ACE !!

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[acespartypoison]

Welcome to the graveyard...

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let the guitar scream like a fascist

—blog owner goes by ace, and goes by he/him.

—posts will be tagged appropriately. tags are below the cut.

—mutuals can req to add me on discord. just dm <3

𖤐 MCR, FOB, SOAD, PTV, Nirvana, A7X and Linkin Park

𖤐 Danger Days is my current fixation

𖤐 dni ; trump supporters, ableists, trans/homophobes, misogynists/misandrists, people who hate therians/alterhumans, radqueers, transmeds, nsfw agere/petre blogs, endo systems, xenosatanists

𖤐 tagging system:

#spade.txt- text posts/me rambling

#♠️- asks i answer

#against the sun we're the enemy- stuff involving danger days

#to see a marching band- anything involving band

𖤐 Also: I do put trigger warnings on posts!

𖤐Mutual tags 𖤐

@summer-of-system - #yellow checkered cars

@panickingatthediscotheque - #my son

@angrychicagoan24 - #i appear missing

@sou-thern-con-stellations - #antares

@canid-sys - #the world we deserve

@s-a-m-i----83 - #my lovely wife

@i-dr1nk-s0da-all-n1ght - #the best puppyboy ever

[acespartypoison]

i wish i could repost community posts this is such a good statement thank you @vulpine-vampire255

[trying-trying2lyk]

i love writing out numbers and then putting them in parentheses like "one (1)" even when i dont need to i think its funny

[acespartypoison]

my dad driving the ford suv is so scary in the front seat but it's whatever cause deer dance

[acespartypoison]

also its real pathetic to block someone so they cant respond to you to make them seem horrible. and then continuing to interact. like I am a teenager and you're 32 doing this blocking and unblocking bullshit just because i disagreed with you on ONE post. one post and then you continue to comment / reblog every single one of my following posts. what the hell man

[acespartypoison]

i really cant get over the irony of a trans woman telling me that trans men are invading women's spaces when they have to detransition to be able to do gendered shit

[acespartypoison]

why is some random 30 year old obsessed with me

like i asked a question and tried arguing with her in a comments section once and then suddenly she's on all my posts. like Ok.

[acespartypoison]

writing a really easy trumpet warmup

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[image description: a reddit comment by user evergreengoth. quote below]

People who have been hurt by cis men are sometimes angry. They want a target. They want to hurt the men who hurt them.

But they can't. Cis men are protected by privilege and systemic power that makes it so that woman, sometimes especially trans women, really don't have a lot of recourse.

It also feels good, if you're the right type of person and you hate yourself a little, to have someone below you that you can hurt so you can reassure yourself that at least someone else is lower than you. This is especially true if you're insecure in your own identity. It's why poor white people eat up racist ideologies; it feels good to punch down at someone when you yourself are feeling both inadequate and powerless. Anyone, including trans men who are insecure in their position, is vulnerable to giving into the temptation to pick a vulnerable target to go for. It's a way to feel big and build yourself up and when you're marginalized or hurting, that kind of thing becomes appealing, whether you realize it or not. Not everyone has this impulse, but enough do that it's a problem.

You can't hurt a cis man as easily because of all the privilege. They're just not very vulnerable.

But a trans man? A trans man is a man without any of that protection.

A trans man is a man you can *hurt.*

If that trans man gets to talk, though, and if he starts pointing out that he's as oppressed as you are, if he demonstrates that he's vulnerable and, in fact, a victim, just like you, then you don't get to feel good about it, especially if you've framed the justification for hurting him as though you're a victim who is punching up and entitled to act on your righteous anger. Men, whether directly or in more abstract ways through the pressures of patriarchy, have hurt you, and you're allowed to be angry and fight back. He's a man, so he's automatically an acceptable stand-in for who or what it is that you're angry at and want to hurt.

If he has a voice, it means you're punching laterally or punching down and you're as evil as the men who hurt you. You want to keep feeling big. You want to keep feeling like the harm you're doing is righteous justice. You want to feel like you're punching up. You don't want to be the bad guy. You just want a guilt-free outlet for the pain you're in.

If the fact that he's also a victim and more than innocent, and has had nothing to do with causing your pain, you don't get that guilt-free outlet because then you're as bad as whoever hurt you. You want to be the underdog hero, not the villain.

So you'd better get him to shut the fuck up, and if doing so allows you to hurt him more, so much the better because hurting him feels good.

[acespartypoison]

saw someone's intro have a hate collage and i love it

[ddead3ye]

Finally, danger days! This is the only one out of the four that I did completely digitally, but I think it fits with danger days’ vibe

[acespartypoison]

also please for the love of god, stop saying detransition is a "privilege" that men have. detransitioning isn't just some amazing escape button with no consequences nor should it even happen with trans people (its alright if its someone who realized they arent trans, obviously.)

[acespartypoison]

but also i think its important to point out that i think trans women 100% have their own very real issues involving oppression. i never deny that. i just talk about issues involving trans men because i am one.

each trans person is oppressed in their own unique ways. some trans people may even be affected by the things that other kinds would (such as a trans man who commonly gets mistaken as a trans woman, or the other way around).

i dislike either group (trans men and trans women) trying to say that the other group doesn't have it bad. like yes i talk about things people say about trans men a Lot but that is because i simply am not trans fem.

moral of the story dont assume other groups in an oppressed minority don't have it bad

[acespartypoison]

just cause i'm on a streak, i really fucking hate gender roles. i also hate how trans men are simultaneously expected to follow them but also demonized if they do. like i agree, not showing emotions is bad but also demonizing us won't help. come on man

[acespartypoison]

i'm so tired. i saw this post about a trans men joining a sports team, but it was the women's team. and instead of people being sad that he had to detransition to even do the sport he loves, they all instead went "i fucking hate men" and "he's taking opportunities from trans women"

[andrinoaddiction]

You cannot transition from a forced position of womanhood into a position of womanhood. You cannot transition from a forced position of manhood into a position of manhood.

What is so hard about this to understand? Like, genuinely.

[acespartypoison]

you can like be someone who's afab and be transfem. its called being a fem presenting nonbinary person

[acespartypoison]

saw these people on twitter calling a person dumb for having genderfluid, agender, transmasc, and demiboy as their labels cause they're 'contradictory'

do they not see "genderfluid" there