Married or Single sugar daddy?
One more post inspired by sugardiary and her broke up with Suit.
Well, once you broke up with a married guy with a scandal, because his wife found everything out, you ll think that you never ever going to have a married SD again.
But here is the point... Right now I am dating a single SD. He was never married and he doesn't have kids, so I dont have to deal with all that stuff. Cool, right?
First of all, a single SD is much more time and emotions consuming. For ex, I text with my SD every day. Every day. Married guys are too busy with their lives, so that they only can see you for a limited time. Yet if a SD is single...he has much more free time, he mostly wants you to stay overnight with him, spend the whole weekend with him...etc NOt depending on the allowance. He will be texting you, calling you... So the first thing you ll have to be ready for when dating a single SD - is that you will have to spend a lot of time with him, virtually and in real.
Secondly, because of that you can't manage 2 SDs. How can you manage cheat on him when he is texting you nearly every day? They are just like boyfriends... They want you to exclusive. They want to know how was your weekend. You ll have to lie and make up fake stories about where have you been last night... While married SD is too busy to care that much about you.
Third thing is predictable - you ll slowly migrate to the spoiled girlfriend. And yes, he will become your boyfriend. My SD acts like he is my bf and he introduces me to everybody like his gf. Once he just started calling himself my bf and this is how I got to know that i have become a gf. Lol :D And yes, he introduced me to his friends.
What I am trying to say is that married and single SDs have different attitude towards sugar dating. Single ones looking for a relationship type and married once oriented on strictly sugar relationship with limits.
Sounds not so bad, like, maybe with a single SD you can end up being a trophy wife? Actually, a lot of those men are not ready to go ahead. So, right now I am in relationships with my SD, yet I know that we both will never go further. He is 48. I am 20. He was never married and will probably never be. Once I will have to leave him and go, marry a guy and settle down. I know that he thinks the same. This is what separates us. He knows and our relationship can change any time so sometimes I feel that he is trying not to be too much into me. He is trying to stop himself...
Also, I don't have that much freedom which I could have had if I had a married SD, and I am not as privileged as a gf, because at some point I am his SB only. (For ex, he will never introduce me to his family and his relatives).
I am in the middle between SB and Gf and I am experiencing the worst and the best sides of it at the same time.
Well, thats it. Just to warn you girls that single SDs have their disadvantages.