*~*~* the gift of incentive *~*~*
So I see these “motivations” posts go round and round, so I figured I’d collect all of mine in one place. To be fair, some of these may be “tmi” or “nsfw” (depending on how much you give a shit about either) so this is Ye Olde Warning
Idk maybe the weird cleft in my chin will go the fuck away when there’s not enough fat in my face to fuel its hatred of me
I can dance without immediately being breathless
Also stairs- I chose to live on the second floor y’all (my way of making sure I got exercise in regardless of if I dedicated time to it or not)
These bat wings? Those floppy flabby bits? Yeeeee those fuckers be gone
Having lean muscle but still looking dainty, so you have to really think about if I could lay your ass out if you’re coming for me (spoiler- yes I fucking would)
Not overpowering my boyfriend in the bedroom just because I weigh twice him, but because we’re evenly matched in strength and skill
Just overall being tiny when next to him- dude is a buck sixty sopping wet and all lean muscle ; fucking walking thinspo
Speaking of, not worrying about him suffocating in all my thigh fat when going down on me
Being confident in not crushing him overall when he asks me to ride
How about actually face sitting for once? Doing a sixty nine maybe?
Overall being more bendy flexy
How about fitting into the costumes I sell in store this year? Or next year, or for the first time since I was a kid?
Being hella witchspo because photos will actually look aesthetic
People taking candid photos and I don’t immediately want to vomit on it and burn it to ash
Not having all of my EVERYTHING fucking jiggle and wiggle when I walk
Or when my boyfriend goes at it from behind
All of my body mods looking fabulous
Actually getting the tattoos I want in the places I want without being self conscious
A navel piercing? Yes I can do that
Maybe I’ll be thin enough I can get my back and hip fixed without surgery
Also my knees won’t hate me
Maybe I’ll stop having cankles and trying to explain it away as “dancer’s calves”
Skirts will look twice as flowy
I can actually wear dresses that define my shape rather than just looking like a trash bag (like the gown at my high school graduation)
Buying clothes online and not having to cross my fingers and sacrifice a goat in hopes it fits
Not having to immediately seek out the plus size section of a store, if they even have one
Not having to shop at plus size specific stores
Wearing jeans without rubbing holes into the inner thigh
Being able to wear a nice leather jacket
Corsets will look incredibly defined on me
Having a nice perky ass for once
Not having to worry about the waitress thinking we’re “just friends” and flirting with my boyfriend (and I’m not talking general customer service nice, I mean legitimate flirting)
Wanna look light as air? Fuck yeah
Not looking like a whale attempting to absorb my violin somehow into the amalgamation of my neck and shoulder
Glasses look smarter and sexier
Being picked up and carried
To that end- being picked up by my ass and being fucked against the wall
To not always feel sick in the morning because I’ve consistently shoved shit into my body
People asking “where the fuck do you put it all?”
Being able to slide into a booth with ease and not having to adjust the table or get sliced in half
Being able to eat in public and not feel like everyone is watching
Wrapping towels around me out of the shower and have it cover everything
Lingerie? Fuck yeah, gimme some of that
One size fits most? One size fits ME
Looking gorgeous on my wedding day
Having everyone who said I couldn’t do it eat their words
Being the first woman in my family to reverse the fattening process
To feel clean both inside and out
Clearer skin because I’m not shoving bullshit down my throat
Actually enjoying clothes shopping
Having too many choices because everything actually fits or they actually carry my size
To look like some ethereal being that’s taking a holiday on this mortal plane
To cosplay characters with accuracy and confidence
Fursuiting for longer periods
Not looking even bulkier with a body suit because Christ fur adds so much extra good god
To look stunning in rope bondage
To do suspension and not worry about stressing the rig
Not having fluid pool in places unexpectedly while bottoming for fire play, resulting in some super hot spots
To not have my ass swallow plugs and tails
To have a cute butt wiggle and not a thunderous jiggle
To have my voice match my appearance for once
How about going on rides at the fair? Buckling in super easy and having to pull things extra snug
Also fair food- I want to be able to walk around with my boyfriend without being winded while we each devour a turkey leg and people stare in awe at my ability to pack that away and still be tiny enough to wear a crop top and little denim shorts (or other stereotypical fair dress code for pretty and thin women)
How about doing strenuous activities with ease? Throwing weights? Long distance hikes? Rock climbing? Hell yeah
Being able to mosh like a boss but also light enough to crowd surf
To have drinks bought for me at bars, to the point I’ll have to start redistribution to friends because I want to get a little drunk, but not that fucked up
Being paid to sit for art classes
Looking forward to not drowning in sweat when I do things
Actually being able to go running or jogging and not being stopped or condescended to
Actually going without a bra and it looking attractive and intentional rather than just lazy
To be that woman who is both sexy and able to roll dice like motherfucker
To have small children think I’m one of the fae folk because no actual human could be this thin, strong, light and beautiful
To perch on places that I otherwise shouldn’t be able to- balcony rails, posts, the back of my car…
Being able to sit in a position for any length of time and not lose feeling in my legs
These varicose veins? Fucking gotta go man, sayonara
To look delightful on a bike ride
To move with such grace that it looks like I’m floating just a touch off the ground, so light and quiet you wouldn’t hear me unless I’m trying to make a sound
People being surprised at what my weight is
People being doubly surprised when they hear where I started
Being someone’s inspiration
I’ll probably update this periodically
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