Love, Pain, Letting Go And Learning To Love Again

[1lovestorms]

Loving and caring for someone...sometimes just isn’t enough...Trust is not a given but when it doesn’t exist it tears down all the beauty and splendor of what two people share. I let you go for a reason...I want to be trusted. Being suspicious or assuming the wrong things tore us down and only created anxiety and doubt in our days together. My hope is to find a love that is willing to accept me for all my beautiful parts, flaws, scars, imperfections & perfections and more importantly that this person is willing to risk and be vulnerable and willing to trust in me. ♥️

[journey-to-balance]

I do believe that until we heal the wounds of our past, we continue to bleed. Sure we find ways to bandage the bleeding; be it with food addictions, with drugs and alcohol, with gambling or by becoming a workaholic … heck even sex can be our bandage … Eventually though, over a sustained period of time, continued denial and repression oozes out completely staining our lives … This manifests in any number of ways, be it with failed or fractured relationships, with co-dependent attachments, with depression, with anxiety, with fear, or even violence…

Therefore, we must find the strength to open up those wounds and pull out the core of the pain that is holding us back in memories, in trauma…

With counseling, with medical and/or psychological help, with self guided meditation, and spiritual practices, via self help literature or support network, I do believe it is possible to make peace with our past…

Yes, we can move on from heartbreak.

Yes, we can come to the realization that our struggles became the catalyst that ultimately changed us in many positive ways …

Wishing you Unexpected Miracles … Our Journey to Balance 

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[sanfranciscofeelings]

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[1lovestorms]

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[gomcgill]

“Sometimes things seem insurmountable but somehow we make it through.” — Trudi Emmsfacebook.com/trudi.emms

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[thelovejournals]

I will kiss your scars as you heal, I will sit by your side and hold your hand. I will write invisible secrets and paragraphs and maybe a book into your skin at night, while you sleep warm next to me.

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[1lovestorms]

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[bryantmcgill]

When the storm rips you to pieces, you get to decide how to put yourself back together again. — Bryant McGill

[1lovestorms]

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Burn. 🔥Be the good in the world 🌎

[1lovestorms]

Beautiful. You! 😘

[1lovestorms]

Humble. Real. Grateful.

[1lovestorms]

Thank goodness for Karma.

[gomcgill]

To forgive another person means you have first condemned them. When we condemn others we condemn ourselves. When we judge and agonize over another’s faults, we become attached to their imbalance and sickness. When we hold-on to someone’s imperfections we become emotionally pair-bonded to their maladies. At a deeper level, when we constantly meditate on another’s faults, it is because we are neglecting our own unhealed wounds. Forgiveness is another way of saying, ‘I need to mind my own business.’ — Bryant McGill

[1lovestorms]

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[gomcgill]

“Forgive yourself for the blindness that put you on the path of those who betrayed you. Sometimes a good heart doesn’t see the bad.” — Unknown Author

[1lovestorms]

True. So grateful that I took the blind fold off and now I am living a much better life.

[meanwhilepoetry]

The only definition of you that matters is how you choose to define yourself. Anyone else’s definition is a pale imitation of the truth.

Nikita Gill (via meanwhilepoetry)

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