To me there's this really fun, interesting thing about being a domme. It's that you can sort of "dom" yourself.
You're strict about her self-care. You make sure she's had her meals, drank her water, washed her body, doesn't talk badly about herself.
And so you re-direct that energy towards yourself.
You talk to yourself with respect. You're also stoic sometimes, exigent. Disciplined. You make sure you've kept yourself hydrated today. Stomach full nicely. Mind taken care of. Tasks done; interests attended.
But, just as you measure your demand with her, you measure it with yourself. Your tone to yourself remaining present, with intent, with care.
Cause you care about yourself.
That's a beautiful thing i've learned, and i've felt my identity only to evolve after i understood how to apply it.
Feels nice