So I learned tonight that treating people with kindness is almost easy...
A few hours ago, while being very busy watching that Versace crime story and drooling over Darren Criss, I received a text. In that text I was reminded that some people just suck. Some people are just irredeemably sucky and nothing can cancel out their immense amount of suck. It’s just SO much suck. All of the suck. It doesn’t matter how nice you try to be to them, how much you explain about the hurt their words cause, they just continue to unapologetically suck. Anyway, The Big Suck has created this profile which is, by all means, a hate blog masquerading as a “judgement free space”. They talk shit about Ed, his exes and more than anything, other members of Ed’s fanbase. They try to justify their hate by quoting cheap taglines from TMZ and hiding behind the anonymity of the internet and some passive-aggressive words of pseudo intellect. Basically, they suck. It’s what I’ve been saying. I know I haven’t been very active lately and I know, God I KNOW, things are much different now than when I joined the fanbase back in 2011, but I refuse to believe that everyone here is into that Big Suck crap. I refuse to believe that the toxicity has taken over the entire fandom and there are no people left who genuinely like each other and who simply live and let live. So, let’s try something out: go spread some love right now. You can drop me a message saying something nice about someone else, or you can just drop that person an odd compliment on their inbox. Make a post. Add some funny gifs. Go mad with love! Lick the screen when you see their URL, I wont judge you, I don’t know your life. Finally, because I think there’s just so much energy you can spend in being kind to someone that just wants to suck, I’d like to leave them with the following:
