#youhavethoughts

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I got my first hate message today on my other tumblr blog, it said:

awe its pretty sweet that you have the common sense of a two year old and that you don't realise your boyfriend is cheating on you... you should read the dirty texts he sends to other girls... wow lol by the way he thinks your frigid as fuck.

My initial reaction was what is this anon on about? and then I told my boyfriend what it said. He thought it was his ex - renowned for being a complete pyschopath and stupidly paranoid. She thought that he was cheating on her throughout their relationship (including with me!) which I know is not true. Nowadays she likes to drunk text him flirtatious texts even though she has a boyfriend. I know, it's sad. I still think it might just be a random anon sending messages because they want to. But he is almost certain it was his ex. How she found my tumblr I have no idea! 

So he is really pissed off at his ex trying to come between us. And I have no reason to worry about this message because I know my boyfriend and have for 5 years, he is not the type to cheat (especially when his gf is most certainly not frigid if you know what I mean).

So if you got a message like this how would you deal with it?

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If you don't mind me asking what happened with the contraceptive injection at the doctors? are you okay? :\

"well the reason I started the injection was because I was getting really bad pain, and I had an episode at school where I almost passed out and threw up on the teacher.

so I went to the Doctor and got the injection. it's the one you get every 12 weeks and they told me I would get side effects, but I totally ignored them thinking I would be pain free and that's all that would matter, right?

the first month was horrifying, I was 'spotting' all over the place. it got so bad that in the end I was on for 3 weeks and off for 1, the complete opposite of how it should be. when I went back to the Doctor's for my second injection they assured me that this next installment would make everything ok. 

the first 5 weeks were fine but I started spotting again. after 3 injections I eventually decided to come off the injection all together. yes, I had no pain but at the end of the day it was ruining my hormones and my regularity and I had ruined so much underwear I couldn't deal with it anymore.

When I came off, I didn't have a period for 2 months. then I had one for every weekend for 4 weeks. I am only starting to get back regular and I came off in february and it is now june."