The Daddy and the Little

This is a blog about Daddi and The Little and our journey in the DD/LG world. (+18 blog) Here we will share our thoughts, experiences and lots of kinky stuff, both our own and reblogs. Me (The Little) is most active here with posts and writings, but Daddy is active as well. We are a Scandinavian couple in the early/mid 30´s that both struggles with combining kids, job, home, love and our secret kink. Our fairytale started spring 2012, when The Little laid her eyes on Daddi and charmed him away! Does Love at first sight exist?! YES it does! Our kink started almost right away, but with BDSM, with Daddy as my Master. We talked, and tried, and fucked, and talked and fucked and *phu* Well, we had a lot of sex and sextalk *giggles* One day, Little me, stumbled over a DDLG blog, and actually started to read…..and *wow*. This was soooooo me and Daddi!! Things fell in place for both of us. Daddy is a very dominant, hard working, caring, and playful man. And me, I am a submissive, hard working, caring and playful (with a touch of bratty bitch) little girl. I often get in trouble cause of my teasing and bad temper, so Daddy is busy making my butt red *giggles* or for the more serious bad behavior, not that much fun punishments *pouts* I would love to talk with other Little ones! So please feel free to stop by and say hi! <3 Please respect that this is a blog that me and my Daddy share to express our thoughts and kinks, and NOT a dating blog. My submission belongs to my Daddy and my Daddy only dominates me. Have fun and hope you will enjoy your time here!

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I got the flu and it sucks! But hey, I got so super happy to see that we have many new followers! ❤️Welcome❤️ Only 8 left to 200!!! XOXO // The Little

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I didn’t actually roll my eyes. I just had to stare at the ceiling for a minute

How much trouble would I get in for saying that? (via fuckmethroughthesheets)

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I could actually hear you trying this.

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RED FLAG LIST for both Males and Females entering into the BDSM Lifestyle - Compiled by the members of Beautifully Bound’s closed FB group.

You are welcome to share but please keep credits in tact, people put a lot of effort into helping others. This list will grow as time goes on.

