Please help my sister
As you can already guess by the photo my sister is handicapped. Actually she is ten years older than me and she was born as a healthy cute child. We were born in Romania and she was born 1988. So in that time the medical treatment wasn't good at all in Romania. She became ill when she was about a few months old and my mother brought her to the hospital. There she got even more sick because she got infected with salmonellae! Unfortunately the doctors honestly didn't treat her accordingly without bribery. But my mother didn't have money at all at that time. So she could not afford it to pay the doctors more money... Please believe me that the doctors didn't care that much to help. They even treated her the wrong way and gave her a syringe in the wrong place in the spinal column which made her condition even worse. They said she might die but if she survived she will be 100% psychological handicapped. One doctor even told my mother that she should leave the hospital and my sister so that she would die! Because who would want a child that will be handicapped. Well thanks god my mother loves all her children and she didn't abandoned my sister. She staid with her and prayed for her that she will survive. Luckily she really did survive! If you are wondering where my father was, he was working in the army to provide our family with money to live. That was the only possibility for him at that time to have a job with a guaranteed loan. The sad part was that he was almost never home so I we didn't have a chance to know him that good.... But honestly I wasn't that sad bc he was a very strict father who was not afraid of beating his children and wife when he felt like it....
So our story continues. My mother did everything for my sister to grow her up. She is behaving like a little child and she can't talk much. Furthermore she slowly gehts problem with Walking and using her hands. They become.... I don't know how else to put it but they seem to become stiff. Despite that in society she was still treated badly because she was handicapped.... All people looked strangely at her, talk behind her back, point fingers at her even insult her! And yes even now people still do this bs!!!! What else could my mother do than keep her as often as she can at home and never leave her alone. Nobody of the rest of the family helped. They thought she was cursed or possessed by a demon..... As you can imagine she had a sad and lonely childhood.
10 years later I was born and my mother told me my sister was so happy she cried when I was borne. She also told me my sister was always with and never left my side. I personally remember that I always played and had fun with her. My mother started to teach me how to take care of her when I was a very small child. It was really hard to take care of her when I was only 4 or 5 years old. In that time I wasn't able to comprehend the need of me taking care of her but I still did as I was told.
Please have mercy with me but my family is really suffering from poverty since my father is gone. We of course had to pay for the funeral and this is in general not cheap.... Also we had to pay for repairing the
So in 2018 I moved to Germany. I found a job as a waitress and my dream is to study here one day. I miss my family so so much especially my sister. It was the hardest decision in my life so far to leave my mother and sister behind. My mother kept begging my to leave so that I can live a better life and maybe one day even earn enough money to help them financially. In the end I took my chance hoping that one day I will earn enough money to help my sister and mother.
This year my father died. He died because of drinking while driving. Alcohol was his biggest love in his life and he took every chance to drink. Don't take it the wrong way but thank God he was the only one who got involved. Naturally we were and still are very sad and mourning that this happened.... He was still our father and a husband.
So to come to my point: I really need to help my sister. Honestly I absolutely don't earn yet enough money so that they are able to live a comfortable life. Also Simona (my sister) is becoming more and more sick. I really do wish to bring them to Germany even if it's only for a short time, I feel like I need to bring her to a German doctor. They medical system and doctors are so much better here and I am convinced that Simona will be treated better here. I'd do anything for my sister so here I am begging you to help me get here to a good doctor. Please even one Euro /dollar will help me out! she is really the kindest soul on this earth and she really deserves an easier life.... So please help if you can! Even spreading my story will also help!
Thanks a ton to everyone who is willing to help!!!
