I don't need to fade in anymore

| Ember | 20s | they/she, queer | a minnesotan gal | endless reblogs with the occasional original content; lots of talking in the tags | if you're from the midwest I am kissing you on the lips. everyone else try harder |

[a-dozen-moderate-fragments]

hi! this is my reblog dump

Ember she/they 20s

i follow/like from @billion-little-pieces and post tits on @eh-spicy

world's laziest pinned post? perchance

[whisper-and-tangle]

my awsum new idea for another shadow the hedgehog game

[sexycornenthusiast]

watching someone start reblogging transmisandry bullshit is like seeing them get hacked by a scambot. will you stop.. for me

[sexycornenthusiast]

when people say misandry or androphobia or whatever aren't real they aren't being pedantic about your language. believing misandry is real is ideological poison. the second you attribute the real oppression you face to some "anti-male prejudice" you have given up your ability to understand and fight the actual power structures causing it. any bit of time and energy you spend arguing that women don't have it as bad as they say they do is time and energy you aren't spending on anything actually productive. wake up

[pissvortex]

Donald Trump has now resorted to using Deltarune music for instagram propaganda

[afloweroutofstone]

For how obsessed fascists are with aesthetics, how are their aesthetics so consistently cringe?

[dogpuppy]

[spiteyote-resurrected]

a chaser asked me to spit preworkout in his mouth, Disolved 6mg of Estradiol into it first like a spiked drink, welcome to womanhood asshole

[spiteyote-resurrected]

I'm cracking eggs with the precision of a benihana chef. flipped a disaffected young man into a raging bitch for the greater good of humanity, this shit aint nothing to me man

[infertilityidol]

the desire to be a hot alt girl is so fundamentally human I'm surprised there isn't at least one epic poem about it

[dsv686]

Replace "trans" with any other adjective and so much of terf and transphobic and transandrophobia arguments just immediately collapse

Trans women aren't women? Tall women aren't women? Short women aren't women? Pretty women aren't women? Ugly women aren't women

Straight trans men are lesbians? Straight strong men are lesbians? Straight weak men are lesbians? Straight cis men are lesbians?

Trans women are predators? Polite women are predators?

Women are men? Men are women?

It's just ridiculous that this one little adjective suddenly makes 1000 previously obviously false statements now true because. Idk gender essentialism or some shit. Because penis is evil and vagina is sacred - oh but only if they once belonged to a baby. If that vagina was never a child's vagina then it's somehow even more evil than a penis.

[pleasemayiiplease]

[transfemmbeatrice]

[tiktoks-for-dead-pope]

[holyfunnyhistoryherring]

Transcript: Yesterday my cousin said that my rooster wasn't a real rooster. He said he's a Walmart rooster. *chicken noises* Does this not look like a real rooster to you? *chicken makes a sound again* Sure, he's small, but he has feelings.

[faeblesmith]

important context this person looks and sounds like they’re gonna cry

[lastoneout]

Also important to note that the rooster appears to be roughly the size of a large pigeon.

[lastoneout]

The pigeon people have informed me he is the size of a normal pigeon, or perhaps even a small pigeon. Fucking rip.

[godspeedyoublackemperor]

childaborting hips

[sunfortune]

crying

[ardentguilt]

Uh....australian here. We don’t talk like that. At all. This shits closer to how white South Africans talk lmao

[kodzukens-thighz-deactivated202]

Uh...white south African here. Neither do we lol

[german-milfs]

uh... white person here. i jack off to goombas from the super mario bros games

[bunnydracula]

[willgrahamscock]

[hanniballecterscock]

things are getting… spicy in the spice section

[willgrahamscock]

[luminarycamille]

Visibility isn’t even something exclusive to trans women, trans men get the most visibility when it comes to disability.

[recoveredcombatsister]

yk i think the fundamental problem is that transmascs dont believe that they belong to a different demographic than us transfems. i think its that they still believe in a Trans Community of one demographic - the Trans Demographic, with one unified Trans Experience, rather than that of women and men who share a marginalization

this shows up when transfems make posts for and about other transfems, and invariably transmascs will come along to try and make it about them as well. they dont see it as a womens post, they see it as a Trans post that hasnt mentioned transmascs yet

this also shows up in discussions of transmisogyny. transfems discuss the intersectional bigotry we face and transmascs will get defensive that the conversation centres us and not the Trans Demographic as a whole. this is where "transandrophobia" theory comes in, from transmascs misconstruing transmisogyny as just "transphobia for girls" and insisting there must be a transphobia for boys in return, and to deny "transandrophobia" legitimacy is to deny that transmascs face any transphobia. its morphed into its own transmisogynist violence at this point but its inception was very clearly fueled by the transmasc insecurity over there not being one Trans Experience. transmascs think there has to be a blue version, because they dont conceive of transfems belonging to a different demographic than them

i think no small part of this is that transmasculine transition doesnt force them to reckon with transmisogyny the same way transfeminine transition does. of course, it would be wrong to claim no transfem falls victim to this, but far more transfems do have that reckoning because we are forcibly subjected to transmisogyny. and because transmascs flatten the demographic to just Trans, they believe themselves to have a postion of authority to speak on trans issues without ever being forced to interrogate their inherent transmisogynist biases from living in a transmisogynist society and understand the misogyny within the demographic, and any pushback against them is pushback against the Trans Demographic as a whole

my problem with all of this is that nobody who needs to hear it is going to listen to me, because ultimately were dealing with men, moreover: marginalized men, and men prefer to revel in their power to speak over women and take up space and assume they know best rather than listen to the women in their "community" when we tell them theyre wrong. after all, what reason do transmascs have to think otherwise? i mean, were all faggots in the eyes of the state, right?

[recoveredcombatsister]

yk i think the fundamental problem is that transmascs dont believe that they belong to a different demographic than us transfems. i think its that they still believe in a Trans Community of one demographic - the Trans Demographic, with one unified Trans Experience, rather than that of women and men who share a marginalization

this shows up when transfems make posts for and about other transfems, and invariably transmascs will come along to try and make it about them as well. they dont see it as a womens post, they see it as a Trans post that hasnt mentioned transmascs yet

this also shows up in discussions of transmisogyny. transfems discuss the intersectional bigotry we face and transmascs will get defensive that the conversation centres us and not the Trans Demographic as a whole. this is where "transandrophobia" theory comes in, from transmascs misconstruing transmisogyny as just "transphobia for girls" and insisting there must be a transphobia for boys in return, and to deny "transandrophobia" legitimacy is to deny that transmascs face any transphobia. its morphed into its own transmisogynist violence at this point but its inception was very clearly fueled by the transmasc insecurity over there not being one Trans Experience. transmascs think there has to be a blue version, because they dont conceive of transfems belonging to a different demographic than them

i think no small part of this is that transmasculine transition doesnt force them to reckon with transmisogyny the same way transfeminine transition does. of course, it would be wrong to claim no transfem falls victim to this, but far more transfems do have that reckoning because we are forcibly subjected to transmisogyny. and because transmascs flatten the demographic to just Trans, they believe themselves to have a postion of authority to speak on trans issues without ever being forced to interrogate their inherent transmisogynist biases from living in a transmisogynist society and understand the misogyny within the demographic, and any pushback against them is pushback against the Trans Demographic as a whole

my problem with all of this is that nobody who needs to hear it is going to listen to me, because ultimately were dealing with men, moreover: marginalized men, and men prefer to revel in their power to speak over women and take up space and assume they know best rather than listen to the women in their "community" when we tell them theyre wrong. after all, what reason do transmascs have to think otherwise? i mean, were all faggots in the eyes of the state, right?