• Sex talk strait up • Demanding straight off that you call him or her by certain titles • Asking for intimate pics at the start • Saying you cannot have a safeword • Sending cock shots…like we are interested in that • Having you stop contact with family and friends • If they don’t give you their REAL name…they are usually married or faking it for fun • Ask what kinks they are into. If it’s just handcuffs and spanking, they are new and usually have no idea what they are doing • Ask what they want to achieve with their submissive, what is his role to her. If • it’s sexually based first up, they again are usually new • Ask what work they have done on themselves to advance their knowledge, who they look up to. This is for both Doms and subs • How did they get into the lifestyle, or what motivated them to follow this path. An honest person will openly tell you • There should be no secrets if there are no secrets! • Make sure you the Domme/Dom ask them to write down a list of hard/soft limits for later discussion • Expecting you to follow a protocol and wear a certain attire when meeting for the first time • Ask why they prefer the title Master rather than Dominant. How did he earn the Master title • Referring to you as their sub, Mistress, slave etc before you even meet. A title is earned not asked for • Collaring after a week is a classed as a Velcro collar. A sub wanting a collar more than the bond or a Dom wanting to collar someone too quick just means they are collector subs/Doms • Having a potential sub expect Domly Dom at the initial meet… I don’t bring My A game to coffee, W/we may not even like each other • Anyone who is not open to meeting other subs or Doms in the community, either at a munch or smaller get togethers • Ask them who they ‘go to’ for advice if needed or what websites, blogs or groups they follow to learn • Ask for “references” and run if they deny them • Question tasks that are given so you do everything while they just chill • A Dominant will NEVER ignore his submissive…EVER • If he/she gets irate when a simple question is asked and then shuts you out as punishment • Watch and listen to how they conduct themselves. If they have no respect for themselves, they won’t for you either • If they are not available after hours. Run. You need someone you can call or talk to at any time and know they’ll be there • Not understanding that real life issues can come up and punishing you for things beyond your control • If there is a contract. He must lie you adjust it to suit you both. You both must sign it and BOTH be committed to it • They don’t care about your mental and emotional wellbeing • They do not know you but suddenly your name is “slut” right off the get go • If there is nothing other than kinky sex, as in nor continued learning, communication, understanding of changing need or limits…you are just having kinky sex. • If subs assume you will fix all first world problems because you are a Dom…forgetting you are human and also make mistakes • Mental Heath needs or childhood issues to be taken into consideration if there is any and MUST be worked on slowly and gently with compassion and care. This goes for both sides • Anyone who says they have no limits or wants someone who has none • For the Domme’s/Doms, if the sub immediately starts asking about sex or sexual gratification • Someone who wants multiple slaves is usually just a basement dweller who is a lazy bum • Slaves that beg for a Master or Mistress just want wank fodder • Subs that are quick to submit. If they submit to you that easy they will submit to anyone • Asking for details of how you punish your subs • Open Frank discussion is essential in building a firm based for the relationship, if either isn’t prepared to talk it’s a red flag • Kik???….Smapchat??? Bugger off kid and get back to school • I’m sorry, and I’m fully aware that younger people find who they are early (I was 19)…but a 19 year old is not a Master or an experienced Dom • No aftercare by the dominant after a scene leaving the sub feeling emotional, vulnerable and feel like they have failed • Any male that asks or is very interested in your kids • Dom’s that demand you use a particular title from initial contact or use titles on you without agreement • Public meeting for initial meet choose somewhere discrete enough and quiet enough to talk, but still has people in earshot if things go badly • NEVER meet in a hotel room…EVER • Asking for things that have previously and CLEARLY been expressed as a hard limit • A true Dom will present himself as a gentleman foremostly honourable & respectful to women not a power hungry chauvinistic egotistical know it all. Tread carefully… • They will be patient • Ask if they are married or have another sub. Ask about her. Ask if she know and is okay with him looking for other subs. Ask if you can talk to her • They should be interested in the betterment of you. ie: helping to further your education, career, life goals etc. not just sex. A true Dominant wants his submissive to be at her/his full potential, in every aspect of her/his life. • When a “dom” says the term “no” is not acceptable, in any context = Red flag • When subs try “topping from the bottom ” • I think it can pretty much be summed up as ‘Respect’. I think being a dom and being a gentleman are kinda codependent. I never speak harshly to anyone I’m with or forget my manners or allow them to forget theirs. Respect must go both ways in ANY healthy relationship, D/S or otherwise. • Trust your instincts…if you feel uncomfortable, pressured, overwhelmed in a negative way or just have a nagging gut feeling that something is not quite right, then step back, take the time to consider is this right for you (applies to D-types and S-types) • If they are treating it as more of a game, fad, short-term fun…don’t play along, they are really just attention seeking. Find someone who is interested in growing as a person in a L/s dynamic. You will bring out the best in each other. • Consider how/where you come to meet them as an indication of how serious and they are. For example, if they send you a naked photo, nothing-in-common friend request, PM, then they are probably not for you. Just as you would in the vanilla world, consider the first impression they have made on you and think about how genuine they appear to be • It’s ok to walk away! Don’t think you have failed or that this is not for you. Sometimes things just don’t work out or it may have taken you a little longer to spot a fake. Look out for yourself first • Anyone that is looking for a collar right off the bat, anyone looking to collar you right off the bat • If your available partner suddenly becomes unavailable or inconsistent • Don’t forget Common sense people… Listen to your intuition • Anyone who says 'hey slut, I own you now’. *Throat punch till they pass out* • Never hide anything and never tell lies

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What is LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2016?

Hello everyone!   I’ve received some questions about the LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2016.  I hope this post answers your questions:

History of LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2016 - (I believe this is an accurate history. I will modify it if I find out differently.) LittleSpace was started as a munch in the Sacramento area by an MMF triad, which included the F as a little, her Daddy, and her husband. They created an event where they traveled to Disneyland once a year, to coincide with Gay Days (the first weekend in October).  

My ex and I heard about it and went one year. We were interested because we were also in a triad relationship and it was fun to meet another triad. 

