Two Masters in Love without a Slave

We're two Doms living in DC. If you like what we post drop us a line and let us know. If you're brave enough to wear our collar, don't be shy. We can be picky and demanding, but we know you like that anyway. Attitude is everything. If you're under 18 or any of this is illegal where you live, go away.

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Superiors

[fagthing]

Superior perfection

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[fagg-it]

[facedownassupmrduff]

Ultimate Humble Position.  I’d let him earn forgiveness.

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the right way to present to a SIR

[mestrebaytessslaves]

[betabros]

mestrebaytessslaves:

Oh, sorry boy, did you think tonight was gonna involve you?  No, you’re gonna lie there sucking on my dirty shorts while this man & I make love next to, over, and around you.  And after we’ve both cum a couple times, we’re gonna fall asleep against you while your little cock throbs all ignored in that tight jock & the stink of sex keeps you awake & horny.  Tomorrow morning we’ll let you loose to make breakfast while we have sex in the shower, then you can kiss our feet thank you under the table while we eat.

[cuteguyzhotboys]

[properfaggot]

FUCK! I don’t care if he can’t legally drink yet he could own me any fucking day.

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LEARN YOUR PLACE - ACCEPT WHAT YOU ARE - EXIST TO SERVE

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[simplyhotguys]

[properfaggot]

UNF!

[navyl0stb0y]

the lannisters send their regards

[karl666-deactivated20181214]

TORTURE

Most Master will from time to time wish to torture their slaves. It is then that their sadistic nature comes to the fore.

Torture, unlike punishment, is inflicting pain and suffering for pleasure.

There are basically two methods of inflicting torture; active and passive.

The first way involves continued action on the part of the Master  such as an extended whipping. A thorough whipping can take up to an hour as He applies various instruments of pain to different parts of the slave’s body.

In the second method the Master sets up a situation which will apply the torture with very little further effort on his part. Such examples include, electro torture, use of astringents, nettles, itching power etc. Much has been written about safe and ‘no go’ areas of a slave’s body when it comes to whipping but provided common sense and a few simple rules are observed

it is possible to produce a slave well striped from head to toe safely. It is a common misconception to think that heavy whips must be used to mark the skin. It is invariably the case that a light multi-stranded whip will mark the slave just as well as a heavier whip in places where there is less fleshy protection whilst producing intense stinging pain and this kind of implement can be used for much longer than a heavier one as no damage is being caused. One of my master’s favourite whips consists of many strand of thin rigid plastic. I can be very accurate with this and it marks beautifully. It is safe to use on all parts of the slave’s body as it has very little weight.

Basic Rules

1. Heavy solid implements should only be used on buttocks and fleshy areas of the thighs above the knees.

2. The lower back between rib cage and buttocks is an absolute ‘no go’ area. There are vital organs here and no protection.

3. The remainder of the slave’s back, shoulders and arms are suitable targets but if a knotted whip is used it is best to avoid the spine.

4. No blows on the neck or face.

5. All areas of the slave’s front are safe for whipping but care should be exercised when applying the whip on the belly between the waist and genitals. Again the light whip will mark very well, produce intense stinging pain and no damage.

For an extended whipping it is best to secure the slave firmly with ropes or chains. My master’s favourite position is spread-eagled with leg spreader and wrists tied to hooks in the ceiling and the slave on my toes. There are then no parts of the body which are inaccessible. The torment of the slave undergoing a whipping can be increased by blindfolding or hooding it as it cannot tell when or where the next blow will land. The genital area can safely be included in a full body whipping provided a suitable instrument is used. The best is a short multi-stranded whip (10 to 15 cm) made from thin leather shoelace or similar. The lighter the better as it will cause no damage but the pain is intense.

For a complete body whipping master can remove the slave’s chastity device and secure his PA ring to his waist chain. This exposes the underside of his cock and his balls for treatment with the tiny whip. A full whipping can take an hour or more. There is no need to rush and the Master can take breaks in the proceedings should he feel the need for refreshment. After all - the slave is not going anywhere! When the Master is satisfied with his handiwork or he judges the slave has had enough it is best not to release it straight away unless, of course He wants an immediate service from it.

A period of reflection for the slave whilst it is still restrained after a whipping is good for its psychological conditioning. Make the  slave hanging for up to 30 minutes after an extended whipping whilst Master relax with a drink on His bed. The slave should have been trained so that when it is released it drops immediately to its belly, crawls to its master’s feet and kisses them.

If the Master wishes to give His slave a thorough caning as apposed to a quick instant punishment it is a good idea to warm it up first with a paddle say or relatively light instrument before using the heavier stuff. The slave can be on its belly, bent over the edge of a table or bed, or bent double with its wrists attached to his ankles. A caning of tightly stretched buttocks is considerably more painful then on more relaxed ones so the really sadistic master will have his slave bent double for this torture.

