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Your life matters

[lightheartedsuggestion]

It is such a beautiful thing to find someone that can both accept you in your entirety and want to help you grow.

[lightheartedsuggestion]

I am changing. I am growing. I am becoming better. 

[quotethat]

“Thank you for teaching me where I draw the line between what I can forgive and what I know I deserve.”

— Beau Taplin • T h e  B o u n d a r y  L i n e

[blossomfully]

How do I move on if I never got closure?

This must be one of the hardest things to do. 

To never know why. Or to never have them hold you in their arms and say, it’s okay - it’s not because I think you’re a terrible person. It’s not because you aren’t enough. It’s because I’m not ready. Or because I don’t think we have the same goals for the future. Or because I’m in love with someone else. 

But that doesn’t make you inferior. It doesn’t make you bad. It doesn’t make you unlovable. 

I guess moving on without closure means you have to say those things to yourself. To know that, ultimately, you will be okay on your own. To realise that your future and happiness are not dependent on something external. To say those things that you needed to hear from them, to yourself. 

It is much easier said than done, but I think that’s the first step. 

[demiiwhiffin]

[aidashakur]

i wish i met some people a little earlier, some a little later & some never at all.

[acupofkeen]

“Keep in mind: not everyone you lose is a loss.”

— ten-word-story, #62

[wherewritersblockcomestodie]

“She was the kind of girlfriend God gives you young, so you’ll know loss the rest of your life.”

— The Brief Wonderous Life of Oscar Wao (Junot Diaz)

[wherewritersblockcomestodie]

“I’ve been feeling absent lately,” she said. “Like a bystander, watching my own life happen without me. I see it all happening, but I can’t feel it. I look around at everyone – my friends, my family, people who love me – and they’re smiling. They’re feeling it all. And then I look down at myself. Why don’t I feel like they do? Why am I so numb?”

— excerpt from an unfinished book #157

[lightheartedsuggestion]

A letter to myself,

Take a shower. Wash away all your negative thoughts. Eat a full meal and drink a full glass of water. Put on a clean change of clothes. You’re ready for today and whatever comes your way. Please take care of yourself.

[turing-tested]

whats that one fetish called where you and your partner mutually respect and care about each other very much

[bester-jester]

love

[turing-tested]

kinky! i like it

[wasafairytale]

Y’all know when Mulan is sitting in the rain and watches her parents silhouette disappear as the candle is blown out and then her eyes squint in determination and the music that starts to play and you see her go into the family temple and light a match and bow in respect and then sneak into her parents room and switch the scroll for her hair brooch and then the way her reflection is shown as she pulls the sword and cuts her hair?? It’s literally more iconic than any marvel movie

[sadstuffonthestreet]

Ready for the Flood. 

Found by @timberwolf1980

[jwstudying]

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[goodnightsorry]

grudges grow roots // 9.3.17

[wherewritersblockcomestodie]

And a broken heart is much more complex than you once believed.

The 12 year old version of yourself would roll her eyes if she could see you now. She’d tell your mother that you were being over dramatic. She’d ask you why you can’t just like a new boy.

She didn’t know what it was like to be so beyond repair that you don’t know how to let anyone in anymore. She hadn’t felt what it was like to cry after every first date she’d had in the last 2 years because she didn’t know how to smile at a boy and mean it anymore.

She didn’t know the gut wrenching feeling of thinking she would never be able to love again. She hadn’t felt the fear of being vulnerable again.

She hadn’t then; she shouldn’t have ever had to.

[cyclopentanes]

[hplyrikz]

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