vivre libre

[goodreadss]

“If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?”

—

[joli--coeur]

one day, you will have exactly what you’ve been dreaming of and wishing for, and your heart will swell with so much joy and contentment.

keep going.

[s-o-n-p-a-r-i-deactivated202401]

I have one braincell and I use it to overthink

[cravings]

i just need a break from everything for a year or a century

[deathinfire-blog1]

[showerthoughtsofficial]

Knowing you have the next day off is more relieving than the actual day off

[anniespositivity]

What 2020 is all about:

less: saying yes to people, things and events that are not good for your mental health, more: saying no, setting clear boundaries, walking away from toxic people, doing things and being with people that make your heart happy

less: working up to the point of a mental breakdown, neglecting yourself, more: taking time to recharge your batteries, taking breaks, investing in me-time and self-care

less: negative self talk, more: positive thoughts to remind yourself how amazing, beautiful and capable you are - remember that the way you talk to yourself matters

less: comparing yourself to the path of others, more: realising that you walk your own path, being proud of everything you are and everything you have achieved

less: doing things just because others say so, being afraid to show your true self, more: fully expressing yourself, choosing things because you - and no one else - want them

less: bottleing up your feelings, saying you are okay when you are not, hiding behind a mask, more: being open and honest about the way you feel, being vulnerable, knowing that is is okay not to be okay

less: being too hard on yourself when you have a bad day, more: letting yourself feel without judging every emotion. knowing that bad days are part of the process, being kinder to yourself

[softpng]

men’s domestic helplessness is not cute or charming pls raise your sons to know how to cook a vegetable and wash their dirty sock i’m begging 

[bakwaaas]

Do it for you. Not to impress others or prove haters wrong. Not to post on social media or show people you made it. Don’t even do it for your parents, or your friends, or your spouse. Become successful, become the best version of yourself that you can, improve and work on yourself and strive and blossom and grow, for you.

[knifenymph]

i carry a lot of hurt in my heart but that will not stop me from growing and healing and becoming better than i have ever been

[celes7ial-deactivated20180319]

things that make people feel loved:

making them a playlist

baking them cookies

giving them flowers

creating art for them

random reminders that they are loved

writing them a poem

complimenting them on their talents

asking how their day was

sending them links to things you think they will like

random hugs

“This made me think of you”

[dearestvita-deactivated20221122]

mentally I am always lying in a field of flowers

[anditslove]

Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things

[pigmenting]

i love the part of growth that allows you to look back on a previous period of your life and recognize that parts of it were unhealthy. something that felt so normal wasn’t in hindsight. you’re not supposed to feel that tired all the time. you’re not supposed to be treated like that.

[abdulllahma]

I’m an overthinker so if you don’t give me an answer, I’ll come up with one

[podencos]

Anyway, isn’t it weird how you can love a voice

[bluebeardswiife]

it’s just me and my four hundred unread books against the world i guess