@justasexythings Do you believe that sexless/nonromantic relationships are abusive, or that ace/aro people owe sex or romance to their partners?
No, you asshole! In fact I’m kind of horrified that lots of inclusionists subtly agree with the latter!
What exactly are you advocating for, then? Because I know this is the impression people are walking away with.
Well, that’s on them and their shitty reading comprehension/wilfull mischaracterisation of everything that questions their beliefs, because to say that this is an unfavourable reading of what I’m saying is an understatement: it’s the wildest, stupidest, most nonsensical thing one could possibly take away and I refuse to take responsibility for it.
….So you’re not going to clarify, then, just blame everyone else. Okay.
Yep. I’m not gonna explain myself over and over in the face of such blatant mischaracterisation. I’m just gonna leave this as a clue that no, I’m not saying that, read everything again.
Well, I feel that’s pretty clarifying, just not in the way you intended. Thanks anyways. Oh, and good job telling an autistic person that she’s just being dumb on purpose and deliberately misunderstanding things!
Don’t play these games with me girl, I’m autistic too and if you take part in this discussion you can’t operate in it under the assumption that no one can ever say you’re misunderstanding things, misreading them, or being wilfully ignorant.
You know, you've spent way more time on telling me how I'm being stupid on purpose than it ever would have taken you to just clarify.