As the slave’s pain threshold increases with ‘warming’ heavier implements can be used but the master  should be aware that these will cause deep seated bruising so their use should be restricted to the fleshy well padded areas of buttocks and thighs.

The area where thighs and buttocks meet is particularly sensitive and will be painful for many days. It is important to keep well away from the base of the slave  spine and to avoid wrapping around the hips where there is little protection and many nerves. Accurate caning of a slave in this way requires practice and the novice Master would be advised to carry this out on a couple of pillows before tackling the real thing.

Passive Torture

If the Master wishes to torture his slave with the minimum of effort then one of the following techniques can be employed. Master’s favourite position of bondage is to have the slave straddle a stool on which can be placed a variety of objects designed to make life very uncomfortable. The slave’s hands are bound tightly behind its back and its head harness is tied to a hook in the ceiling. Thus it is unable to move off the stool.

Objects placed on the top of the stool include:

• Triangular wooden block with a narrow flat edge at the top

• Cylinder about 10 to 15 cm in diameter

• Oversized butt plug

With the triangle in place different items can be placed on the top edge. Master’s favourites are;

• Double strip of carpet gripper, side by side

• Stinging nettles

• Soft cushioned pad impregnated with itching powder

The top edge of the triangular block is just a little too high so that having both feet flat on the floor is just too painful. In this position its perineum cock and balls are exposed to whatever rests on the top of the block.  So to ease the discomfort the slave has to raise itself up on its toes.

Time is the big enemy, since eventually its muscles tire and it must adjust its position to relieve the stress. But that causes new stresses and pressures so there needs to be another shift and so on. It creates a downward spiral where shifting position becomes more and frequent whilst its crotch is being assaulted by top of the block. When it gets to the point where it is shifting continuously it is properly ‘riding the block’. It usually requires about 30 minutes torment to reach that point and during the build up time it is possible to have some very productive discussion with the slave regarding unsatisfactory elements of his servitude.

Once it is fully riding it is virtually impossible to have a coherent conversation since the slave’s mind is pretty much occupied in easing its distress. The time master make it ride depends on the infraction being corrected but it is never less than one hour. The use of carpet gripper, nettles, or itching powder is painful torture indeed. But it is very satisfying watching it struggle, legs spread wide, up on its toes.

Sooner or later its feet tire and it drops only to find increased torture of the sensitive flesh between its legs. An hour like this is really severe punishment and is reserved for the most serious infractions of the rules or when master is feeling particularly sadistic. But it does no permanent harm and a session makes the slave very penitent.

The punishment is made even more severe for the slave if the CBs are removed as there is then no protection for its balls and cock. The great thing about these punishments is that they require very little effort from the master. In fact the only effort it requires from the master is to make it stop. Master  can read a book, watch TV, and if the slave is gagged master does not even need to listen to its please for mercy.

Another passive torture master ca, set it up with the slave seated on the stool. its bound arms are chained to the ceiling hook and its scrotum to a heavy weight just resting on the floor. If no weight is available then a leg spreader with a chain from its balls to a central attachment point can be used to prevent him from rising. After about 15 minutes master take the stool away. The anguish in slave face is clear to see so master replace it five minutes later but with a couple of nettle leaves, itching powder or the drawing pins resting on the top.

MasterI then lies back on his bed to ‘watch the show’. The slave is faced with two choices:

• Raise itself up from the stool to ease the pain in his buttocks and put strain on its thighs and scrotum

• Lower itself to the stool, and let the nettles etc. torture its buttocks

Master first set this up as a punishment because he was dissatisfied with the effort the slave was making when pleasuring him.

BBC rules

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A Masterpiece

[submissivefeminist]

A major part of many kinky dynamics is a focus on discipline. While “discipline” can be a fun part of your everyday activities, it can also mean something more specific in terms of punishment. “Punishment” differs from the general sense of discipline in that it has a specific goal to focus on that changes a submissive’s behaviour.

Many people engage in what can be called “funishment,”—punishment-type activities, like regular spankings or other forms of play, that are not meant to alter the behaviour of the submissive but rather to provide enjoyment to either/both/all parties. However, it is important to distinguish the difference between playful discipline and serious punishments. Punishments are consequences of negative actions, whether this is based on officially-written regulations or unspoken general behaviours like brattiness, defiance, or dangerous behaviours.

The idea of punishment is based largely on psychological research in the area of behaviourism. It consists of techniques that are supported by science to effectively alter the behaviour of an individual. (If you want to learn more about the research behind punishments, look up B. F. Skinner’s work in this area.)

