I canāt believe Iām posting this but, here goes;
If youāre on Grindr, Scruff, Recon, etc and you identify as a Dom, Switch, or submissive and you approach a Dom, Switch, or submissive (to Dom or serve them) and they tell you they are not interested in you.
YOU donāt get to tell them they are not a true Dom, Switch, or submissive. That is not how the BDSM culture works. Period.
Iāve alway identified as a submissive. The past few years, while serving my Dom, Iāve become more āSwitchā and have grown as a person in this regard.
As Iāve traversed the Seattle BDSM scene, I often missed out on serving friends or people I became fond of, because I didnāt want it to change the friendship. But, again, the past few years Iāve learned to adapt, and enjoy the moment for what it is.
But back to the reason for this post; Please set aside your egos, whether youāre a Dom, Switch, or submissive (a sub should alway keep theirs in check). And take a āno thank youā with dignity and grace.
