Hey men, do better… consent is a fucking must. The women, non-binary, men, and all others around you are not here for your entitlement. Consent isn’t a grey area, it’s not a vibe check, and it’s definitely not something you assume. It is clear, enthusiastic, ongoing, and mutual — every single time.
Stop laughing off coercion. Stop excusing boundary-pushing. Stop confusing silence or fear with a “yes.”
If someone is uncomfortable, hesitant, drunk, high, scared, unsure — that is not consent. If someone says “no,” or “maybe,” or pulls away — that is not consent. And if you don’t have a hell yes, then it’s a fuck no.
Educate your friends. Call each other out. Hold yourselves accountable. Being a decent human isn’t extra credit — it’s the baseline.
Do better. Be better. Or get out of the way.
Sincerly, a man who strives to do better for everyone else around them every damn day.