Two types of punishments exist: positive punishments, which add undesired consequences to the behaviour, and negative punishments, which take away desired privileges.

Now, before I get into some specific ideas for punishments, there are some important key points I’d like to make. Please be sure to read all of these before deciding on a specific punishment.

Punishments do NOT negate the right to a safeword. Some people are mislead into dangerous situations by being told they cannot safeword during a punishment. This is completely untrue. All parties have a right to safeword at any time during any kind of play or punishment. Taking away the right to safeword equates to abuse, plain and simple. Don’t ever tell your partner they cannot safeword or ignore their safeword for the sake of punishment. This is not effective and is extremely harmful to your partner’s mental and/or physical well-being. 

NEVER punish out of anger. Anger is never a healthy motivation for punishment. Punishments are meant for the submissive’s benefit, at the core. If the submissive’s behaviour has made the Dominant angry, they should have a cooling-off period where they can calm down, think about an appropriate punishment, and resolve the matter at a later time, after healthy discussion about what happened.

Limits are NOT to be used as punishments. Many people have activities they don’t particularly enjoy that aren’t on their limits list. Some people have specific ideas for punishments that suit them best. However, regardless of you or your partner’s experience with punishments, it needs to be understood that hard limits are not punishments. Hard limits are never to be used for punishment’s sake because “hard limit” means “I do not want to do this under any circumstance.” Using a hard limit as a punishment would be an abusive act, as hard limits come with an automatic safeword attached, since they are specificly stated as things the person does not feel comfortable with. Never, ever, threaten or use hard limits to punish a submissive. 

Use healthy discretion. This one should seem obvious, but don’t follow through with punishments if rule-breaking was out of the submissive’s control. Say the submissive has a 11PM bedtime, but they recently suffered a trauma or loss and can’t sleep. Let them engage in healthy coping skills instead of punishing them for something they aren’t doing on purpose. Above all else, make safety and well-being a priority.

Make the punishment fit the crime. Punishments that are relative to the defiance are much more effective at changing the behaviour than random punishments. For example, if the submissive cums without permission, try a punishment from the “orgasm control” section. This will better reinforce the reasoning in the submissive and more effectively guide them to make better choices in the future. There are also punishments that work best for specific dynamics like for littles or pets, so be sure to read into those, below.

Aftercare is absolutely required. Like any kind of play, aftercare is required at the end of the scene. This is especially important during punishments because often times, the submissive is consumed with feelings of guilt and disappointment. After a punishment, Dominants need to give their submissives aftercare that includes a conversation about why they were punished, how proud the Dominant is for them taking the punishment so well, and that there are no negative feelings between them. The submissive should leave the punishment scene feeling forgiven for their mistakes and proud of themselves for making things right with their Dominant. Do not leave your submissive alone after a punishment without aftercare, ever! This is highly abusive and can seriously harm your partner.

Humiliation

A great way to get a submissive to stay in line is to humiliate them when they’ve done something wrong. There are several ways to go about this, depending on your dynamic and kinks, but it’s an effective and amusing way to get the message across. 

Clothing Restriction

Clothing restriction can be done both domestically and in public. Restriction can be as much as not allowing any clothing (in legal or private settings), ordering a certain amount of skin be showing, or choosing a specific outfit or collar for the submissive. For shy submissives, clothing restriction can be intense. This is an especially good punishment for submissives who have said negative comments about their bodies.

Diapering

For ABDL or little submissives, this can either be a reward or a punishment. Depending on the comfort level with diapers, they can be used as a punishment that ties into humiliation. Making them relieve themselves in only the diaper for a set amount of time or wearing it around the house as their only clothing can be very humiliating for some people.

Sissification

Sissification is a kink that is most common in submissive men. It’s the act of dolling a man up like a girl and humiliating him based on his presentation as such. This can be very effective for some people but can be very problematic to others. Be careful not to use this kink as punishment with trans or gender non-conforming subs without their explicit consent, as it can very easily trigger dysphoria and cause severe emotional problems. 

Public Humiliation

Public humiliation can be done in any subtle way that embarrasses a submissive without breaking any obvious laws. Some examples include making them wear an anal plug or remote-controlled vibrator to dinner, public leashing, or making them kneel at social gatherings. Work this idea into the submissive’s specific kinks and limits to be sure it’s just enough to embarrass them, without making them unbearably uncomfortable.

Orgasm Control

Orgasm control is simply that—controlling the submissive’s orgasms. Most of these types of punishments are used for submissives who break rules about orgasms, be it without permission or when they were told not to touch themselves. Controlling orgasms is an amusing way to teach the submissive who their orgasms belong to.

Edging

Edging is the act of getting your partner right to the edge of orgasm, then denying them release. This can be done multiple times, even in short amounts of time. It’s a little psychological torture, best for those who cum without permission.

