Maria

Bride to be

[ahoradaestrrela]

I go to college, have a work, and love to achieve my own dreams — but I’d drop it all for him. I trust him to bring in the income, while I build a home, nurture our space, and create the kind of life we both deserve. It’s not about being dependent, it’s about a partnership where we both shine in our own ways. The modern world might tell us to do it all, but sometimes, real strength is knowing when to let go and let someone else carry the weight for a while. So yeah, I’d choose him, and our home and our future children over any title or degree. There’s something powerful in that.

[ahoradaestrrela]

Did any woman here have the contraceptive conversation with her partner?

My pill ended yesterday and I didn't want to continue with it. However, although I am not against the idea of having children now (I just wish it was in a better context, but whatever God or nature wants), my fiancé insists that I keep taking it, because he doesn't want to see me pregnant in the place where we live – he thinks it's not good enough for a child. Anyway, the fact is that I've been afraid of continuing on the pill and not being able to get pregnant when we're finally "ready". I would really love to receive a tip on how to talk about this with him. 🥹

[ahoradaestrrela]

To live in a world where embracing motherhood is seen as a sacred calling, where nurturing a family is a lifelong devotion rather than a rebellion against fleeting ideals, the dream of becoming a mother is not just cherished—it is divine. And I dream of a world like this.

[my-traditional-world-deactivate]

Can we return to being adults at 18, getting married and having babies before you're 20 and creating structured loving homes?