Lessons from ex lovers; mine and others.
Don’t fuck the boy who calls his mother every day, but speaks ill of her when he hangs up. This boy won’t ever appreciate you as a woman, lover, or nurturer. It is not in his make to.
Don’t fuck the boy who’s ex’s belongings still litter the house. She is still a ghost in the home, and shooing her away will make you an even uglier poltergeist. He will resent you for this.
Don’t fuck the boy who doesn’t let you spend the night. The drive home is painfully criticizing. You will hate yourself.
Don’t fuck the boy who does not hold you after. The most important time for affection is now. You deserve to be held.
Don’t fuck the boy who does not introduce you to his friends. You are not a secret. Do not allow yourself to be one.
Don’t fuck the boy who won’t talk to you about his past. And when he does, do not judge him for it. If he doesn’t, find someone with a history worth learning.
Don’t fuck the boy who isn’t a good kisser. He won’t get better. You won’t learn to like it. This is a sign.
Don’t fuck the boy who speaks often but listens rarely. He is looking to fill a void. He will not fill yours.
Don’t fuck the boy who does not know your body. His thrusts are generic. They will not satisfy you. He will think otherwise, though.
Don’t give him a second chance, he doesn’t get better. He will keep calling. Ignore.
Don’t fuck the boy who disregards your boundaries, you don’t have to justify yourself. He does not deserve the opportunity to apologize. He does not know what he did wrong.
Don’t fuck the boy who does not communicate about your wants, and his. The sex will be mediocre.
Don’t fuck the boy who leads you to love, and leaves you. He will not ever love you.
Don’t fuck the girl who writes, you will find a space on this list.
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