Toy Restriction

For a submissive, like myself, who is accustomed to using toys during masturbation or play, toy restriction is a very effective punishment. This is especially good for submissives who have a difficult time reaching orgasm without toys, as it makes things very frustrating very quickly. An evil punishment may even combine toy restrictions with a quota of orgasms for the day that they must reach in order to get off restriction. Desperation will sink in very quickly and this lesson will be easily learned.

Forced Orgasms

Forced orgasm is another great punishment for submissives who cum without permission. It turns a great sensation into a torturous experience very quickly. This is especially great with toys like the Hitachi or a Sybian. Focus on a goal—either for number of orgasms, or a specific amount of time. An hour spent riding a Hitachi can really be the most agonizing thing for some people due to heightened sensitivity after each orgasm. 

Denial

Denial is the complete opposite of forced orgasms. It’s like edging, but there is no orgasm at the end of the scene. This can be doing while using toys and not allowing the person to orgasm or it can be done by restriction orgasms or even touching oneself for a longer period of time.

Chastity

Chastity, much like denial, is the refusal of orgasms. However, with chastity, the submissive is completely unable to touch themselves, even if they wanted to. Devices for people with penises and vaginas are available to purchase online to assure your submissive is following orders properly.

Domestic Discipline

Domestic discipline includes things that can be done within the home. Some of these include behaviour modifications or restrictions. While some of these can be done outside the home, these are good examples of things for couples who live together can do for punishments.

Chores

Chores not only benefit the entire household, but they can also be an effective punishment for unruly subs. Added chores can be especially fun if you make her clean the bathroom with a toothbrush or make him do dishes with nipple clamps on. Combine with other punishments for your amusement!

Furniture Restriction

Especially fun for people into pet-play, furniture restriction involves limiting where the submissive can sit or lie down. Require that they sit on the ground instead of the couches or sleep on the floor next to the bed if they’ve been defiant.

Caging

Another good one for pets, especially. Caging can be used to make the submissive reflect on their reasons for being punished. Be sure to use a cage small enough to confine them, but still large enough so they aren’t going to hurt themselves by spending too much time in the cage.

Bedtime

A great one for littles! Bedtimes are good for college students who don’t do their homework, or easily distracted adults with work to do. Set up rules that require all obligations get done and enforce an early bedtime to be sure they are well-rested (and easily frustrated) when they don’t follow these rules.

Time-Out

Another punishment for reflection. Time-outs are good for brats and littles because it makes them analyze what they did wrong. Put them in a corner or a special “time-out chair” so they know they are being punished. Increase the time or add in other punishments if they break rules more than once.

Sensory Deprivation

Sensory deprivation is a lot like time-out, but can be used for added psychological torment. Plug the submissive’s ears or use headphones, blindfold them, bind them to a bed or chair, and completely ignore them for a set about of time. This desensitizes them and not only makes them reflect on their reasons for punishment, but makes it very uncomfortable, assuring they won’t want to end up in isolation again.

Objectification

Objectification is fun for Dominants who like their submissives in service to them during punishment. Make them kneel and become your footstool or coffee table while you watch TV or catch up on work. This is even better when you make them do it completely naked and/or in front of guests.

Dietary Restriction

If a submissive has done something against the rules, you can make them follow a strict diet. This is especially useful for those using behaviour modification to lose or gain weight. However, be careful to ensure the submissive is still getting enough nutrition. For littles, see how much they want to be a brat after you take away their dessert privilege. For pets, try making them eat out of a bowl on the floor for each meal.

Speech Restriction

For disrespectful submissives, punish them by taking away their right to a personal pronoun, making them refer to themselves as “this girl,” “Your slut,” “Master’s puppy boy,” or anything else you want to use. You can also make it a rule that they must refer to you by your Dominant title at all times, even in public. Having to remember their restrictions on speech will keep them thinking about their punishment all day.

Corporal Punishment

Corporal punishment is enforcement by physical contact. These types of punishments involve pain, which is a tricky subject for punishing. Typically, pain punishments don’t work as well to change behaviour, especially if the submissive is also a masochist. Be sure to carefully choose what kind of pain if you’re going with one of these methods.

Impact

If your submissive likes thuddy pain, use stingy pain. If they like stingy pain, use thuddy. Push their limits carefully, but make it clear this is a punishment and not for fun. Have them apologize as you strike them. Tell them why they are being punished and make it clear that they are to be good and learn from their mistakes. 

Rice Kneeling

Kneeling on uncooked rice is an age-old technique that leaves painful marks. Be careful with time, as this can scar if done for long periods of time or used constantly. Be present during this to be sure the submissive can take it and listen carefully for safewords. Use this as a time out or have them recite an apology to you as you do this.

