psa for older doms here's a few things that'll make women consider you an "old creep" rather than "older man":
âą unsolicited d pics (duh)
âą "hey sexy/hottie/gorgeous" etc in your first message - we're more than a visual
âą "babygirl/princess/pet nams" in your first message - we're not that close yet (that aren't one from my tags)
âą "i just xyz to your pics" as an opener















