#youngmarriage

[toliek]

First dance with my hus🐻 was everything I could have asked for and more!

[dark-hair-and-brown-eyes]

Young Marriage Sucks

I just want to quickly clarify that im not saying dont do it. What im saying is that this thing im doing for the first time on top of other things sucks. Its not what I wanted it to be. Its not what I hoped it would be. Its barely close. Id truly say 2 out of 7 days (maybe its exxagerrating but thats just how it feels) are pretty okay but the rest are filled with disagreements and attitudes that I dont want to deal with. If you have a God send praise Jesus and shout Hallelujah because youre truly blessed but if you just let things be, whew chile, its hard. Its the hardest thing ive encountered in my life, and Im going through midterm exams junior year of college. I cant believe this is what it is sometimes. I’d say i regret it but thatd just hurt my husbands heart but i do. Its terrible honestly. We’re a quarter of a way into our second year and believe me when I say its not only the first year but probably the ones to come. Now this is probably from the askwed perspective of someone currently having issues with their spouse but I feel like someone probably needs to hear it even if they wont believe it. Things change big time. Attitudes get worse. Quality alone time is practically nonexistent. The sweet nothings stop because theres nothing to look forward to after a few months. You’ll get through it. But if you already have a lot going on Id say wait on it. Because if its worth it, waiting will have been the best thing you coulda done. You can in the wait become a better person, be more reasonable and openminded, you probably wont (as a woman atleast) have birth control messing with your hormones. And youll be knowledgable enough to know what words to speak and what words to keep to yourself. Everything doesnt need to be talked about. Youll definitely fall asleep upset about something. And the chase gets tiresome. Get some rest. Find God truly. Find peace. Find yourself before you add someone into your life permanently because otherwise you have to do all these things at the same time. It sure aint worth the weight gain. Haha Goodnight or Goodmorning. Dont worry too much about it. Itll still be there when the time is right. (Notice i didnt say when the time is perfect)

[holanads]

Akhir-akhir ini saya sering dihadapkan dengan perbincangan mengenai 'nikah muda'. Pengangkat topik ini bukan hanya dari kaum hawa saja, namun juga segelintir ikhwat yg ingin mengetahui lebih dalam pendapat perempuan mengenai young marriage. Apalagi semenjak banyak undangan pernikahan pasangan muda -malah masih kuliah atau baru wisuda- isu ini kian merajalela.

"Nanti nikah umur berapa? Mau nikah muda ngga? Kenapa?" "Aku tunggu dapet kerja dulu lah, lulus kuliah dulu" "Nikah bah, ribet kali. Santae aja dulu, puas-puasin masa muda" "Masih mengamati, manatau ada yg lebih bagus yekan" *versi ikhwat*

"Kalo aku sih tunggu ada yg ngelamar aja" "Tunggu dapet kerja kayaknya, lulus wisuda dulu" "Mencoba mengenal dululah, takutnya tiba-tiba ngga cocok, cerai. serem" "Wallahu'alam hehe" "Kakak itu uda nikah aja, padahal masih muda mck100x" *versi akhwat*

TELINGA kita seperti ASING mendengar NIKAH MUDA. BIBIR kita seakan ZALIM menceritakan SUNNAH. MATA kita tampak TERKESAN melihat ORANG PACARAN.

Beginilah kondisi yg kita alami, saat pacaran malah dibagga- banggakan. Sedangkan, saat sepasang sejoli ingin melakukan ibadah sunnah, malah kita caci.

Di sinilah hancurnya generasi muda yg berawal hancurnya konsep berumah tangga. Di satu sisi, para wanita sibuk memamerkan aurat yg menyebabkan syahwat para lelaki dibangkitkan sepanjang jalan, seluas media dan pergaulan. Di sisi lain, pernikahan usia dini disumbat.

Sampai memunculkan sebuah pemikiran yg hampir rata di masyarakat bahwa yg menikah muda, hanya satu di antara dua: hamil sebelum nikah atau tidak berpendidikan (astaghfirullah)

"Wahai para pemuda, barangsiapa di antara kalian yang mampu menikah, maka menikahlah. Karena menikah lebih dapat menahan pandangan dan lebih memelihara kemaluan. Dan barangsiapa yg tidak mampu, maka hendaklah ia berpuasa; karena puasa dapat menghalang gejolak nafsu” (HR. Bukhari, Tarmidzi, Muslim)

Pernikahan adalah ibadah sunnah, amalan penuh berkah, menyempurnakan separuh agama. Namun, banyak diantara kita yg masih mencaci amalan ini. Lalu, apa bukti dari syahadat kita? Apa bukti kecintaan kita pada Rasulullah? Bukankah Rasulullah Shallallahu‘alaihi wa sallam orang yg paling agung, paling mulia dan paling luhur akhlaknya? Orang yg paling pantas dijadikan role model? Lalu, mengapa kita masih saja mengasingkan diri pada sunnahnya?

Jikalau memang kita 'belum mampu/mau' menjalankan ibadah ini, bukankah alangkah baiknya kita mendoakan pasangan yg ingin menikah muda diberikan keberkahan dalam pernikahannya, mawwadah? Bukan malah mencaci atau menuduh yg tidak-tidak.

Haram love is just like salty water, no matter how much you drink from it, it will never quench your thirst. on the contrary, it will increase it. but, Halal love will not only quench you, but it will also refresh you. Halal love is just like fresh water,it is full of affection, peace and mercy.

Semoga Allah memudahkan jalan bagi para pemuda/i yg ingin menikah demi menjaga kehormatan agama, keluarga, dan orang yg dicintainya, dimampukan materinya, dikuatkan mentalnya, dikokohkan ruhiyahnya.

Dan bagi yg belum siap, bentengilah diri dengan iman. mohon petunjuk dari Allah. And stop insulting young marriage. Sunnah nih wee.

[indog]

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[welldonemusthofa]

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[welldonemusthofa]

Hmmmmm . . #kutipanbuku #youngmarriage #renamayriska https://www.instagram.com/welldonemusthofa/p/BwXHQUdBmuM/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=tt6mmsjacw1

[welldonemusthofa]

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[discoveringcalico-blog]

Young Marriage karya Rena Mayriska Harga 67.150, bonus tanda tangan, photocard Order di bit.ly/YoungMarriage . Nabilla sering melanggar peraturan dan tidak pernah kapok meski sudah mendapat surat peringatan. Sebagai ketua OSIS, Briyan harus turun tangan. Bagi Nabilla, Briyan musuh yang hobi mencari-cari kesalahan. Sudah sok ganteng, sok galak pula. Sialnya takdir justru selalu mengkonfrontasikan mereka. Saat jalan berdua mereka menemukan seorang bayi yang ditelantarkan di sebuah taman. Mereka tidak ingin menelantarkan bayi itu, seperti yang telah orangtuanya lakukan. Akhirnya mereka memutuskan untuk merawat bayi itu bersama-sama. Tapi ... bagaimana mungkin mereka sanggup merawat bayi, kalau setiap hari kerjaannya perang mulut melulu? . #youngmarriage #renamayriska #pastelbooks #bukunovel #novelremaja #bukutandatangan #bukupromo #jualbukudiskon #bukudiskon https://www.instagram.com/p/Bubi0stBTL_/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=j1o80vc92kl4