Because of some personal reasons, the Sacramento triad was unable to make it the following year. My ex and I said we would serve as hosts and keep the event going.  We used out tumblr accounts to advertise the event since we were getting some amount of attention to our tumblrs at that time.

We hosted the event 3 years running, with 32 attending, 52 attending, and then 55 people attending each year.  Our goal was to keep growing the event. We’ve had people from all over the country attend. It grew each year and was one of the most fun Daddy Dom/little girl events ever - which I’ve dubbed the “high holy weekend of the DD/lg year!” 

This year, LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2016 is CO-HOSTED by Daddy Vinnie, SD Little Scouts, and Little Scouts SF.  This is a transitional year in which the event next year will be hosted solely by Little Scouts (though I hope to continue in an honorary Daddy role). 

For more information, please see the LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2016 tumblr blog post or the event listing on Fetlife (https://fetlife.com/events/417320). You’ll find all the contact information there for us.  Write us with your questions.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS:

Can single littles (or Daddies, Mommies, or Caregivers) attend?

Absolutely. This event is open to anyone who is involved in the Age Play community. This is not a pick-up event, however, and “creeper” behaviors will not be tolerated. This is a safe space for all littles and caregivers of all types.

Are children allowed to attend?  

No. Children under 18 years of age are not allowed.  This is an adult (18+ event) as there will be talk about BDSM and the kink lifestyle. The DD/lg - CG/l - Age play lifestyle is an “Adult Consensual Roleplay” community. As such, children are not allowed.   While we can not prevent you from bringing your children to Disneyland, we kindly ask that you refrain from introducing children into our group and respect the adult boundaries of this group.

Can I dress “little”?  What is appropriate attire for this event?

LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2016 coincides with Gay Days. You can wear Red to show your support! Many of us are into the BDSM / Kink community, so we’ll wear our basic black and our kilts with our buttons and pins from various events. It’s also usually very hot that time of year (or can be), so something lighter weight than leather might be appropriate. Many of the Little Scouts will wear their Little Scouts outfits and sashes and hats.  We will have t-shirts for this event and buttons!  It’s Disneyland, so make sure whatever you wear is public appropriate.  There will be children at Disneyland - don’t upset the vanillas!  But you can of course show your solidarity with the Gay / BDSM / Kink / Leather / Age play communities - as long as you show proper propriety and respect.   Dress to be comfortable and have fun!

Are there opportunities for ride or room sharing?

Yes!  Once we get closer to the event, we will set up ride share and room share connections to help people offset expenses.  We want to make sure people have solid plans before committing to ride or room sharing as changes of plans can negatively affect people’s planned expenses. Stay tuned for ride and room share info later this year!

Are there any hidden charges?  

No. There are no hidden charges. Everyone pays their own way for Disneyland tickets, travel, and accommodations.  We will make commemorative buttons available, and this year probably t-shirts!  There will be fees for those just to offset costs. Buttons have been two bucks in the past, and we’ll use a drop-ship company for t-shirts so individuals can buy their own if they want. There are some events people attend that might cost extra. For instance, not on the itinerary is a trip to Ariel’s Grotto, a fancy lunch/dinner where you can meet 4 of the Princesses. Many of us enjoy doing that “extra” activity during the event.

If I have further questions, who do I contact?

You can contact me, Daddy_Vinnie (Fetlife) or [email protected], or daddyvinnie.tumblr.com (Ask or messaging).  

You can contact a couple on the council of organizers for SD Little Scouts -DaddysElla (Fetlife) or _Dami_ (Fetlife) or SDLittleScouts (Fetlife). (SoCal representatives)

You can contact those in the Little Scouts SF community - LD_Chris (Fetlife) or LittleScoutsSF (Fetlife).  (NorCal representatives)

Any of us can help to answer your questions.  

We’re super excited about this year’s LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2016 event!  We hope you can join us for this high holy weekend of the DD/lg and Age play year!

- Daddy Vinnie

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Really need a weekend alone with Daddi! A good session with some hard spanking, whipping and just letting him use me freely! Anyone else that have a family that sometimes makes it hard to play free?

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