My bf is 2 hours away at grad school and we broke up 3 weeks ago still being very much in love but having a hard time with the distance/stressed bc of his thesis/my difficult(former) job. I know he thinks that when he moves back home in June, we'll get back together and it's a hope I have too. I'm appreciating the time apart to focus on me and Super You has been a GREAT help in sorting this all out in my head, just wondering what your thoughts are. Maybe the holidays are making me miss him more?
Three weeks means you’re still in it. Give yourself more time to be unsorted. Give yourself more space to think it through. I think you should proceed as if you aren’t getting back together, that way you either get a lovely surprise or you get to proceed with your awesome life as usual without pining.
Pining seems like it’ll be awesome and noble and romantic but it’s actually pretty lame for the piner. Your life shouldn’t be put on ice for anyone- if he’s the right guy, he’ll come back when you’re both ready.
