Fawn

20 year old

[wistfulmage]

All these system apps and websites all have this issue where they’re like “join my discord server for updates! Join my discord server for bug reports! Join my discord server for important updates and you won’t see these updates in the app at all, only in my discord server or my Wordpress blog that nobody checks! Discord discord discord!” I’m so tired of every single thing that’s supposed to help people with DID or OSDD being all discord and discord community focused and their primary user base and feedback base coming from discord.

Not every system uses discord. Some people don’t have the app and shouldn’t be forced to download it just to be able to report bugs or give feedback or contact the developer at all. I hate how everyone just assumes every system has discord. Some of us don’t and don’t want to get it.

Also pisses me off that when you search system resources especially on this app 90% of the results are simply plural and plural kit/tupperbox decor which is completely useless outside of aesthetic reasons. Nothing wrong with you taking creative liberty on your profiles of course. But a- that should not be the primary search result and b- again not every system uses discord

[wistfulmage]

IDK Who Needs to Hear This but

It's completely okay and normal to outgrow things, environments, and people. The person you were at 12 is not who you are at 14. That 14 year old self is not who you are at 17, who isn't who you are at 19, who isn't who you are at 22. You do not have to, and should not, cling to your old self after you have outgrown it. It does not make you fake. Personal experience: When I was 12 years old I was very deep into fandom culture, niche media online, had no irl friends, and was the textbook definition of "weird kid." I mainly used amino, this app, and discord to communicate and for all of my social interactions. Now at almost 21, I am largely into "basic" or popular media, I only engage with fandom culture for some things and even then it is very surface level engagement, barely interact with niche online microcommunities, I have a lot of irl friends and acquaintances, most of my online friends are like how I am now, I don't use discord anymore, and I am largely outcasted from discord and tumblr circles anyways for being "too normal." And that's okay. This doesn't mean I was fake at twelve years old just because I am nothing like my twelve year old self. That was genuinely who I was at the time. Likewise, my twelve year old self does not cancel out my present self and mean I am faking who I am now. This is a completely normal thing to happen. It is very normal to grow and change as you get older, especially in your teen years and especially when you start to enter adulthood. If anything, forcing yourself to remain stagnant is bad for you. Unfortunately, this does mean you will start to outgrow people, places, and hobbies that no longer match who you are. It is okay for you to still be friends with people who have not changed in the same direction you did, but if they degrade you for your changes instead of supporting you, then they are not for you. If you start to feel like you do not belong, maybe it is best to let them go as you should never have to shrink yourself to fit in. Change is okay. Do not be afraid to change.

[voxthenpdicon]

Btw you DO put people at risk of suicide if you intentionally make people with NPD crash. You are not saving people from "abusers" you are putting vulnerable people at risk. Do not do this. "How to isolate a narcissist" "How to cut off a narcissists supply" "How to kill a narcissists ego" stuff like that is putting people who are already traumatized at a high risk.

[maderonni]

I get the idea behind saying "don't harass octo n sp's devs it's not gonna do anything n ur an asshole for that"

But like, nobody has been harassing them. I haven't seen anyone say that or show that besides the Dev's announcements seem to imply that they're getting some amount of backlash in the public discord chats. None of it is harassment, mostly disbelief and some trolls being trolls.

There was ONE change.org petition to ask to get sp to be open source and Amaryllis replied positively. We're allowed to criticize the decisions made and nobody is mad at the publicly shown reason for them shutting down.

We're mad at the fact Octo was advertised as an alternative for SP, then 2 days later is shutting down, we're mad at the fact we're given 2 WEEKS notice for Octo, we're mad at the fact Octo allegedly housed a pedo in a server full of minors for an extended period of time, we're mad that we have no more options like SP to go to at the moment, We're mad people were swindled out of their money when they were given false promises.

We're allowed to criticize the devs, their apps, and their descisions without belittling their mental health. That's not harassment.

