I really dislike some anons that are lurking here, I can’t begin to explain how much it upsets me when people just ruin what is supposed to be a fun experience to someone else. Like please, look around, we are at tumblr ffs, we are in a place full of delusional rants, of rpf rants, of making silly stories and pieces of art or funny posts because that is what this is supposed to be. Why must you come into some blogs just to tell them they should stop coping, they should be better people, they should think this and this and that because ‘actually what you said is not true’. Please, we know that half of the things we say are not true, we are aware.
Why can’t we all just collectively respect everyone’s points of view without ruining it for them. Okay for example, you wanna make up silly stories about wima fighting okay go ahead, but don’t tell other people that you are sure they are fighting and that they should believe you when you say they are fighting. Because they can believe whatever they want. Or for example, someone mentioning ‘oh! I like b!m more’ ‘oh! I like b!w more’ and immediately jumping on them because omfg how can you like bottom _name_ like?? Please, just respect preferences, just respect what they like and dislike. They are not harming anyone. It is basic fandom etiquette in first place.
And I’m not just talking about this things, which seem to be the most recurring, but also how invasive and harmful some anons are with blogs. Like?? If you are not going to be nice and just talk to the person as if you know more about them than themselves maybe you should just, not do it. We don’t know who the person behind the screen is, we don’t even know where they live, how’s their life going, so why are we attacking people we don’t even personally know? I’m just tired of that. Like please, let’s think more rationally and respect everyone like the human decency it is.