Figging

Figging is done by carving a plug out of ginger and inserting into the anus. This causes a stinging pain that ranges in intensity depending on the person. Frozen ginger is a milder form of this punishment.

Writing Assignments

Writing assignments are usually meant to bore a submissive into obedience. Whether it’s writing lines or a random homework assignment, the punishment focuses on making it undesirable for the submissive to misbehave.

Lines

Writing lines is effective if you use it reflectively. For example, for a submissive who is disrespectful, you can have him write, “I will always be polite around my Sir,” a hundred times. For a submissive who cums without permission, you can order, “I will ask permission from Mistress before I cum,” until they fill up five pages. What’s even more fun is making them be stuffed with a toy or on their knees with nipple clamps on while they write.

Apology Letter

An apology letter is a simple task meant to make the submissive think about what they have done, analyze why it was wrong, and have them apologize formally by writing it down. Have them read their letter to you our loud or crumple it up and put in their their underwear for that added perk of remembering all day that they were punished.

Essay

An essay is a good assignment for submissives who don’t seem to understand their rules. Make them come up with reasons as to why these rules are in place and write a formal essay about the reasoning and purpose of these rules. Making them analyze the fact that this is for their benefit will remind them that rules are not just there to be mean, but to guide them to healthier behaviour.

Homework

Especially fun for people with school girl or teacher fantasies, assign a random homework assignment. Ever wonder about a certain subject but never have time to actually research it? Assign a paper to your submissive about a subject of your choosing and have them report back to you—because knowledge is power! Grade their paper and reward/punish again as necessary for the quality of their work.

It’s important to remember that reinforcements are also important in addition to punishments. When your submissive follows directions, reward them. Give them a treat or praise them and thank them for being so good. If you mix positive reinforcement with punishments when necessary, they’re sure to be trained in no time!

xx SF

[ssurgul]

Haven’t read it all yet, but what I’ve read so far is quite good.

[bdaslavepig-deactivated20170516]

Really like some of these ideas

[chastitypupboy]

Love this!!!

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How To Control a Sub

[grover3]

. yournewkeyholder

How To Control a Sub

The following is a list of things that you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things not on the list that work for you.

1. You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!

You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.

You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.

Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.

2. Control your own feelings of guilt.

He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.

If you feel he deserves an orgasm… Ruin it!

Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.

Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

3. You must get into his head!

Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.

Tease him with your words whenever possible.

Find out what humiliates him.

Use his humiliation whenever possible.

4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.

Talk sexy to him.

Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.

Fondle him, or let him fondle you.

Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

Make him give you orgasms frequently.

5. Make him do something humiliating.

Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.

Make him be naked when you are not.

Make him masturbate for you.

Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited.

6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.

Don’t let him get away with anything!

Spank, paddle, or whip him.

Humiliate him in some way.

Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.

Make him do anything he hates.

7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.

Fondle him through his pants in public (or in private).

Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.

Make him shop for lingerie with you.

These tips are for Men who really want to control a sub and get off on it.  The important thing to remember is that there are a LOT of subs who crave this level of control, humiliation and punishment.  Many will not admit it but respond well to this type of treatment.  Men should not be afraid to exercise as much control over their subs as their time and energy allow.  Make no mistake it takes effort,   You have to want control.  The rewards are enormous.

[macgayboy]

faggot Skype games

it was asked:

Can you send me a list of “games” a fag can play with its alpha to entertain him while using skype? I was instructed to find some ideas but can’t locate any online. You seem creative. Thanks. it replied

fellow fag,

Below are 5 games an Alpha could play with a faggot over skype

Game 1: faggot bobbing

Need: large salad bowl or mixing bowl or washing up bowl, pack of coloured boiled sweets, a blindfold a tray or plastic mat and a small bowl

Prep: Collect 2 litres of your piss in an old soda bottle, and/or have a full bladder

Place the large bowl on the tray or mat on the floor with the small bowl next to it Fill the large bowl with piss from the bottle and/or your bladder Unwrap and tip the boiled sweets (at least 5 sweets of each colour red, orange, yelloe and green) into the bowl Kneel in front of the bowl, make sure you and the bowl are visible on the Skype camera Put on the blindfold

The aim of the game is for your Alpha to get all the sweets of one colour out of the bowl using your mouth as the only tool.   Assume red is the chosen colour you bob for a sweet and show it to the Alpha.  If it is the right colour you can drop in in the little bowl.  if it is the wrong colour the sweet goes back into the big bowl.  The game continues until all the red sweets are collected

There are lots of variations possible, collecting more colours, adding punishments for wrong colours presented, having you in nipple clamps during the game.  Master can extend the game by lying about you getting the right colour.   Another alternative is to have 4 bowls, one for each colour, and remove the blindfold and time you to get all the sweets out of the piss and into the right bowl then have you beat the time. The sweets can be changed for almost anything that floats or sinks.