"they took time out of their day to develop these apps... you shouldn't criticize them so harshly, they have every reason to back out and don't owe you anything" they also asked for money and were given money, and promised something out of it, no users were given what they paid for, and they immediately cancelled after implementing this. Octocon's Patreon is already down. SP+'s subscriptions have been reportedly difficult to cancel to some users, so yeah! they do owe at least some users something out of it! I haven't seen any reported refunds yet!

[octoconbeware]

only 2 fucking fronting tracker apps with a friends feature and the first one dies and you people fucking bully the only other one off the internet bc of different opinions yall weird as hell hope ur intensive therapy for whatever ur major damage is denying disabled people a really helpful tool i hope ur getting so much hate for this 😭😭😭

I wasn't aware that allowing predators in the community server was a "difference in opinions"?

[objectophiliac]

non-aromantics getting access to the phrase “aros can date too!” is so tragic. because now they just repeat that to every aromantic (regardless of where they fall on the spectrum) to “reassure” us that we’re not “broken”, or to justify making unwanted romantic advances.

non-aros really struggle with the idea that there are some people who just. Don’t Want To Engage With Romance Ever. and that, with enough time and patience, they can somehow make us “return” to being alloromantic (despite, for a lot of us, there is nothing to “return” to; they just assume that romance is an innate part of living), or “correct” us in one way or another.

[th3-gard3n-of-3vil-coll3tiv3]

Hey guys...

So. To start this off. Yeah, SP going down is bad. Its scary, its inconvenient, its annoying, and its even causing significant distress.

But we've been here before. SP has only really been around since 2020. Plenty of systems existed, lived, and even thrived before SP, and we will continue to do so now.

SP had a lot of functions that made it convenient, but many of those functions can be replaced without having to use "system-dedicated" apps that damage our community.

Need to track who's fronting? Jewelery, such as bracelets or rings. Emoji sign offs for messages. Change your bio/notes/whatever display is easiest for you and others.

Need to track who is fronting when? Use a notes app or even a physical notebook to track who is fronting at what time. It can be just after a switch, or a certain time of day, or whenever it comes to you.

Need to track in-sys conversation? Apps like Antar or TwiNote are available.

Need to keep faceclaims or relevant images together and organized? Pinterest boards.

Need to track general information? Rentry (highly recommend), google applications.

Yeah. None of these are as good as SP. SP was certainly a unique space. But we will not perish. We as systems will support each other and use the resources at our disposal. We are nothing if not resilient, resourceful and determined.

We will get through this. Together.

[wistfulmage]

I have mostly distanced myself from the online plural community for the past couple of years mostly because the bullshit in it started to annoy me (among other things but frankly I had enough of the community) but I will say this:

Every single app for systems going dark at the exact same time except for octocon is incredibly suspicious. Add in the fact they’re all (with the exception of lighthouse) practically begging people to use octocon? And the fact all the developers have been in touch? (Again except lighthouse) And the fact that in the simply plural discord server any attempt to point this out or criticize the octocon developer (atlas) is immediately deleted and met with passive aggression and being told to not talk about it? None of that is normal. That’s not normal for two separate entities that have supposedly not been in contact with each other more than minimally, and that’s not normal for two separate entities not in some form of cahoots.

One ecosystem having a total monopoly over the entire plural community, regardless of what your stance is on syscourse (particularly the endo discourse) is dangerous. Nothing good can come of it. Sorry (not really) but I would genuinely rather eat the caca out of someone’s butt than go back to using octocon especially since now I feel like I’m being forced to use it.

Atlas stated on his blog that he and the sp developer are not in any cahoots, but how do you know he’s telling the truth? He allowed a known pedophile into his server with minors in it, protected the pedophile and harbored him. He pushed the situation under the rug until the community pushed back, demanding answers and retaliation. Even now, he continues to downplay his decisions. How do you know someone who protected a predator is telling the truth? What, because Atlas said so, his word is suddenly absolute truth? The same person who denies the anti endo origins of the app? If it initially had anti endo origins, and truly did change his mind, then the correct thing to do and the honest thing to do would be to own up to it. To publicly express the shift when it fucking happened. Not wait until there was backlash. Not deny it and wipe all evidence of the past, claim it never happened, and essentially gaslight an entire community of trauma survivors.

