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Asexual Positivity Blog!

[a-spec-unity-blog]

is there a aspec label that means "only experiencing sexual/romantic attraction with stated friends" like it's not demisexual because even people I have a bond with I don't experience attraction to but if I'm friends with someone (especially if we're best friends) and the both of us have stated where friends then I can be attracted to them like that's the only time I can even have the possibility of developing feelings?

Yes, there actually is a term for that!

Amicussexual/Amicusromantic: A subset of demi- where one only develops a type of attraction to those they are friends with.

I believe you could also spell amicussexual with one s if you want. 

[recip-cutie]

I am reciprosexual and recipromantic, and I am both arospec and aspec

Without reciprocation, I am aroace because I do not experience sexual or romantic attraction

With reciprocation, even though I am experiencing attraction, I am still arospec and aspec because I only experienced attraction in a very specific circumstance

Without that specific circumstance being fulfilled, I wouldn’t have felt any attraction

Even if I am in a sexual or romantic relationship, I am still arospec and aspec

[ace-kid-blog]

Heteroromantic asexuals are valid Homoromantic asexuals are valid Biromantic asexuals are valid Panromantic asexuals are valid Aromantic asexuals are valid Polyromantic asexuals are valid Demiromantic asexuals are valid Asexuals are valid, no matter who they are or are not romantically attracted to.

[ace-kid-blog]

Every part of the ace spectrum is beautiful and valid and everyone on it matters, wether they're ace, grey-ace, demisexual, reciprosexual, or something else entirely.

[ace-kid-blog]

If you're asexual and want to use the word queer

That's 100% okay! You can use whatever word you want to describe yourself. If the word queer feels good to describe yourself as, then don't be afraid to use it, no matter what some rude people may say.