#yakimaki asks

[omoblog-yakimaki]

In my experience 'non sexual kink' means either one of two things:

1). This kink is so intertwined with my life and identity as a person that it isn't exclusively sexual and it finds a way into other aspects of my everyday life (such as a sense of community or genuine comfort)

2). "Well it doesn't involve penetration so it isn't sex"

I will use the first interpretation, thank you