Game 2: hot and cold faggot

Need: ice, candles, matches, Deep Heat/Bengay/Tiger Balm, bath of cold water

Prep: None

This is a variation of the searching game - warmer/colder.

Show your Alpha a view of the room you are in so He can select an object.  Now stand in the middle of the room. In this game you take one step at a time.  if you get closer to the object you are warmer, if further away colder.

After each step the Alpha does not say warmer or colder but if warmer says candle and a body part (nipples, chest, thighs, cock, balls etc) and a time 30 seconds, 1 minute, 2 minutes etc and you drip wax on that body part for that time.  For colder you do similar but with ice cubes. When you get to within reaching distance of the object the game changes to you selecting the riht object.  Get it right and the game it over.  Get it wrong and you either go into the cold bath for 5, 10 or 15 minutes or get Deep Heat/Bengay on your balls and this continues until you get the right item

If there are not many objects in the room you can change this to thinking of a number and guessing numbers getting warmer or colder if you get closer or further away

Game 3: Do faggots play dice?

Need: Alpha needs a pair of dice, you need a music track to play with lots of actions (YMCA, Macarena, Time Warp etc) and 6 outfits to wear

Outfit 1: Speedo swiming trunks, sunglasses, flip-flops (beach wear) Outfit 2: Jeans, T-Shirt, Socks, Underwear, shoes (informal wear) Outfit 3: Shirt, Tie, Formal trousers, Suit jacker, socks, underwear (working in an office) Outfit 4: Shorts (no underwear), rugby top, socks, trainers (sports) Outfit 5: Chinos, underwear, thick socks, boots, thermal shirt, jumper, jacker, scarf, gloves (winter wear) Outfit 6: Bondage hood, collar, wrist and ankle cuffs, nipple clamps, cock ring/parachute

Prep: Agree 6 tasks such as:

Task 1: 50 press-ups Task 2: Kneel in display position for 5 minutes Task 3: Duck walk around the room 3 times Task 4: Jog on the spot for 5 minutes Task 5: 10 forward rolls Task 6: Put on the music track and dance energetically doing all the actions

The game is very simple.  you are naked waiting for Alpha.  He rolls the dice and the first dice selects the outfit and the second the action.  you have 60 seconds to get into the outfit then must do the task After the task you strip, fold the clothes and return to kneel naked.  if Alpha is satified you did had the outfit right and did the task correcty and with enthusiasm the game continues and you roll again.  If He is not happy an punishment is applied (nipple clamps, Deep Heat to balls, self paddling or maybe 50 press-ups etc) and then you have to repeat the task before the game continues.

The game continues until Alpha rolls a double (or a double six) or until He has had enough

Game 4: faggot said what

Need: Paddle (or hair brush) Prep: None

Alpha instructs His faggot to talk to Him for at least 3 minutes on a subject of His choice without stopping, repeating itself or boring Him and it must make sense.  The bit that makes it interesting is it also may not say certain words.  For every mistake it earns a punishment of paddle on ass, chest or thighs.  The first mistake is 10 strokes, second 20 and so on up to a max of 100.  The game stops while the punishment is adminstered then restarts until 3 minutes have elapsed.  Punishments reset at the end of each round

East rounds:  Talk about a place without mentioning colours.  Talk about work without mentioning people’s names.  Talk about your day without mentioning numbers Medium rounds: Talk about fantasy BDSM session without mentioning BDSM objects.  Talk about a subject without saying who, what, when, where or why Hard rounds:  Talk about a subject without using any words starting with A (can go through the whole alphabet), or ban words starting with vowels etc

Game 5: Horny faggot on edge

Need: Nothing (could have a chastity cafe) Prep: None

faggot kneels naked in display position during conversation with Alpha.  Alpha talks to faggot about anything and periodically has it stroke itself to keep hard for 1, 2, 3 or 5 minute periods.  it must not cum.  At end of stroking hands return behind head and conversation continues As a variation Alpha and faggot can talk and periodically Alpha shouts out a number or a maths equation e.g. 7 x 12 etc and faggot must stroke itself that many times without cumming (if it gets the maths wrong it must do it again)

At the end of the conversation Alpha can have the faggot lock itself in chastity and post the key to Him.

Another variation is Alpha tells the faggot to stroke itself until it is less than 30 seconds from cumming then stop.  The Alpha lets this go on as long as He wants (maybe over several calls) but eventually Him says cum.  If is does not cum within 30 seconds it must stop and be punished and locked in chastity for a month

Thank you fellow fag

faggot slave matt

[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

[pleasedaddyyesdaddy-deactivated]

Reposting the library for kinksters. This is a great resource! Even if you think you know everything about dd/lg I guarantee you that you don’t and that you should read this entire list and continue to learn more and more.

