ready for the mosh pit, shaka brah

20-something-year-old nerd (formerly zombiesinflannels)

[elierlick]

Yet another new study debunked the basis for the anti-trans sports bans. It was never about sports but for creating legal avenues for exclusion and abjection. This is one of the largest analyses ever conducted, involving 52 studies and 6,485 trans people. Read the study here.

[contemptible-scoundrel]

MASOCHIST MUTUAL: ouhhh I need to receive a botched execution where they try for a gutshot but they miss and hit my steel dog tags instead and it shatters my solar plexus shredding my lungs with bone fragments and they kick me into a ditch where I slowly asphyxiate to death choking on my own blood and bone,,,

SADIST MUTUAL: [picture of newspaper cat] I should fuck a girl who is scared of me

[dhegdheer]

[missinchrest]

[happyk44]

[ID: 1. #and there's a reason for that lmao #kink talk

2. #people are much more willing to accept the idea of a fictional playspace when it comes to expressing masochistic fantasies #whenever a sadist does post type 1 people tend to assume that we're serial killer aspirants who want to butcher people irl

3. This why people think there's a dom shortage it's just that the doms have social anxiety and don't want to be accused of wanting to rape people

4. #because if I went into detail y'all would put me in prison [sobbing emoji] it's uncomfortable being a sadist sometimes

5. #I'm probably the thousand person to add this tag but #yeah!! I'm scared to say out loud the things I want lest people immediately tar and feather me for being a predator!

6. #in our experience #this isn't really a difference in actual fantasies #just in the safety of expressing them #make your sadist feel safe and they can go just as far

7. #unfortunately "I want to shatter someone's solar plexus and shred their lungs with bone fragments then kick them into a ditch so they #choke on their own blood and bone" #sounds REALLY BAD #< to be clear I don't think it's bad I would be a hypocrite #but that's exactly it. it sounds so bad. I cannot say that it sounds so bad.

8. #a former mutual compared me to dahmer on main and i barely even talk about shit

9. #prev: #can't be too specific as a sadism dom because then you get dogpiled for being Abusive and Evil for *checks notes* posting on tumblr dot com

10. #woah it's almost like the average sadist is terrified of being seen as genuinely dangerous outside of a sexual setting #if y'all heard half my freaky thoughts I'd be banned and locked up

11. #dude it's fucked upppp i love those unhinged masochism posts but if you try to match that energy as a sadist you sound like a serial killer

12. #if i say anything i actually think i'll sound like a serial killer

13. #yeah. Yeah #i feel like if i express my true thoughts i'll sound like a serial killer

14. #if i talk too openly about being a sadist people react as if I have admitted to sex crimes

15. #because if you posted that you wanted to do that to someone people will act like you're a danger to society

16. #i can not go into detail of what I REALLY WANT in public #they will kill me #kink stuff

17. #Yeah is because if you want to say something more unhinged as a top/sadist #People are going to call you an abuse #Lol

18. #If I wrote my fantasies out it would be considered credible threats :(

19. #stopppp [five sobbing emojis] #it's so easy to get called a predator [sobbing emoji]

20. Tags from @/allanonkisigar: #This is like a huge problem in the kink community in general #So many subs seem to think of doms like. As a sex toy #They want the dom to do the things they want to them but the moment that dom expresses any kind of dominant desire #The subs will just fucking immediately label them a sexual predator and move on #Which I will never fucking understand #I don't want a fucking. Breathing sex toy. I WANT to be desired and have my dom participating and enjoying and wanting to do things to me #as much as I want them to be done to me I literally cannot comprehend enjoying it any other way

#Like fucking doms have feelings too and the reasonn you think there's a "dom shortage" is because you'll only accept them #If they never express desire in anything other than the most fucking vanilla ways #So they're going to try and find someone who actually gives a damn about them instead of your sorry ass /end ID]

[gentlekiss]

gk

[depsidase]

[status-quo-hater]

The answer is really simple it's that america is an evil country

[redibinch]

Taguels are lowkey one of the best rabbit designs of all time ngl

[notecardpasta]

I think when you correctly identify a trauma that is the base of a woe of yours it should just disappear. It should be like "aaahh. you got me" and vanish and leave 100 dollars behind

[countthelions]

#if you line up several neuroses and identify the interlocking connections between them they should all vanish like clearing a line in tetris (via @karliahs)

[ingydars]

God the 11 year old girls you put on this earth to climb trees and play with plastic animals are buying foundation at the drug store

[manisthebastard]

for a second i thought you meant foundation like, a building foundation. not makeup

[cognitohazardous]

God the 11 year old girls you put on this earth are building something great and terrible on the edge of town

[superdillin]

Everytime one of these "protect women and girls" orgs go viral for doing something evil I like to take a look through their "wins" and see if they've ever helped protect even one single living woman or girl.