Personally I don’t care it was originally an anti endo ecosystem. I don’t give a damn about 97% of syscourse. I have my opinions for certain topics but I don’t care about them enough to make an issue out of it. I don’t care it was anti endo, I care he’s lying about it. I care he’s gaslighting an entire community. I care he’s backpedaling because being anti endo got him backlash. I care because he refuses to admit the truth. Nobody would care if it was originally anti endo but his opinion shifted or the goal of the app shifted. But everybody does care because you’re lying about it.

Considering that, the harboring a pedo situation (and downplaying that too even after being exposed), and the contradiction between what he states and what’s actually in his (shady and vague) terms of service/privacy policy, can you really trust that he’s telling the truth?

Personally, I wouldn’t trust Atlas with even your favorite color, never mind your entire system data.

The community has proof. All atlas has are claims. Claims he cannot back up with evidence besides pointless, shallow words that are just him basically restating himself and pulling a “trust me bro.”

[appledex]

ampersand as well as writelighthouse slowly dying as well is essentially forcing everyone to move to octocon if they still wish to use a plural cantered app

all these apps going down at the same time ending with simply plural and leaving JUST octocon is such a weird situation to me,, i'm unsure if anyone else has pointed this out yet,,

[sortingmyideas]

God I fucking hate kissing it's so disgusting keep that shit so far away from me istg

[intersexbunny]

perisex people who know next to nothing about us making "intersex educational" content:

"intersex is a medical condition ......... it's a medical condition ....... they have a medical condition .... medical condition ....... not all intersex people are LGBTQIA because it's a medical condition .......... it's a medical condition"

[dabwax-deactivated20250410]

Just to break this down for any confused people:

Yes, a lot of intersex people have unique medical issues and challenges that perisex people do not have.

No, "intersex" is not a medical condition. Intersex is a sociopolitical identity based on the collective experiences of many, many types of people with differing medical needs and challenges.

Yes, being intersex makes you queer. You can opt out of calling yourself queer, but queer is a sociopolitical identity heavy with specific meaning that will always apply to intersex people, whether an individual identifies themselves as queer or not.

[alpinesimmer]

the midnights legacy challenge!

but this time better than ever with bolded text.

again, this legacy challenge is basegame compatible, which is why there is a reuse in some traits & skills. if i do happen to make a midnights 3am edition legacy challenge, that one will use more careers, skills & traits from packs!

tag any posts you make with the #midnights-legacy-challenge  !!  i want to see all of those lovely photos!!<33

[rebellesims420]

❥ Braids , Locs , Twists And More. Maxis Match Edition Part 3❥

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Part 1 2 4 Huge Thanks to the Creators ❥ @simkatu @twisted-cat @simsenshi @ceeproductions @thatonegreenleaf @redheadsims-cc @sehablasimlish @leeleesims1 @aladdin-the-simmer @laeska @qicc @sheabuttyr @goamazons @simstrouble @sashima @joshseoh @greenllamas

[thatonegreenleaf]

~80s' classics legacy challenge~

A legacy challenge from a selection of my favourite music from the 80s'!

plz note these are not necessarily literal interpretations of each song, nor are they based on any information about the song from any of the artists.

Some general Guidelines:

Have/Adopt/Science-Baby at least one child per gen

You can use money cheats if you wish, if that makes it more fun for you! However, some gens do involve starting with limited funds.

Any gen can be an occult if you think it fits! (but some do specifically involve occults)

Any lifespan, I play with long!

You can find a base game compatible version of this challenge here.

If you decide to play it, please tag me and/or use the tag #80sclassicslegacy, I would love to see!

watch me play this challenge live on my twitch!