[pleasedaddyyesdaddy-deactivated]

Reposting for some people. This is a great resource!

[intoitmaster]

excellent

[bdsmafterthoughts-deactivated20]

This seems to be an extremely useful set of links.

[pdxairpup]

Bookmarked for later! =3 #epic

[dirtydaddythings]

This is a MASSIVE library, covering a number of fetish groups but also has a lot of research covered for you in areas everyone needs to know.

[chastityadvice-deactivated20171]

Chastity Advice February 2016 Update

In case you missed the other posts my partner and keyholder are no longer together which has made it difficult to stay motivated in posting updates. Though I have begun the process of restructuring and editing. Currently self keyholding I decided to reset my chaste period which was 4.5 months on February 8th with one ruined orgasm. The next 12 months will be spent in chastity with zero full or ruined orgasms to challenge myself. 

Choosing The Right Material

Choosing A Design

Getting The Right Fit

Comfortable Adjustments

Pains And Sores

Going To The Bathroom

Hygiene

Sleeping In Chastity

Health Concerns

Choosing A Lock

Security and Preventing Escape

Supervision and Detecting Orgasms

Bringing Up Chastity

Sex In Chastity

Anal Stimulation

I’ve noticed a lot of you are reblogging a much older update which does not include many of my new writings. Like and Reblog this post so that others may get more information about male chastity. Suggestions for topics to write about are always welcome. Keep those questions coming! 

[limitlesspig]

Your post on October 6th on being a 24/7 slave is awesome. Could you tell us more on your daily life? How is it? Are you really a slave to your owner 24 h a day? How much is sex? When sex is over, are you still a slave? I am curious of the limitations of real life.

Yes, I am fully, totally, completely owned, 24/7/365. That doesn’t mean I’m locked in a cage when I’m not directly serving my Owner, although we do live together. It just means He has complete control, all day, every day, from big things to little things.

For example:

I’m always locked in one of the chastity devices. (We rotate through them every weekend when He takes one off so I can clean and shave around it under supervision.) I am not allowed to ejaculate, although I do sometimes ooze actual cum instead of just precum, and sometimes I have something like an orgasm when He fucks me that I can only describe by saying it feels good and is kind of like a shudder deep in my ass and groin but isn't the ball-clenching, cock-throbbing convulsion of the kind men call an orgasm.

The general rule is I don’t wear clothes when He is home and only underwear when He isn’t. (I do get an apron in the kitchen to avoid splatters.) And, no, He doesn’t keep the thermostat very high. 

Every time He has to piss when He’s home, I drink it, sometimes from His cock, sometimes from a glass. (Glasses are mostly from when I’ve disappointed Him somehow and He doesn’t want me near His cock. I usually get it cold then, too.)

He hasn’t said my real name since the day He claimed me. (There’s no set replacement. If He has a favorite or a default, it’s “fuckpuppet.“ He mostly calls me whatever He feels like at the moment, or whatever suits what’s going on. It’s usually something like "bitch,” “cunt,” “pig,” or “cumdump” during sex. When He’s feeling proud or pleased or particularly affectionate, He calls me “boy,” and I when I hear that I know I’ve done a good job. I hear it a lot, but not as much as “fuckpuppet.” If He’s talking about me to someone else, I’m “the boy” or “my boy” if they’re not really in the BDSM lifestyle; if they’re in the lifestyle and I’ve been less than satisfactory, it’s usually “my pig” or “my bitch” or “my slave.”)

I call Him "Sir” without exception (He hates “Master” and think it sounds too much like Darth Vader talking to the Emperor) and I refer to Him as “my Owner" to everyone except our families and at work. (Yes, it is very embarrassing at times, but it would be a lot worse if He didn’t allow those exceptions. To be clear, I am not ashamed: He is awesome and I love Him and I am proud He considers me worthy of Him and I can usually say it the first time without turning red, but 90% of the time the person I’m talking to doesn’t understand or doesn’t believe what they heard if they’ve never heard it before, so they say, “What did you say?” and I have to repeat it.) Although, to be honest, I only have to say “He” or “Him” to the regular people in our lives and they know exactly Who I’m talking about, especially since most sentences go something like, “Sorry, He doesn’t want…” or “He said I could….”

