Last night, my BIL was telling me the story of Sky getting the math problem right, not knowing I was already told. Then he still goes into say,
“If you don’t put Sky in school soon, she will have a hard time.”
WHEWWW comments like this light a fire under my ass. Do not tell me or my children what will happen to them as if you know. You know nothing.
Like… bro. Don’t even get me started. His 6 1/2 year-old daughter has been emotionally suffering since she started school and she’s literally has no friends and it has been getting worse and worse. And yet they do nothing to change her school or really improve her relationship with school and the kids in her class. They just accept it as it is.
Their kids also have the most intense addictions to their phones / tablets / TV that I’ve ever seen in any children ever and I was a nanny for many years and have seen the spectrum. And no, it’s not a financial thing where my in laws couldn’t afford nanny’s and used tv in desperation, they have had TWO Nanny’s at a time YEAR ROUND when their older two (18 months apart) were younger and weren’t in school because they couldn’t hack it, even LIVING next door to their MIL who helped all the time. Even when my BIL was unemployed for 2 years, he sat in his basement playing video games while other people took care of his kids.
Like… how about you focus on your own kids’ well being instead of mine when MY KID is actually thriving. Thanks.