you were always looking for something. Some kind of sensation. Perhaps, some place of belonging. And many of you have identified, perhaps subconsciously, that another person’s internal system can also be a sanctuary🪹🍃🪺
You, want to belong in somebody’s heart. Perhaps because there is a specific kind of warmth you’ve been looking for, craving, and wanting to be enveloped in🛌 The whole time, what you were really looking for was a Heart that has the same shape as yours. You were searching high and low, far and wide, for someone whose heartbeats you’d sometimes felt reverberate inside of you. And those beats were the reason you started out on this shadow work journey towards finding your way back to your Destined Person⛴
You’ve looked into many different faces, eyes and smiles, just to recognise one that finally feels like Home. Many times you found disappointments, fakes, and straight up betrayers and abusers🧌 But somehow you could never stop—you could never stop believing that someone exceptionally Kind and Warm would eventually meet you at the end of the road, and they’d tell you how proud they are that you’ve made it this far🛣
Compassion - Green Physician (Paracelsus)
Ngl, you’ve probably felt ‘used’ by many of the people you used to ‘love’ or care about a lot. This may include friends and colleagues as well, and not just romantic interests/partners. I’ll tell you this much: you most likely have a strong Scorpionic/Plutonic/Lilith aenergy in your chart, right? You are a power source. Originally, this power of yours was bestowed you for a great manifestation with your Destined Person🔌
So that’s why when the wrong people plug into your power source, you get drained. It wasn’t because you were ‘weak’; the Universe had to make you feel that way so that you’d know these were the wrong matches for your kind of Power🪫 So then, you’d take it upon yourself to get clear first about exactly what kind of Power Source you are🐣 I…don’t know if you’re gonna be happy hearing this…but…
The only Person who could fill the emptiness or calm the storms inside is your Destined Person and no one else. But in order to manifest them in your 3D, you’re required to die to many old paradigms and narratives that made you so scattered in your focus to begin with🧩 This was by design, honey. Your Higher Self devised this type of narrative progression for just your kind of Lore🧚🏻♀️ I dunno why. This is part of your inner exploration, right?
Kindness - Green Alchemist (Nicolas Flamel)
See, there must be some kind of hurt in your history that’s made it so challenging to focus on pouring all your affection purely on yourself🍶 Whatever it may have been in your personal story, know that each time things or relations fell apart in your Life, it was essentially your Destined Person calling you back to them. Relationships fell apart because your Destined Person’s frequencies were ‘jamming’ those lower-vibrational timelines⚡️📡⚡️
Now you had no other choice but to focus solely on loving YOU~♥︎ All so that when you finally meet your Destined Person in the 3D, you’d have become so grounded in yourself that your nervous system wouldn’t break apart by their sheer presence🤭 Your Destined Person has a magnanimous aura about them! That’s why you need to work on YOU to match that higher-vibrational expression of WOWZA🔋 Do you understand?
It will not all be in vain. You’ll see. I sense that quite a number of peeps resonating with Pile 2 might feel very ‘ordinary’ and there’s some part of you that wants to shrug these messages off and explain away the synchronicities, but… I think you’ve been feeling the ‘call’ for really quite a while now🫣 You’re meant to be ‘seen’ and ‘heard’, in some capacity~♪ Your Destined Person is someone ‘prominent’, and this whole time, gosh, you’ve just been rising up to match them in ‘status’ or ‘visibility’😍
LEVEL UP🔻💗
because it’s all worth it if it’s for you - Priestess of Love
reverberate into me and guide me back - Priestess of Ritual
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Pile 3 - Something In Your Eyes Taught Me That It's Safe to be Soft When I’m with You
vibe: Here, There and Everywhere by The Beatles
‘You cannot stay away from yourself forever, you have to return, have to come to that experiment, to know whether you really can love. That is the question—whether you can love yourself and that will be the test.’
