[luluu9sblog-deactivated20220911]

you’re allowed 2 minutes of sadness then you gotta keep it gangsta

[erosinirev]

Stanley Kubrick's Eyes Wide Shut

[pure-champagne]

It feels so good to finally break free from the financial dependence of men and double down on my own stability

[hollowmaison]

Now why would you base your sense of self on the distortions of people who don’t know you. Idealization / demonization are both not accurate portrayals of someone.

[pure-champagne]

From a week ago :)

[pure-champagne]

Hi! been dating this provider man in finance for about 3 months now, our 5th date was a spa day at a luxurious hotel in my city followed with dinner. After that we did have brief convo on text then he called me later that evening.. when it’s late i don’t answer. I had sent the last imsg prior to that call (which he never answered) 1 week now has passed w no sign of him… may i add as well that i never initiate first w men. Idk, any advice pls?

I’m so late to this ask!! My apologies. In this situation though, I definitely wouldn’t be desperate. Don’t double text, don’t call him multiple times. Stay busy with your own life and projects. There will always be another man if this one didn’t work out.

Not sure how things are like with you and him now but keep some options open :)

[perriaeyjeve]

[rosyy-coosy]

📸 kelseymerritt

[theamericanpin-up]

Steve Hanks - "Love for the Unattainable" - 2006 Watercolor Painting - American Artist

[overclassy]

[pure-champagne]

Cheap men WILL exhaust you

[sparklecooch69-deactivated20170]

I 100% feel completely entitled to mens’ money.

[pure-champagne]

Girl why the fuck is the Amex customer service flirting with me ??

He was like “and who’s the name of the beautiful gorgeous person I’m talking to?”

Like hello??

[luxuryandbrown]

Self centered.

Self obsessed.

Self possessed.

[pure-champagne]

How do you cope with parents that doesn't support you, your ambitions and lifestyle?

Or did you parents support your ambitions?

This is a good question. My parents always supported (and encouraged) me modeling/being an influencer. When it came to choosing my career over a higher education like university that wasn’t the case.

I was too stubborn and ambitious to let someone else dictate how my life should play out so their disapproval never really affected me much.

[pure-champagne]

Once you see one big red flag from a man, it only goes downhill from there. It usually never gets better.

Once you start seeing the first one… then you see the second one and third one and etc. and eventually you end up with a man who “switched up”

No babe, he’s always been like that, he just knows how to conceal it before the act wears off and until you get attached.

[pure-champagne]