[alphaxheaux]

Dating a broke man is stupid, marrying a broke man is even dumber and having children with a broke man is child abuse.

[elleventhsense]

Van Cleef is useless if you have no $

If you grew up in poverty and then suddenly start making real money through escorting, it's way too easy to be dazzled by all the shiny things you can finally buy.

If you have less than 25k saved up, you shouldn't even think about buying designer anything. Actually 25k in liquid cash + 3 months of living expenses saved up is literally the bare minumum.

Some of you are considering treating yourselves to an Alhambra bracelet when you don't even have enough for a down payment for a mortgage. What are those bracelets going to do for you if you get evicted or some crazy person tries to sue you?

I say this out of love as someone who's made many financial mistakes in their life. You need to have enough saved up that you can just have a "fuck you, I dare you to try me" attitude

[nysugarbabe]

Don’t even buy luxury until you have six figure savings generating income in stocks, bonds or high yield savings and an emergency fund

[maneatingwhore]

Keep the fact that you are a sex worker to yourself. Now I’m not telling you this because I feel like you should have internalized shame surrounding your job. I’m telling you this for your own protection. The only thing people will use that information for is to discredit you.

[elleventhsense]

IMO this applies to boyfriends too. Idc 90% of the time it's none of their business what you were up to in the past OR what you are up to on the side 👀

[theposhsworld]

Focus on your appearance, focus on yourself, see men as ATM but when you talk to them pretend to like them. Dont use messages as a way of having conversations on a daily basis, but as a form of communication to schedule dates. Never be too available. Have a roaster, talk to multiple men. Have your girl friends and have fun with them. Have your own things to do, like your business, your career, your life, your hobby. You are the main character.

[alphaxheaux]

I wish all women had this mentality!!

[mughler-deactivated20190524]

don’t be realistic on what you want. be realistic on how you’re going to get it.

[deitywork]

THE WORK TEACHES YOU HOW TO DO IT

THE WORK TEACHES YOU HOW TO DO IT

[bergamotbarbie]

Babes, the process is so sexy; the act of refining yourself day in and day out; that’s where the magic is

[exoticjetset-deactivated2025092]

Some of the best finesses come from being in a simultaneous state of abundance and detachment

[limperatricedesvices]

I don’t care to seem like a high maintenance 100% goldigger because I am

[alphaxheaux]

Knock everyone off their pedestal and put yourself on one

[alphaxheaux]

There’s no universal line, no magic phrase, no one-size-fits-all script that makes a man want to spend money on you. All men are different and you have to know how to read them. So stop worrying about saying the “right” thing. Focus on developing your own style of flirting and figure out what works for you. It’s a skill you build with time and experience.

[sexpensed-deactivated20210529]

You get too meet so many people, whats the most important things youve learned from these men 👀

pussy makes the world go ‘round

[sexpensed-deactivated20210529]

best advice you’d give a girl?

Don’t trust men, marry for money, wear a condom, and save your money

[sexpensed-deactivated20210529]

Sex work has made me see past men’s bullshit so easily. Most women are flattered if a man proposes he put together a home cooked meal a few dates in. All that means is he doesn’t want to spend money and wants you as close to his bedroom as possible. He’s not being a gentleman if he wants to pick you up for a date, he wants to be in control of your transportation so he can pressure you to stop by his place afterwords. Please recognize that they do these things for their own gain and don’t buy into it.

[rechbetch-deactivated20220314]

In your 20s, you’re a snack.

In your 30s, you’re a bombshell.

In your 40s, you’re a vixen.

In your 50s+, you’re THAT bitch.

Don’t let gross men and the media make you believe beauty ends in your early twenties.

[lais-noire-deactivated20260601]

If you are determined to learn & apply no one can stop you.

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

The good thing about life is that everything I’ve ever lost, it’s been replaced with something bigger and better. I never lack, I just transition.