Too much expectations may kill their skills
They are dieing inside, No one knows..A fully dedicated blog to those who explore thieir expectation to their kids. Am not saying or declaring them wrong . But in most of the cases kids got confused about their hobby and parents expectations.
Every parents like to give everything to their children similarly,Every child also want to fulfill every expectation of their parents just to make them proud and to see them smiling.But parents are much matured enough than children,they should think that realizing expectation to their child is actually emotional torcher.
Children only for their happiness sacrifices their hobbies , not all but mostly do so.And not suggesting to any parents that âdo this or do that â
Every parents have their own methodology of parenting their child .YES, sometimes realizing expectation makes child to feel responsibilities, its good thing.
Realizing them again and again keeps them on right track of life .But their is also chances to get mentally disturbed  because  of lot of  expectation .I still remember one of my friend in 10+2 got admitted in kanpur best mental hospital ,Who is responsible??
hah..10+2 boards exams is not a big deal .two thing will happen either you will get good marks or you may get bad marks.But why people thinks that this is major part of life.Want to say one  thing - Every one will become successful but only the tiny difference is -Some of us become earlier and some later .
let me explain his situation,
he was very good student awesome mind,quite good in every field .As the board come closer he started feeling scared and simultaneously parents starts realizing their expectation .He became more nervous .Instead of studying , he only used to think what if i failed , Here negative thoughts takes birth .
A simple topic make him feel very tough because every time his mind is full of parents happiness and expectations .Yes he failed not in exam , i mean he got mentally disturbed before one day of boards exam.We all miss him alot .
Who will explain their parents that their expectation spoils his life.Again am saying that am not in against of any parents methodology of parenting , but some methodology becomes blunder mistakes in life . I know most of the students become nervous not because of exam only because of their parents expectation .
A simple message to all parents that they sacrifices almost many thing for goodness of their child but add one more sacrifice from my side also i.e., Donât realize your expectation to your child because , you donât know in which way these expectations will haunt them. A little changes can add more happiness in child growth i think. But making them fully free is also not a good thing. Apply different methods as according to nature of child .Am not a parental expert but its my free message.
I still regret that i lost my intellectual friend .And one opf my friend is very irresponsible but he is on right track and understands family responsibilities only because of realizing him of his parents expectations.All i want to say every parents has their own methodology add one of mine also.
