s'more love

I refuse to be a walking cliche.

[culturenlifestyle]

[sheikh-that-ass]

[fashionsensexoxo]

[nycbambi]

[missbombshellxx-deactivated2016]

[tea-and-tranquility]

[naturaekos]

“Hurl yourself at goals above your head and bear the lacerations that come when you slip and make a fool of yourself. Try always, as long as you have breath in your body, to take the hard way–and work, work, work to build yourself into a rich, continually evolving entity.”

Sylvia Plath

[meatcrimes]

[intrus-deactivated20160825]

[thelovejournals]

It has made me better, loving you.

Henry James, The Portrait of a Lady

[bob-belcher]

[bellygangstaboo]

A young girl climbed up a step ladder to stand at the podium before a tense Charlotte City Council meeting.

Petite in size, with braids in her hair and hearts on her t-shirt, Zianna Oliphant collected herself and delivered her message loud and clear.

“It’s a shame that our fathers and mothers are killed and we can’t see them anymore. It’s a shame that we have to go to their graveyard and bury them. We need our fathers and mothers to be by our side.”

[its-a-different-world]

Oh my goodness…

[amberibarreche]

[kushandwizdom]

[keysofshadowandlight]

[acehotel]

[negressive]

in a relationship with healthy communication, arguments should end with understanding on both ends

you have to keep the goal in mind

do you want to win? or do you want to understand that person and resolve the issue? (ask yourself once, then ask again)

the ego loves to win an argument, but relationships are not about feeding your ego

healthy relationships dilute the ego

if you find yourself arguing to win in your relationship, consider what you value more: the love you share with that person, or protecting your ego