He handles all the finances. He has a power of attorney. I signed my car title and gave it to Him. My paychecks are deposited into His accounts. If I want to buy something that He hasn’t specifically told me to buy, I ask Him first. I carry $20 cash for unexpected contingencies and a debit card, and I don’t know how much is in the account it goes to. I haven’t seen a bank statement, logged into an online account, written a check, or paid a bill since He claimed me. If something were to happen to Him, there’s an encrypted flash drive with information on it and one of our friends has the password. (I don’t recommend this for everyone. I knew Him for months before He claimed me. I know His job and His qualifications. We each lived comfortably on our own before He claimed me and I know He doesn’t need to take advantage of me. Most importantly, I trust him. But this arrangement does give Him control.)

Daily life varies, especially because my Owner travels a lot for work. Most often, it’s a few days each week, but sometimes it’s a stretch of a week or more at a time. Usually, I’m actually busier when He is gone because He leaves a long list of chores for me to do, but that is when I usually get a few minutes here and there to do things like come check Tumblr for messages–and when I do, I check a few pages of dashboard and save some posts to come back to later to tag, caption, and queue when I have a large block of time like this morning.

On a typical workday when He is home, I get up at 4:30 to go to the gym. (Tip for subs: I’m lucky because my Owner lets me sleep with Him in bed, especially since He sleeps a lot later. This became possible thanks to finding a vibrating alarm clock I can wear on my wrist like a watch at night.) When I get back home, I clean up, then make and pack our lunches. I wake Him at 6:45. (Sorry, porn fans, I don’t crawl under the covers and blow Him. I just kneel by the bed and nudge Him gently.) If I’m lucky, He uses me. Some days He does, some days He doesn’t. If He does, some days it’s oral, some days it’s anal. If He fucks me, I’ll wear a butt plug to help hold His cum in for the rest of the day. Then while He cleans up, I make the bed, get dressed (I wear pretty much the same thing every day at work), and make breakfast. Now that the mornings have started to be cold, I throw a towel in the dryer for a few minutes when He’s in the shower before I fold it and put it on the sink so it’s warm for Him when He gets out.

It’s pretty much routine, domestic life from when He starts getting ready for work, although sometimes He spanks or paddles my ass right before I leave for work. This isn’t for punishment; some days He just likes sending me off that way so I’ll have a reminder of Him every time I sit down. We eat breakfast and He tells me anything special I should do that evening, like if there’s anything I should buy at the grocery store or anything He wants for dinner, picking up dry cleaning, that kind of thing. I go to work first; He leaves about an hour later.

Work is just work. If people from the office want to go out to lunch or I need to work late, I text Him. Sometimes He lets me, sometimes He doesn’t. If what He wants and what work wants conflict, He wins. (I’ve looked for years for the perfect Owner: He is irreplaceable; my job is not, even in this market.)

I do any errands that need to be done on the way home. When I get there, I cook dinner, trying to time it to be ready about an hour after He usually gets home. Until He does, I do more routine, domestic stuff: take out trash, do laundry, put away groceries or dry cleaning, whatever needs to be done.

When He comes home, He’s usually tired and stressed. He reads or watches tv or plays PS3 to unwind while I serve Him. This always involves massaging and licking His feet; sometimes I massage the rest, too, especially His scalp, neck, shoulders, and back. If I’m lucky, I’ll get to spend quality time with my face in His crotch, too, especially if He lets me worship His cock and balls. It isn’t rushed or overtly sexual, though; it’s just time to help Him relax, but sometimes I do get to make Him cum.

This pretty much lasts until the buzzer goes off that dinner is ready. We eat and He goes back to the living room while I clean the kitchen and dining room. I go back to Him when I’m done and do whatever He tells me. Sometimes it’s sex, sometimes it’s chores, sometimes it’s just being quiet somewhere and leaving Him alone. If I’ve fucked something up that day, He punishes me. (He never punishes me right when He comes home from work.) If I’m really lucky, and I’m so caught up He can’t think of any chores that need to be done, and I really did a good job helping Him relax, and dinner was really well executed, and I’ve gotten Him off so He’s satisfied, He lets me sit on the sofa with Him for a while, either leaning up against Him while He watches tv or lying with my head in His lap while He reads. Sometimes He gets hardcore after dinner, but it’s rare on a work night.

He sends me to bed around 10. He comes up later. Sometimes He wakes me to fuck me or get sucked, sometimes He doesn’t.

That’s a typical weekday when He’s home. It probably sounds pretty boring to people who think the BDSM lifestyle is all fucking and sucking, whips and chains, cum and tears. But my Owner usually only gets hardcore on weekends, when He’s home. But there is no typically weekend; they are all quite different, depending on His moods. Of course, there are variations on weeknights, too, if we go out, or if someone comes over, but that’s the typical day.

So how is my life? It is awesome and I have never been happier or more fulfilled. Thanks for asking!

[slytherpuffdoctor-deactivated20]

[topguydave]

You should find time every day to work out to make yourself more useful to your Man. Lack of equipment is not an excuse.