Collective Shout has:

Gotten a hotel to cancel a legal-aged porn star's reservation

Gotten a venue to cancel a Playboy Bunny themed party - again, attended by only adults

Pressured the Breast Cancer Foundation to pull ads that they found too sexy

got ads for a sex doll company removed because they felt the dolls resembled children

Got a beer coozy that had pinups of adult women printed on them discontinued.

Got an H&M ad pulled for back to school clothes for saying "Turn Heads"

Got Tyler the Creator banned from performing in New Zealand

I'm still scrolling and I have yet to see a single instance of a real, living woman or girl being protected by any one of their actions. They have on multiple occasions punished real, adult women for the audacity to be naked in some capacity they find distasteful.

Adding to this that they have lobbied to get a real pedophile released AND supported Cuties, which objectified and exploited real living children.

My main point is not that you have to love any of the things above, you can even hate them and wish they didn't exist. but they were able to dismantle the entire games industry and set a dark precedent regarding banks deciding who is morally good enough to spend money - and they aren't even helping any real women or girls in the process.

[niyarest]

[kyleblackpaw]

Visa and Mastercard are getting overwhelmed by gamer fury over censorship

Gamers are sending mass emails and phone calls to major payment processors in protest over Steam and Itchio pulling adult games from their s

do not let up the pressure

https://yellat.money/

[kalina-c]

fuck em up gang

[lelif]

on survival

-// @aridante // @orivu // @buzzkillgirls // ? // ? // richard siken// @cemeterything // moomin, tove jansson// @disenchanted-killjoy // isn't that enough, shawn mendes// @ prettytheyswag on twitter// @ coletyumuch on twitter// ? // ? // bird by bird, anne lamott// undertale// @strawberrycircuits

[evilsoup]

it's kinda funny that the constant monitoring of ordinary citizens by the state which was once used to mark out east germany as an especially repressive regime is now child's play compared to the reams of data held by every state about everyone.not "ha ha" funny though

[official-torfmoor]

Privacy is the privilege of terrorists these days.

[evilsoup]

Ummm it's actually? really problematic to close your curtains, like what if you're doing a hecking terrorism, or some kind of Bad Sex??? why are you hiding from the panopticon unless you're doing something bad?????????

[moonshinemagpie]

Everyone: Please please please don't write your books in Google Docs. Frankly don't use Google Drive for personal stuff.

Their terms of service say they take down stuff like content related to terrorism and trafficking, but this Google Sheet was literally a list of movies I'd watched this year and books I'd read.

[moonshinemagpie]

Holy smokes, guys. It's way worse than I thought. Google actually took away access to every single file of fiction writing I'd made on that account. BUT I backed it all up on Scrivener yesterday by coincidence. So I haven't lost my work, but I could have just lost the 12,000 words I've written this month after a year of really intense writer's block. I honestly don't know what that would have done to my psyche.

Please be careful out there, folks! <3

[aerialworms]

That is awful! If you're looking for a gdocs-like replacement, Ellipsus @ellipsus-writes is a queer friendly, anti-AI equivalent with online syncing and sharing - I've been using it for almost a year now as a replacement for gdocs and absolutely love it.

I do still back up all my work to local storage on LibreOffice too though, thank goodness you backed up to Scrivener OP!

[the-bar-sinister]

That's it, I'm done. I'm downloading all my gdocs and not using it any more.

[technofeudalism]

fashion is cyclical

[anexperimentallife]

[redstonedust]

ideal living situation is what i call the 'sitcom special' : having all your closest friends live in the same apartment building or neighborhood where you each have your own space but can wander in and out of eachothers homes at will, seemingly always welcome and never at bad times. and also all of you only have jobs when its important to the plot.