Love - Red Astronomer (Johannes Kepler)
Hello, Twin~👋🏻 That’s most likely how your Destined Person has (or will) greeted you in the past. They call you their Twin just by looking into your eyes🥺 When you recognise each other in the 3D world, your Destined Person is going to acknowledge that you both practically have lived ‘the same lives’ just maybe at different timelines or geographical locations. This is the Pile for my galactic ones. Those of you who identify as Starseeds—twin flame or no twin flame. These are the ‘I’m here for the Great Work’ collectives🆘
You are practically ‘owned’ by the Grid; consumed by your Work. It has been like that for a majority of your Life that at some point, I think you got traumatised and forgot how to feel ‘safe’ at all. You’ve been through cycles and cycles of narcissistic abuse—could be familial, relational or professional👷🏻♀️👩🏻🍳👩🏻💻 For a while now, you’ve been on high-alert. You could be very ‘sensitive’ to the smallest, most seemingly menial triggers that other people have no concept for as to why these ‘nothings’ are so annoying to you. It’s because you’ve been in the trenches and you recognise even micro-aggressions in a millisecond!📡
And, the thing with you is that you’re a fighter; at minimum an ally of Justice👩🏻⚖️ You HATE letting people get away with even micro narcissistic aggression. Some of you, you could’ve experienced some form of ‘female bullying’, too. You HATE most people’s stupidity—and maybe even cowardice—in not being able to or willing to call out a narcissistic behaviour. Realising that you may always be the only one fighting, you chose to disappear🍂
Compassion - Red Geographer (Marco Polo)
You see, people didn’t understand your kind of Love. For fighting for justice or righteousness you’ve been called ‘difficult’. They don’t understand your Heart that wants to protect. Until you come in touch with your Destined Person in this mortal realm🪢 Oooohhhh let me tell you: this BITCH is an even stronger, bigger, difficult-er fighter than YOU~🥊 You’ll see, your Destined Person’s courage and stubbornness will put everything into perspective.
And then you’ll know, you’ll get your confirmation and validation that the whole time you weren’t the wrong one or the crazy one or the difficult one. Everybody else’s standards were the low-resolution ones!👾 Imagine a world where your trust and goodness are weaponised against you, and most people’s reaction/response is that: ‘you should’ve known better’🤷🏻♀️ Ummm why are we as a society coddling/excusing/enabling negative and harmful behaviours???
This wouldn’t fly with your Destined Person. In general. But also, this means that whoever has ever made you feel terrible or wrong for being the way that you are will one day deal with the wrathful, vengeful nature of your Destined Person’s😂 Again! This is just your Destined Person fighting for and defending what’s RIGHT! You’ve been RIGHT all along, and now, you’re the LIGHT in their Life. They’ll defend that Light with their Life🫀🤺❤️🔥
Kindness - Gold Alchemist (Roger Bacon)
When you ‘witness’ your Destined Person, the first thing that pops in your mind will be: wow, my whole entire Life makes sense now🛸🥫🍝 Ionno, just something about them. The way they think, talk, move, even the way their face lights up when they’re surprised. Everything about them makes sense to you and it seems like that also makes sense about you😝 Two sides of the same coin.
See, you both aren’t ‘intense’ or ‘difficult’ even if some people have convinced you so. The reality is that you’re both ‘pure’ and ‘honest’. There’s this disciplined integrity, if you will, that won’t let you bow down to what’s disingenuous💎 Such a quality is extremely rare in people and so, if there’s one absolutely definitive thing in which your Destined Person helps you become ‘better’, it is that their whole entire existence gives you stronger, bigger, deadlier ammo to reach for your Midheaven🧭
Well, could be for your North Node, too; whichever you resonate. The point is, you have a certain very big and important Mission in life as a Soul having a human experience, right? What’s really nice, really sweet and romantic is that you do have a Counterpart who in every way shares your priorities and passions🥨 If this has been your main pile, seriously, there’s nothing serious here to consider. To begin with, you never needed ‘fixing’; you only needed a Mirror Counterpart who finally makes you feel safe in your own alien skin🍌
LEVEL UP🔻❤️
because it’s all worth it if it’s for you - Priestess of Happiness
reverberate into me and guide me back - Priestess of Purity
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all quotes are by Carl Jung from I wish I knew which book