Top 9 Anal Sex Positions to Try With Your Girlfriend
You are probably familiar with the most common sex positions. Watching porn, combined with a bit of real world experimenting should be enough to get the hang of almost any position.
When it comes to anal sex though, itâs not that simple. The positions used for anal that you see in porn movies usually donât work as well in real life. Porn stars who âtake it up the ass hardâ undergo anal douching with antibacterial soap, get themselves anaesthetized and apply loads of lubricants before the director even yells âACTION!â Also, porn stars usually have much more experience with sex (anal or vaginal) than your average couple.
Anal is typically the riskiest form of sex. The receiver has a high probability of contracting an STD or getting injured. This is mostly due to lack of natural lubrication. Other than that, the ass wasnât really designed by nature for sex. Itâs us guys who love sticking stuff inside it.
No worries. Iâll give you 3 positions for total beginners which you can enjoy without worrying about hurting your girl. Later on, as both of you get more comfortable with anal sex, you can try out the more advanced methods.
 Lie on top of your woman and face her directly. Missionary is the best position for beginners because it allows the woman to fully relax (which is very important for having anal sex). Youâll be facing her directly and will be able to tell if sheâs uncomfortable at any point by her facial expressions. This will make initial penetration much easier and that first experience much more pleasurable.
Quick tip: Have her lie on her back with a pillow under her pelvis, with her legs facing slightly upwards. Enter at an angle that is most comfortable for both of you. The pillow is there for easier access. If itâs your first time having anal sex, be sure to read this guide on how to prepare your girl for anal before you proceed.
 This is a variation of the missionary position. Lie down on a bed or on the floor. Any comfortable flat surface will do. Have your woman raise her legs up over your shoulders and hold onto your arms. Keep your hands on the surface for support and let her guide your penis into position.  Again, a pillow below her pelvis can help.
Quick tip: This position, like Missionary, will help your girl relax her muscles and it will provide much more skin to skin contact between you and her - making anal even more pleasurable. Try this position if you want a more intimate, romantic experience.
 Anal with the man on top and woman lying on her side is another easy one for beginners. The skewed point of entry will create a totally different sensation than previous positions. Itâs also great for men because access from the side will be much easier if you donât happen to be gifted with a 7ââ+ member. The position is quite simple; have your girl lie on her side while you approach her from the rear.
Quick tip: Use more lube than usual and have her stick her legs together. The tightness of her backdoor and resulting friction will overwhelm your senses.
Once youâve mastered the beginner positions, you can try medium and then expert level. The following are aimed at maximizing yours and your partnerâs pleasure, while still not being too physically demanding to try for anal newbies. Iâll put them in order from easiest to hardest.
 Lie down on your back and tell her to get on top of you. Have your woman lean forward as much as she can, facing your feet. Your legs should surround hers. The fact that sheâs leaning forward will ensure a good penetration angle and youâll get an excellent view of your target - your girlâs sexy ass.
The thing that turns guys on the most with Anal Love Seat is definitely the clear view of your womanâs butt. Make it even better for her by massaging her ass, hips and lower body while sheâs âworking itâ.
Quick tip: Penetrate her slowly (at first) and let her control the pace of sex. Resist the temptation to take things into your own hands and pound her to death. If youâre worried about cumming prematurely, Anal Love Seat is the right choice, as guys tend to last a bit longer with this position.
Next, Iâll give you the perfect position for an anal quickie.
 Itâs similar to standard doggy style, but with a fun twist. Get behind your girl and have her on all fours, with her ass up and face flat on the bed. What separates regular and flying doggy-style is the fact that youâre standing for the flying version. Spread her cheeks, lube up generously and enter slowly. Penetrate your girl downwards for the best experience.
Quick tip: I guarantee that youâll love this position. Itâs great if you want to cum quick as the intense sensation and total control will drive you crazy with lust. Just make sure your girl isnât left unsatisfied by your swiftness.
 If youâre feeling lazy, let her have the Anal Joyride. Just lean back with your arms, the wall, or a pillow supporting you and tell her to climb on top of you. She will be in total control. All you need to do is help her guide your soldier inside. Once she starts riding, sheâll never want to stop.
Quick tip: Â You might think that Joyride would be great for beginners because the woman can control the depth and speed of the penetration. Thatâs true but sheâs also very likely to involuntarily tense up and tighten her anus making penetration harder. If she tenses up, donât panic or try to force it inside her. Stop for a minute, finger and massage her ass to get her to relax, and then resume slowly.
By the time you get to expert level, you should be sure that you both love anal sex and have had it at least 10 times. Now youâre ready to try the expert positions. Caution though, a clumsy move can cause your partner considerable pain.
 Cocoon allows the deepest penetration of all positions. Have your woman sit on the edge of the bed, kitchen counter or table, whatever you prefer. Stand up while facing her and help her prop her legs up on your shoulders, one leg at a time. Now enter her and hold her around the lower back area.
Quick tip: She needs to be a bit flexible for this position. If you and your girlfriend arenât sure that sheâll be able to cocoon herself up - maybe itâs time to think about signing up for a yoga class.
 This is probably the first thing that comes to mind when you think of anal sex. Man kneeling behind and the woman on all fours. Itâs the most common position among people who practice anal, but not necessarily the most comfortable. She might not be able to relax totally and your angle of penetration will typically be slightly upwards, possibly making sex difficult.
Quick tip: If she seems uncomfortable, switch to flying doggy style.
9. Wheelbarrow - The Mount Everest of Anal Sex Positions
 Approach her from behind while both of you are standing facing a bed or a chair. Have her bend over and rest her arms on it for support. Lift one of her legs up and hold it next to your hip to expose her behind. Enter and enjoy!
Quick tip: This is can be a physically demanding position. If both of you have the physical strength, stamina and experience to enjoy this position, congratulations, youâve earned the title of Anal Sex Pros.
Iâm looking to improve this list. Comment below if youâve got any more interesting positions to recommend to others. Iâd love to hear about them. If itâs a good one, Iâll promote it to the top list :)
